Should I leave ...theyve been fighting for past 26 years..Im 23. I heard they fought before me too.
So would leaving the house be a mistake..Im tired and dont know how to help..Ive talked to them over and over again and now my mom talks bad about dad for 2/3 of the day..I cant argue with her coz she shutsme up..I tell her I dont like backbiting and I like dad too so dont want to back bite she keeps talking and wants me to say YES SHE IS RIGHT or else she gets mad and tells me I dont luv her and that Im the only one she has.
What do I do??? My dad has many problems but he earns a very hand some salary for us. Mom does alot of work around the house . ..
2006-10-28 00:44:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I do want to leave and sort my head out a little before they marry me off...I just am not in the mental condition to cope...plz help....
2006-10-28 00:48:28 · update #1
Ok. You are stuck between a rock and hard place aren't you?
If you work and can afford it, then I would move out. If you do work and can't afford to live by yourself then I would get a roommate to split the expenses with. Just make sure the other person is honest and has a steady job.
If you don't work then try to find a job and move out.
If you are in college, live with your parents long enough to finish school, get a job and then move out.
Try to be out of house while dad is gone to work so you don't have to listen to your mom. And try to gently explain to your mom that you love both of them but really don't want to hear about their issues because it hurts you. Talk to her about it with dad in the room so dad doesn't think you talking about him behind his back. Be prepared for her to get nasty with you about but stick by your guns about not hearing it.
She should be talking the problem over with your dad not with you. Remind her it really isn't any of your business.
Don't be too surprised that dad can't take it anymore and leaves her.
Peace
2006-10-28 00:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by pj_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sigh** I know this crap.
Anyway, I believe that you have the rights to talk.I mean look at you, you are 23 years old! You are an adult and you can make up your own decisions. Now I suggest that if you feel like a piece of **** been stucked in the middle of them two, then give yourself a lone time. I don't know...go for vacation, go to the beach, hotel, ANYTHING that makes you feel relaxed, confortable, and give yourself time to think over things. Don't worry, it's not your fault at all. =)
So relax and enjoy your life, you are very young. Get a boyfriend, something =P
2006-10-28 00:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself together before going anywhere! You also must realize that parents often stay together because of fear of what will be afterwards. You must also know that you are not the cause of their problems, they will always have problems if it has been going on as long as you say. Get yourself a good paying job, your head together, and then try it on your own. Good Luck to you!
2006-10-28 00:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Cher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 23. Get out. And don't get involved with their business. If they can't stand each other they would have split 26 years ago.
2006-10-28 00:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Brain_scurvey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to make some meeting and have conversation with them.......... If not then maybe you should leave for a while and come back to see them and see what would happen.
2006-10-28 00:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just submitted this question, sweetie and got your answers. You sound as screwed up as they do. You are a big girl and should be earning your own living. Stop submitting these questions over and over.......no one cares about your whining!
2006-10-28 00:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're 23, if ur tired of it, leave
2006-10-28 00:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by justme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....at this age...you should have been long gone out of the house....they need there space...yes..you are thier child...but even roomates got to go....take a vaca...and see what happens when your gone for a while....
2006-10-28 00:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're going to have to leave someday, and you do deserve some peace and quiet.
2006-10-28 00:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguments are their staple diet.Dont rob them of it or life would be boring.
2006-10-28 00:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋