How do I continue?

Question

There is a girl I really enjoy talking to, we have a lot in common and have spent a lot of time together. She trusts me pretty well. We have gone out to places just the two of us, but mostly coffee shops etc for an afternoon, nothing officially a 'date'. I don't wanna just come out and say, 'will you be in a relationship with me', but how can I further our relationship, because this is killing me. Most people have like a big crush on someone they barely know, but like I have loved the time I've spent with her, like I genuinely feel in love rather than an infatuation. What do I do!?

Answer 1

Ask her out for a real date. ( don't word it like that though)
ASK HER OUT.

Answer 2

Stop being a pussy and tell her you want her to be your girlfriend. Tell her that you love the time you share with her and that you want to go to the next level (dating exclusively). Another thing dude, enough with the day dates. Taker her out to dinner and go for a walk and tell her what is on your mind. Flowers help too. Ask yourself this..Do you want to be her cuddle buddy for the rest of your life, while some other dude gets her first? Or do you want to be "The Man".

Answer 3

Just tell her how you feel, and ask her on a nice date. If not I'm in the same position, it took me a couple of weeks to say it but I did and it made me feel much better.

Answer 4

Before you say anything close to "Will you be in a relationship with me" you have to go on a real date.

A real date takes place at night, consisting of a dinner and a movie or a bar.

good luck.

Answer 5

Be thoughtful -
since you have spent so much time together... find something she has said she wants to do.. movie, concert, road trip etc.. and TAKE HER.. and then tell her how you feel! GOodluck