I don't think I am but this came up the other day when we were watching a video at my house with some friends. I asked her if she had her diaper on and she said yes she just put in on right before, and then my friends were like "what are you talking about?!?!" I told them that she has to go to the bathroom too much and I don't want to pause the movie and wait because it ruins the feel of it. If we go on a long trip in the car I have her wear one too because I don't feel like stopping so much. Sure she was uncomfortable at first but she has got used to it. My friends think I'm really messed up but I'm sure there is other people that make their girlfriends or wives wear these. Am I really messed up here? I really don't think I'm being unreasonable.
2006-09-13 16:11:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No, my g/f is not retarded...she is a very healthy girl
2006-09-13 16:19:03 · update #1
Yup, messed up. Sorry dude. But obviously so is she soooo who cares?
2006-09-13 16:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by JULIE J 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It sounds to me like you both have some issues.
You - you are a very controlling person. You want to always be in charge and to be the one who always makes the decisions between you and your girlfriend. Fortunately for her, she is just that so far, your girlfriend, not your wife.
Being your girlfriend means she doesn't have to obey you or do anything you tell her unless she really wants to. You don't own her and even if you were married you still wouldn't own her.
Her - If your girlfriend is being obedient to your every whim then she has some problems too. She has a low self esteem to let a control freak like you walk all over her and run her life for her.
If this is something she willingly agrees to then that is a different story, but she still has issues for wanting to be dominated by an uncaring, and apparently unloving boyfriend.
Either way, if I were her, I'd run like hell, as far away from you as I could and go straight to a judge and get a restraining order against you. The only trouble with that is that a piece of paper won't stop idiots like you.
I feel sorry for both of you.
2006-09-14 07:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow......That's messed up. What's wrong with you? What's wrong with her? Why would she date someone like you? Huh? Why would she actually wear a diaper for certain occasions, so that she can suit you? There must be something seriously wrong with you and her. To accommodate you, when you twp watch a movie and/or go on long trips, she wears a diaper. To accommodate her, what do you do? Its probably okay for her to pullover for a second so that you can use the bathroom, but not okay for you to pullover for her. You both need to change. ISSUES GALORE! I'm not trying to be mean, but you wanted an answer and the fact that you would make a suggestion like that is unreasonable. And you should be ashamed of yourself.
2006-09-13 16:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't agree with your approach and it's likely your girlfriend could be helped if she would visit a doctor and discuss the issue. There are various reasons for frequent urination including diabetes, polycystic ovary syndrome and overactive bladder. The faster she sees a doctor the sooner her condition can be evaluated and treated.
In the mean time, the decision of whether to wear an adult diaper should be hers, not yours. I wouldn't be so sure she's entirely comfortable with it - while it may save her embarrassment on some levels it's likely still there on others. Be kind to her and encourage her to seek medical attention.
2006-09-13 16:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Newlungs2004 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe you make your girlfriend wear a DIAPER! Does she have a mind of her own or are you the only one with "brains" in the relationship. You are a control-freak. Let the girl use the bathroom whenever she wants. Controlling the bathroom habits of another person, whom you supposedly care about, speaks volumes about your ability to function in the normal world. This is called ABUSE. I feel for your girl that she believes this will keep you happy. This is only the beginning of a long, sad chapter in her life.
2006-09-13 16:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ABSOLUTELY WRONG! Surely your girlfriend can go to the bathroom before the movie or the trip and not drink so much liquids during. How would you like to wear a diaper?
2006-09-13 16:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by katie 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow. Not only are you wrong, but that's just nuts. Yes you're messed up man. She's an adult, and you're making her go in a diaper for your fun times.
2006-09-13 16:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by *Juicy Princess* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes is very messed up, no one wants to soil themselves and have to sit in it for how ever long. If you don’t like the fact your girlfriend has to use the restroom often then you should probably get a new girlfriend.
2006-09-13 17:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why not put on a diaper too! You are self centered and mean! The world does not spin around you! What you want and when you want it. I think your girlfriend should find someone better than you.
2006-09-13 16:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are very messed up and you need help. Your gf needs help with her self-esteem problem that which is you. No girl will ever wear a diaper. It sucks to have a pervert like you on the face of earth, who thinks he can abuse people. Please do us another favor: change your attitude or hang yourself.
2006-09-13 19:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by azngurl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't agree with making her. If you ask her and she says ok then well that is her choice to do that. What dose she think of have to wear a diaper? Is she ok with it that is what really matters.
2006-09-15 08:20:56 · answer #11 · answered by ogpeanut6 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋