why dont parents let me have a boy friend
2006-09-13 16:02:29 · 11 answers · asked by BrEnDa ReYeS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
because they care for you and are being protective. that's what parents want for their kids.
they also know what most boys at your age want from girls. like I said, they're being protective.
sort out your education first and get a job. you'll have plenty of time to find one who will like you for who you are as a person and not just for your body.
good luck.
2006-09-13 16:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. You are too young to have b/g relationships. They are protecting you from getting hurt by failed relationships, which is very common. Why young b/g relationship usually fail? Mainly because:
1. Couples are not matured enough to assess whether their partner suits them over the long term.
2. Youngsters values and views change as they grow older. Hence what they value earlier on about their partners, drop.
3. When we are young, we think more of fun than of the consequences of committed relationships. Complications will arise when we grow older, and fun becomes secondary.
4. Many more new factors arise when marriage is involved. Financial independence, children, in-laws, real character and behaviour revealed because of lowered defences when you stay together, etc
So, do you still think your parents are wrong to protect you from your ignorance as long as they could? Believe me, they know, because they've been there!
2006-09-13 16:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupid girls that are way too young get pregnant and parents are forced to babbysit and care for an infant while its mother is in andout of family court telling the judge the father of her child is no where to be found and she needs$12 for babyfood and pampers and judge gives her medicaid and foodstamps and a roach-infested $100 a month apartment with homeless guys upstairs and druggies downstairs..PS.one out of seven was on welfare in NYC back in 1995 . 10 years later, there all gone away.....THAT'S WHY. wait till u r 17 0r 18. stay in school
2006-09-13 16:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most parents set a certain age for letting their children have boyfriends or girlfriends because of maturity. You need to have a certain amount of maturity, self-esteem, and responsibility before you should have a boyfriend.
2006-09-13 16:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents do what they feel is best for their children. Parents have lived their life and actually know a lot about a lot of things.
2006-09-13 16:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably to young, a mature 14, or 15 is a good time to start dating.
2006-09-13 16:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you are too young to have one. You might not think so, but your parents do know whats best for you and do have your best interests at heart.
2006-09-13 16:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they r trying to protect u and make sure that u dont get into something that u maybe rnt ready to handle. try convincing them that GROUP dates r okay- in a public place. and it always helps to let them meet him- then they may trust u more. also, always tell them where u r going- and dont lie
2006-09-13 16:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that they don't want for you to have a boyfriend, it is that they are not ready to accept what comes with that! Dates, kissing, possible sex...... and you know what that brings, right? Well let me spell it out BABY!
2006-09-13 16:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by David R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's b-coz you're too young! You are probably seeing this person as "COOL", but they're seeing him for what he is........
NO GOOD!
Give your parents a break, they just want what's best for you!
2006-09-14 01:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by sassyjo_73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋