which side should i take when it comes to my spouse or my kids???
2006-09-13 10:23:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your spouse .
youll teach your kids to under mind not only him but you to .
you both have to stick with each other ,
your kids will learn a great deal from this .
2006-09-13 10:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to raise manipulative little *******, take your kids' side. If you want to work as a team with your husband and have him back you up in your discipline practises (do you have any? you should) then take your husband's side.
Of course I'm saying this under the pretense that your husband isn't hitler and has reasonable rules. Sounds like that might be an issue in this case. If it is an issue, sounds like you should run far, far away from your husband and take your kids with you.
2006-09-13 17:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by LAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your husband should equally set rules, they should be things you both agree on. As far as the children breaking those rules, take the side you feel is justified and correct in the actions, be it him or the children. Fair is fair regardless of age/authority position.
2006-09-13 17:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always stand behind your husband . If you don't , you will devide and the kids will run all over both of you and play one against the other . If you do not agree on some points discuss
this when the two of you are alone . Stand united .
2006-09-13 17:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋