Family - September 2006

I have been hanging out with a guy named Bobby for a few weeks now. My parents just found out about him now that I've gone to college. I'm 18 and he's 24...not the best situation, however it works for us. I know I messed up by lieing to my stepdad about him when he first found out. I knew they wouldn't like him. Now that my mother knows, I told her the real story.

I don't want my parents to meet him because I know they won't like him. They insist on me giving them "answers," but I don't know exactly what they have a problem with. I'm 18-years-old and have never had a relationship. All I want is for them to not be so judging and give me some slack. I'm a good kid. I work hard in school and run with the right crowds.

Can anyone help me analyze this or possible give me tips on what to say or expect in our next chat? Thank you so much!

2006-09-13 17:29:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is crazier than the average ex. We've already had to file harrassment charges against her because of obscene phone calls made by her and several of the young girls she hangs out with. She threatened to call Children and Youth on me just about 2 weeks ago and I got a letter in the mail today saying there will be a case worker coming to investigate. I want to know if there is some legal action I can take against her for filing a report that is known to be false. For example, am I able to sue her or file for a restraining order?

2006-09-13 17:13:34 · 9 answers · asked by glucas112 1

just wanted to know cos my queen bed feels kinda small now. Don't know if I'm getting too big or it's the bed that is shrinking!

2006-09-13 17:04:05 · 30 answers · asked by John Buck 1

i hate my parents, they make me hurt myself physically and mentally and i dont want to be with them anymore, what should i do?

2006-09-13 16:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by Kasi 1

i hate my parents, they make me hurt myself physically and mentally and i dont want to be with them anymore, what should i do?

2006-09-13 16:49:03 · 15 answers · asked by Kasi 1

my nephew has just experienced the first death of a person he is close to his uncle they use to play all the time and fight. my nephew is 5 and currently sick himself. i want to know if you guys think it is a good ideal to take him to the funeral.

2006-09-13 16:44:00 · 9 answers · asked by Water's Away 3

Can you help me make a list? I made a poll at this site: http://www.ipollu.com/index.php?pollaction=true&poll=What%20is%20a%20good%20name%20for%20a%20baby%20boy? So if you could just add whatever name you like or vote on it if it is already there. Thanks!!

2006-09-13 16:42:54 · 15 answers · asked by mentpol1247 1

I'm a single father. I work and then become mom and dad after 4. I do everything at home but the other day someone asked me what chores I get her to do ( like before I let her watch cartoons or whatever). Got me thinking. What should I get her to do? she can't sweep - too small. She already puts her toys away in a big basket. Any ideas?

2006-09-13 16:24:07 · 33 answers · asked by VIP 4

2006-09-13 16:21:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't think I am but this came up the other day when we were watching a video at my house with some friends. I asked her if she had her diaper on and she said yes she just put in on right before, and then my friends were like "what are you talking about?!?!" I told them that she has to go to the bathroom too much and I don't want to pause the movie and wait because it ruins the feel of it. If we go on a long trip in the car I have her wear one too because I don't feel like stopping so much. Sure she was uncomfortable at first but she has got used to it. My friends think I'm really messed up but I'm sure there is other people that make their girlfriends or wives wear these. Am I really messed up here? I really don't think I'm being unreasonable.

2006-09-13 16:11:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. I have no family, and would like to know if there are other's out there like me. How do you cope? Where does one go on Xmas morning, or dinner? what do you do on your birthday?

2006-09-13 16:09:19 · 15 answers · asked by bcgal 2

i have shared a house with my sister for a year. she helped me out when i needed it. but now i have a good paying job and have found a place that i want to move to but she does not make enough money to support herself and i really want my own place. what should i do.

2006-09-13 16:04:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

why dont parents let me have a boy friend

2006-09-13 16:02:29 · 11 answers · asked by BrEnDa ReYeS 1

Help!! Ok my mom and step-dad keep fight and my step-dada said he wanted a divorce...so they did not talk for 2 days then my mom got all sweet and i don't know what to do and i asked and she said don't mind it and we got into a huuuge fight and now we aren't talking so my question is.....WHAT DO I DO??please only answers

2006-09-13 16:00:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been trying to move out of my brother's place for the past six months, but loss of a job has delayed that process. She said she won't help me move out until I can get steady on my medication and also find another job. But my last job I got fired from and it took me over a year to find that job through a job coach.

My mom thinks that I am lazy, but I have a disability and have trouble working. It is not that I don't try; rather, I am distracted easily and have a form of ADD.

I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place, and my father isn't much of a help either (he's just as stubborn as she is, unwilling to help out until "conditions" are met, etc.).

So how is this resolved? Do I explain to them my situation, and continue to argue with them endlessly, or just grab some boxes and move out myself (I don't own a car)?

Paul

2006-09-13 15:59:33 · 19 answers · asked by dunric 1

I'm talking about those who are leaving the nest(their parents house) and starting their own lives. People nowadays stay dependent on their parents to pay the bills until their thirty or older. how can people be so pathetic?
My parents couldn't support me if they wanted to, in fact i lend them money, and i don't have a roommate, i totally support myself since i was 19. Why don't parents just wean their kids off of the milk?

2006-09-13 15:46:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 15:23:24 · 3 answers · asked by rebzach3776 1

i used to have this friend but she got jelous of me because her old best friend does not like her anymore and now the girl that doesnt like her is my best friend.The girl tries to steal her back but my new best friend does not even like her.She wont leave us alone!!!!

2006-09-13 15:23:22 · 5 answers · asked by alliy 2

What are the plus and minus in both the conditions

2006-09-13 15:21:52 · 7 answers · asked by hahahaha 2

Examples: Mom,Dad,Sister,Brother.

2006-09-13 15:11:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even in the shower or while having 'relations' (so she says...I don't peek)

2006-09-13 15:02:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

some thinks its a hobby and it needs to stop its not only hurting them but u too dose everyone jug people and crap and they dont even no each other y cant everone just exsept every one because trust me i would know how it feels cause iv been through it and so has everyone ealse and i think that u should think very well about this and also iv done it to people actaly i bet everyone has and when i got home and thought about it i actaly feelt realy bad . i think it should stop and if u think the same i challenge u to get others to do the same and if not and u dont then i challenge u to go to www.challengeday.org and even if u do beleave in me do the same and go to www.challengeday.org iv took the class 4 a hole day at school with out leaveing that room and its hard to share ur thoughts and i think u should think about everything that gose wroung in your life and also...what uv done or something that u feel bad about what ever and go to www.challengeday.com and read about it and also thi

2006-09-13 14:52:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know there's tons of places to go. Does anyone know of a place to go that won't cost 50 + dollars? It seems wherever I go someone is wanting to rip you off just to get a peice of paper. Anyone know of a legit place to turn to? I'd need it from San Antonio, Texas in case you are wondering.

2006-09-13 14:42:08 · 11 answers · asked by Jennifer 4

My parents have been searching through my and my brothers cabinets lately for parafinalia which would refer to alcohol, marijuana, and/or ciggarettes.

2006-09-13 14:40:55 · 40 answers · asked by Hannibal 1

she wont go to the bathroom any morre she askes me buy her thoese feel and learn potty training pants.
she ALSO WETS THE BED I PUT HER TO BED DRY NIGHTS SHE IS 8 YEARS OLD I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE

2006-09-13 14:29:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 14:22:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost my 36 year old son a healthy father of 3 on may31 and today we buried my 84 year old father in law

2006-09-13 14:03:09 · 11 answers · asked by greenjeans 1

2006-09-13 13:54:23 · 7 answers · asked by simonsezgosnow 1

2006-09-13 13:45:38 · 10 answers · asked by angf22 2

ok, so i have an older sister. i am big on the enviroment, and then she says, im going to join the save the earth club. and now we both want to dance!!! GRRR! please help!

2006-09-13 13:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by bookworm0-0 3