Family - September 2006

i know you only ever have one mother but my mom has never been there for me throughout my life (i'm 34 now). She left my dad when i was 11 for another man, taking my siblings and me with her. after 3 months, we were sent back to my dad and she moved in with this guy. to me, i saw it that she had to chose between he b/f or us and chose him! She has continued to put her partners before her children ever since. One example, my sister found it unbearable at home, sought refuge with my mom but she wouldnt upset her relationship and placed her with strangers!
i walked out on my husband and kids last year cos he was violent towards me but not the kids. my mom was the only one i confided in about the violence yet 2 weeks after i left, she visited him and i know it wasnt to see the kids cos she never had anything to do with them before! my dad has been there for me, i havent spoken to my mom for 20 months and feel i'd be betraying my dad by getting in touch with her again

2006-09-13 11:39:19 · 23 answers · asked by Mizz Julie 3

Go ahead and call me heartless if you like. I've been called worse and have always gotten over it.

2006-09-13 11:37:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, first of all, I'll be 17 in exactly two months. When I turned 16, my parents made me wait 2 months to get my driver's permit. I got winter experience and all that, and I asked my mom if I can schedule my road test, and she said no, and that she wanted me to get "more winter experience". First of all, I HAVE winter experience and I just want my darn license. I even completed a driver's education course last spring. I'm sick of waiting for something that I actually want a lot. I don't ask for much. In fact, they hardly make the time for me to go driving anymore.


Why do my parents have to be like this? It's just no fair at all, and I really mean that. I mean, people younger than me have had their licenses for MONTHS. I just want more freedom and I want to be happy about something for once.

I'm grateful for any answers to this question.

2006-09-13 11:35:33 · 11 answers · asked by J13891 4

2006-09-13 11:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by ayi malsa 1

2006-09-13 11:34:45 · 2 answers · asked by esmarelda 1

That's my cousin. I'm just teasing him.

2006-09-13 11:29:46 · 5 answers · asked by Janay L 1

Not just your Kids but with Kids in general

2006-09-13 11:25:03 · 6 answers · asked by lsb09 1

2006-09-13 11:10:38 · 14 answers · asked by o0ojazzo0o 4

i have just recently found the relatives of someone, he does not know yet and iam waiting for a number, i am sure its legitimate, how do i go about this emotional time?

2006-09-13 11:08:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 11:07:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

My son told me last night he hates me and he aways has the only reason why he was nice to me latley was so he could get his driver's licence. I have never done anything to the boy what so ever he blames me that his dad won't let him use our family car as well. But its not up to me its up to his dad. how do I recover from this. At first I thought that he was just upset but this morning he said mum remember mum I hate you so leave me alone and never talk to me again. I love this kid but why is it me that he is blaming for his dad not letting him drive our car for. Please some advice on this how I can get over this feeling I have knowing my son hates me.

2006-09-13 11:05:30 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs Magoo 4

The guy who threw himself and kids off a balcony drunk and killed his son, do you sympathise, or are you reviled by him?

2006-09-13 11:00:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its 11pm, im not tired, nothing is on tv and i cant see many good questions to answer.
Help....Im so bored.

2006-09-13 10:56:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there anyone who actually likes their mother-in-law?

2006-09-13 10:50:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

been married 10yrs to my husband and he has raised my 2 daughters since they were 1 and 3yrs old.Recently my oldest daughter came to live with us because of problems with the step-mom and real father.all went well until my daughter and my husband started not to get along!!i am in the middle ,what should i do??i havent seen my oldest daughter in atleast 5 or 6 yrs. because of an ongoing problem with her real dad!!one more thing to add,my x-husband has shown little or no interest in his 2 daughters that live with me and my husband!!!my husband has been there for my girls ever since we met!!and they love him as their real dad!!!!

2006-09-13 10:42:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

which side should i take when it comes to my spouse or my kids???

2006-09-13 10:24:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

which side should i take when it comes to my spouse or my kids???

2006-09-13 10:23:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the past I have been having problems with family members that have been really nasty to me. And the only way I could retaliate was to be just like them and fight back. But for the first time in my life I instead of getting angry and fighting back, did two things the person in question was shouting at me and pointing his fingers, so I went to walk away, then he stood near the door so I could'nt pass so I asked to pass him thenI walked out through the other door. When I came back in the room he was gone. Then he came back again and starting shouting again this time I said to him you can't hurt me anymore, you can't anoy me any more. All your looking for is a reaction. He then calmed down and walked away. So you see, a calm approach is the best approach thanx guys for teaching me this and I will keep this up for ever? thank you. And as the saying goes what goes around comes around he will soon get his cumupance.

2006-09-13 10:22:18 · 2 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2

What does tail gating mean when attending a boading shchool help!

2006-09-13 10:18:54 · 3 answers · asked by marydee92 2

I'm concerned about my friend..he's dating this girl who believes everything should be 50/50. She doesn't believe the man is in charge and she doesn't want to take his last name. This sounds like it is headed for disaster. What do you all think I should do?

2006-09-13 10:16:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 10:14:32 · 1 answers · asked by ashley c 1

my uncle's name is Carmelo A. Liwag, i don't know his current address or telephone number.

2006-09-13 10:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Tony Liwag 1

2006-09-13 10:02:23 · 5 answers · asked by Lauren C 2

what time on a normall night and what time on a champions league night for a mad keen fooball suporter?

2006-09-13 09:54:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Also, I would like to know if tis medication can cause nightmares and hallucinations.

2006-09-13 09:50:23 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1

iam going trough some financial ploblems and i will have to let go af vehicle. will i ever get my credit back.

2006-09-13 09:49:55 · 5 answers · asked by juanitaspn 1

2006-09-13 09:48:51 · 1 answers · asked by gigiellis2 1

My sister, who is five years younger than me, just came home from school crying because she doesnt have any friends. She says they all turned against her, and ignore her like she doesn't exist (I'm using different words than she would because she's only in 2nd grade.) She's now filled with self-loathing that has turned her into a non-stop crying freak! She likes her friends and even made a new one the other day, one that had the same name as her, and they all turned against her. I've told her everything I could think of but she won't listen. Do you have any suggestions? (Remember, she's only 7!)

By the way, if any of you try to give me shhit to tell her or say something mean, I swear I'll f*cking rip you apart! Tha tmeans don't say anything like, oh she's just a brat... you know, shhit like that.

And one last thing, she's really smart, pretty for her age, and she's polite, nice and very caring about everyone and anyone around her. So help a sister out!

2006-09-13 09:46:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want my daughter to start with cheerleading but it is so expensive. Is it worth it to have her start so young?

2006-09-13 09:42:29 · 12 answers · asked by alposgirl 1

If you are really mad at someone how do you get back at them with out hurting them and without getting into trouble with the law.Or hurting their kids.

2006-09-13 09:31:55 · 8 answers · asked by Shadows mommie 1