you.your boyfriend and your child lived with your parents? you were getting ready to move out in another 2 months once your house was ready to move in too..and no matter what you did it wasn't good enough? as if your parents were always ready to bust you and your boyfriend on every little bitty thing? my question here is how would you cope when your at your ends in trying to please them?
2006-10-27 21:50:08 · 9 answers · asked by love_soft_kisses_behind_my_knees 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you could try talking with your folks, if that doesn't work and there is no other place for the three of you to go, just bite your tongue,until you all are able to get into your own house...you are staying with them and it is their rules after all.....just continue to buy your time....i know this is easier said then done,also maybe you could leave durning the daytime and hang out with other family or friends to give your parents a break....only come to * their * home when its time for bed...best wishes dear
2006-10-27 21:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all were your parents this way BEFORE your boyfriend moved in? If not Then I believe they do not approve of him, and will not tell you. Some parents are so sat in their ways that they do not budge. So stop feeling bad about trying to please them. Just start thinking of the day you will be moving and prepare your things so that when that day comes you are out of there. Let them complain but continue to do right by them. And when you move out make sure you do not allow any situation to put you right back there. Because you can only do you best to please people but some you cannot please at all.
2006-10-27 22:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by vhat40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask friends or aunts and uncles if we could stay a week with them to give your folks a break. Then do that every other week until you can move into your new place. It will take tension off for short periods of time and keep your parents out of your hair..
2006-10-27 21:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by nixkuroi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have lived this situation with my mother-in-law and there is no easy answer. There is no way you are going to please them, but you do need to all sit down and discuss this. For us, it all ended with a huge argument, that seemed to fester to the point where my partner moved us 4000kms from the trouble she was causing. That said, I have an ok relationship with her now, and have learnt how to put her back in her place, and vica versa, but my partner has nothing to say to her....don't go that road the pain for all is enormous
2006-10-27 21:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of you need to sit down and talk. It could be they want you to leave now. It could be they don't want you to leave at all. If you have a baby and no husband it seems you are young and foolish. They may be trying to protect you. But if they are protesting about everything you do...you live with them...try to do everything right.
Again, the mature thing would be to sit down and talk about this with all 4 of you involved.
2006-10-27 22:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, stop trying to please them You live w/ them and have to abide by some of their rules in the house but you don't have to "please" them. I'm guessing you're still a little young. Have you ever lived out of your parent's home? When you do, you know longer have to live by other's rules and they'll have to get used to that. It's almost over.
2006-10-27 21:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st you have to ask yourself....why are you living with them to begin with? dont give an excuse for that question.
2nd maybe you have not pleased them from the beginning.
example...sounds like you, or your bouyfriend gots lots of time on your hands hangin round the house is he laying up sleeping till 2 in the afternoon with no job, lots O time on his hands
Are you being forced to stay there?
2006-10-27 21:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by AD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move out-then write them off
2006-10-27 21:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
smile a lot stay out of their way
2006-10-27 21:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋