Family & Relationships - 6 November 2007

went to this party a few months ago in san diego and i got this guys number. hes really cute and i cant stop thinking about him. ive been talking to him a lot since the party but how can i make him like me or how can i tell if he likes me. also hes 3 to 4 yrs older than me

2007-11-06 11:07:32 · 1 answers · asked by gotjkg 1 in Singles & Dating

I never talked to her in my life, she smiles at me from across the room and she passed little love notes to me and she hugs me randomly and kisses me once in a while.

Today she came up to me and asked if she could kick me right in the nuts.

I thought it wouldnt hurt but it did, and then she asked if she could do it daily.

What do I do!?! I would hate to break her heart?

2007-11-06 11:06:05 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just cannot trust anyone anymore. I have problems trusting my siblings and now my boyfriend. He was here in the U.K for 3 months and now he is gone to the other side of the world (2 months go). He will be back next week and I'm terrified. He is threatening to leave me if I keep accusing him of what he has not done. I don't want to lose him because of my past relationships, where men and friends broke my trust. I want to love him and stop hurting him and myself.

2007-11-06 11:04:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it ok y or y not

2007-11-06 11:01:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she receives calls from guys at very odd times like at night whiles we are in bed but says they are her mates. we get on very well when she is not angry or talking to other guys on phone. am i being jealous or could she be up to something? she is leaving the UK on sunday back to the states and i can't stop thinking. Help!

2007-11-06 11:00:17 · 11 answers · asked by Michael Bates 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 10:56:16 · 5 answers · asked by Perfectwings 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am rather shy and an introvert.
He has a very strong personality and doesn't really mean to be controlling but he just takes over.
And he will notice it, and say "OK, you carry the conversation" but I feel put on the spot and draw a blank. I feel so stupid at that point.
There is so much I want to talk about but I just feel overwhelmed.

2007-11-06 10:51:32 · 2 answers · asked by Chiticallando 2 in Singles & Dating

have 2 kids both citizens, she is not what will happen to her.

2007-11-06 10:51:10 · 12 answers · asked by j w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been talking to this guy, and he's extremely shy, but we've met and hung out a couple times. We had plans Saturday but he didnt feel well, so he canceled. I was upset, but we made plans for tomorrow, and he cant make it because he said he has family things. When we talk, he talks about how he wants to be with me, just wants to take his time, and how he couldnt wait to see me Wed. I know theres not another girl, so Im not thinking that, but do you think it was just a nasty coincidence that he has a family gathering he has to go to? Or do you think he's just really shy? Its driving me nuts! I'm 21, he's 19.

2007-11-06 10:51:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would it make you mad if 3 out of 5 days he didn't come home after work? Plus every Sunday was gone & works Saturdays?

2007-11-06 10:49:37 · 28 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

well who doesn't know that!

But have you ever watched a drama series and wished*If only my relationship was like that ..or... I wish my relationships can start off like that*
E.g. Girl and guy meet by accident and they hate each other at first. The guy is a bad boy but the girl soon realises that he really has a sweet soft side to him too. They soon fall for each other....

it's just so sweet :P but that'll never happen in real life

*sigh*

Opinions??

2007-11-06 10:49:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just reciently parted ways with a emotionally abusive husband. I am heartbroken and am trying to start the healing process. Any uplifting or inspirational words to help me feel better?

2007-11-06 10:47:55 · 24 answers · asked by Christie C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 24 and getting a bald spot in the back middle of my head.. darn!

2007-11-06 10:46:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This morning on the bus I was sitting with my boyfriend, and this girl (she thinks she is my friend) sitting infront of turns around and stares at us the entire bus ride.

It made both me and my b/f nervous, what should I do to make her stop? Why does she do this? Is she jelous?

2007-11-06 10:45:14 · 5 answers · asked by bms 2 in Singles & Dating

The woman I like is 30 and im 25. we have a date set for this sat, and i dont know where to take her or what to do. Im thinkin of goin to hibachi which is sushi food place. Is that good? what should we do after dinner? I really want to impress her as well. thanks im open to any suggestions

2007-11-06 10:43:40 · 2 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has just made up with me sort of WOO :D:D:D:D Im happy now lol :D:D:D

2007-11-06 10:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by no name 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. im not here to get judged. the situation itself is hard enough. i am 5 mos preg and my husb is physicaly, emotionally and verbally abusive. and i know it. and as stupid as it may sound i dont want him to get in trouble. he is in the army and we live a stressful life. it usually only happens when he drnks but not always. wehn i was about a month preg he threw me in the closet an shut the door and thought itwas soo funny. and another time he did the same thing after i has asked him where he was going and he got mad and said i asked too many questions i was almost 2 1/2 mos. b4 i got preg and moved in with him four states away from home, to where he is stationed we had our fallouts bc he had cheated on me with two women a few weeks after we got married. i moved with him for ALL the wrong reasons i had hope but shoul have known. one day i was going on and on about these girls bc i really had no idea what they looked liked how far they lived if they were ever in OUR house with him...

2007-11-06 10:41:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

take advantage of their wives so bad? My husband seems to treat me like a piece of furniture i swear. Doesn't know im there till he needs to use me. Im really tired of it. I do not do this to him. If anything i go out of my way to make him know i need him and want him.

2007-11-06 10:38:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-06 10:38:15 · 7 answers · asked by lindadruz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife left a month ago to live in an adulterous relationship with a guy she met online. My question is then; Is adultry still considered a sin in todays liberalised society???
How long should I be prepared to give her before I attempt to pick up the pieces of my life and move on??? Considering I still love her greatly!!!

2007-11-06 10:31:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He left her and he and I met about 9 months later. We have been and lived together for over a year.
He calls to speak to the kids, if someone else is there she says loudly " I can't speak to you while you are drunk. There is no need to be abusive with me." Then she hangs up.She lied in the divorce papers, saying he has not seen the kids and he is a violent alcoholic who attacked her while she was pregnant. (The children have been to stay with us 7 or 8 times since we were together, and more before. My friend's tell me that she used to harrass and beat him, sometimes calling him 60 or 70 times whenever he went out). She uses the children, (6,5 and 2)getting them to ask their dad where his wedding ring is, and bribing them with new toys not to go and see him on his access visits (she has stopped residential access). I witness enough to know my partner is telling the truth, and see the damage she is causing the kids. Divorce and custody hearings are pending, but how can we weather this?

2007-11-06 10:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-06 10:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by *Lovely Phoenix* 4 in Singles & Dating

I was adopted when I was 6 weeks old. My dad is from a Ukrainian/Canadian farm family, so I was always smaller than everyone else. The old man always insisted that I get an education, and I was the first person in the family to convocate from university, much less graduate from high school. Most of my relatives are boilermakers, and when I was going through university, I did concrete work with my dad. He's told lots of folks that I was the best worker he ever had. I'm 37, and every decision I've made in my life was wrong, according to him, from where I was going to work (I'm a teacher), to which place I was going to rent. My wife and I have 3 sons, and he told us that we should abort each one, because we weren't ready for them. How do I deal with this man? I love him and respect him, but all I ever get from him is negativity!

2007-11-06 10:23:00 · 16 answers · asked by neil k 3 in Family

I have a male friend of many years who I just got back in contact with after some time. He is married and I recently met his wife. While over at their place having drinks she and I were chatting and she confessed to me that she has been sleeping around. During this conversation her husband walked in the room with a look on his face that can only be described as pure pain and hurt. I confronted him about the situation and he has known about his wife's acts for quite some time. It also turns out that he is very attracted to me and I to him. There has been talk of he and I having something on the side.... I just don't know what to do.

2007-11-06 10:22:23 · 29 answers · asked by Davina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I seem to be filling up the hospitals to the extent that they are thinking of naming a ward after me.

2007-11-06 10:20:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who is a better man...
Husband= kind hearted.caring.loving.puts his family above all.willing to compramise.fat.not so cute.very serious about life and all.treats his wife like a little girl all the time.totally makes his wife and kids a spoiled brats.have no ability to discipline and always end up being taken forgranted.never gives freedome to his wife coz he thinks that the world is not safe.so wife no malling alone or going out alone.financially not so stable.sex good.
Romeo=nice guy.financially stable.serious.very well mannered.
used to be scared of commitments.now willing and cant wait to married.educated.respectable.open minded.able to make rational decisions.have the ability to bring out the best in me as a person and human being.

2007-11-06 10:20:45 · 13 answers · asked by zelda z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been writing for about a year. i'm homeschooled, in great family, and Christian, she's a private university student, adopted into a Jewish family, and has a history of abuse. she's been through so much in life, and i don't want her to think i'm dropping her because of her past. i enjoyed writing to her and learning about her life and religion, but i don't have time to keep up with letters anymore. help!!!!

2007-11-06 10:19:38 · 24 answers · asked by :) 3 in Friends

I have just had a baby 5 months ago. I want to work from home, and start a self-business as a recruitment agency from home on my own.
I have worked in sales for 4 years before, so I think I can do it. However I have a lot of distractions and my mind is all over the place. Also I doubt myself if that's a good idea to start from now, or wait until the baby is 12 months and then start.
What do you think?
At the same time, I have problems with my husband too, mainly in the fact that he isn't interested in me sexually and we haven't slept together for 14 months. So that makes me very depressed and lowers my self-esteem. But I want to start and I believe that people can do wonders in very hard situations.

Do you think I can do it?

2007-11-06 10:18:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

abnormal sex drive? I mean I know all of that 'every couple is different' b.s., but how many of you out there actually can go without any for seventeen days, and go to bed that night without so much as mentioning it. And you're not mad at your hubby, he far from sucks in bed (in fact he does that to you every time you actually get it on, and is always full of new ways to satisfy you), and he gets hard when you just walk by. He's obviously in love with you. He does more than his share of the dishes, all of the laundry, works close to twice as much, gives the three kids their baths during the week, gets them to bed, and ready for school. Because of your work schedule, you're not home during these times, or need to sleep. He's always mindful of that, going out of his way to ensure your peacefulness.

And yet when you get the chance to be alone together, you don't mention sex, don't anticipate it, and seem to be able to go without it. Should your hubby really consider that normal?

2007-11-06 10:16:56 · 23 answers · asked by lovinglifeina69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl I really enjoy talking to, we have a lot in common and have spent a lot of time together. She trusts me pretty well. We have gone out to places just the two of us, but mostly coffee shops etc for an afternoon, nothing officially a 'date'. I don't wanna just come out and say, 'will you be in a relationship with me', but how can I further our relationship, because this is killing me. Most people have like a big crush on someone they barely know, but like I have loved the time I've spent with her, like I genuinely feel in love rather than an infatuation. What do I do!?

2007-11-06 10:15:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating