Help!! Ok my mom and step-dad keep fight and my step-dada said he wanted a divorce...so they did not talk for 2 days then my mom got all sweet and i don't know what to do and i asked and she said don't mind it and we got into a huuuge fight and now we aren't talking so my question is.....WHAT DO I DO??please only answers
2006-09-13 16:00:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do you love both your mom and step-dad enough to set them down and talk to them and tell them you are upset when they fight all the time.
2006-09-13 16:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by tootles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum and step-dad could be fighting over some small matters and keep patching up after every fight. You should not get involved in their fights and arguments. Of course it could be stressful to you but try to control your emotions and just be normal to them. But if your step-dad is abusive and violent to your mum or both start behaving violently, then you have every right to report them to the relevant authorities and take the necessary action to ensure your safety and well being.
2006-09-13 23:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People fight. And you should not get involve yourself in your parents argument. It doesn't involve you and is basically none of your business. If their fight bothers you that much then you should sit down with the both of them and tell them how their fighting makes you feel: sad, mad, scared whatever. But you have to do this when everyone is calm. You shouldn't try to talk seriously when people are really upset because they won't really hear you.
2006-09-14 16:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should better talk with your mom in a good way as in a good way.. I think your mom is trying her best to get their relationship going and the more shell do that the more that "husband"of her's want the divorce or he will only abuse the sweetness your mother is giving to him.. tell her that..
2006-09-13 23:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by natalie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need to fight with your mom regarding her relationship matters? I am sure she knows what she's doing and what she wants from her relationship, so try not to interfere!
You can give your views if they are sought, but they are just your views and not your decision. It is their future, so let them decide their future. You are not your mother's keeper, are you? So try not to control her behaviour and actions.
2006-09-13 23:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moms and dads fight - best to stay out of it -Tell your mom you are sorry - and drop it
2006-09-13 23:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just tell them to stop fight ting and pertend to pack your bags so they would start to talking or just talk to your mom a lone and be serious and talk about it !!!
2006-09-13 23:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by BrEnDa ReYeS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it, it's their fight, not yours, if you try to butt in it will only make it worser on you..........
2006-09-13 23:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by miss.d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋