Family & Relationships - 6 November 2007

I just had a baby 5 days ago and my husband has been acting less of a new father and husband. He doesn't participate in anything, i have to pratically do everything even though i'm in so much pain. He's either on the internet or watching tv, and today, during lunch a drink spilled in the car coz' i put the drink on top of the compartment and he knocked it over and he blamed me for it, the baby was crying, and i didn't have a cup holder in the back of the car to put the drink inn, so when i told him to watch for the drink he yelled at me and called me stupid and yelled at me. I feel so depress, i feel like i made a huge mistake having this baby with him. He's so impatient with me and he just doesn't realize how painful it is to have a baby, he asked me "does it really hurt"? its like he's thinking i'm faking the pain, i don't know how to deal with the physical and the mental pain he's causing me. I just want to cry... i feel so bad for my baby that he sees me crying all the time.

2007-11-06 10:15:12 · 15 answers · asked by Valerie K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 and every time I like a guy, and I get really into them and I see signs they may like me back, I always end up taking a harsh blow. It hurts a lot when someone who you really like doesn't like you back, but it feels like it always happening to me. I'm not ugly but I'm not a beauty either, and I don't think I'm a bad person! lol, so I don't know what the problem is

Anyway, it's starting again, I really really like this guy and after our club, we all went to the pub tonight and we chatted for ages and since we live near each other we walked back together, there's always conversation etc but I'm really scared this guy is just gonna be another let down. I've only really spoken to him twice (long time though and in the pub) but I think he's really handsome and he seems like such a nice bloke.

How do I get over this fear ? It's making me not want to like him and also it gets me really depressed, I start worrying if maybe I said something wrong or came on too strong etc

2007-11-06 10:13:33 · 16 answers · asked by RLJ 5 in Singles & Dating

He wrote:
"4 real you're only 16, but I enjoy talking to you."

I am 16, hes 19 (just turned 19) His mom tried to start a fight because she thinks I like her oldest son (him) even though she has known me since I was 2 years old. I told him that it's not like that and this is what he replied with.

2007-11-06 10:09:22 · 4 answers · asked by *My_Oh_My* 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a huge Delema.
I meet a guy 6 years ago. it was love at first sight. unfortunatly he had to go back to europe but we stayed in contact over the phone and I still feel the same way as I did when we first meet.
in the mean while I meet another guy. we dated for 4 years. at first it ws nice then it turned into hell because he wanted to back to his ex. it did not last so I took him back,He went intothe army and we had a long distance relationship. he says he have change to a better person and I want to belive him. The guy in Europe is coming to the US because he want to start a life with me. They are both coming back at the same time. I dont know who should I choose

2007-11-06 10:09:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone's telling me to just move on from my ex but i'm so in love with him and i know we're still perfect together but he's too stubborn to admit he's wrong and is too loyal to break up with his new girlfriend. He's told me before in tears that he knows he made a mistake but he can't change anything now. I don't know why he wouldn't be able to change anything all he has to do is break up with her and ask me for forgiveness and i'd give it to him. It feels like ever since he broke up with me a part of me has been missing and i don't see how i can ever be whole again without him. Everyone just says move on but that's mostly from people who havn't gone through this. There's not a day that goes by that he doesn't cross my mind at least once. It's gotten better but i really don't think it's possible to ever really get over someone you're in love with. Everything reminds me of him and i compare all the new guys to him. I'm going crazy!!

2007-11-06 10:08:56 · 17 answers · asked by STILLhoping4alittleone 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been waiting 10yrs for my boobs to grow! no kidding i remember being 14yrs old and thinking "i still have time theyll grow" but that never happened im still a 32A and im sick of it all i want is to not have to buy tops in the little girls section, you see womens clothing is made for girls with boobs. I was dating a guy for 3 yrs who said he was a butt guy ( I really do have a very nice lower half) but he left me a month ago and his new girl has a chest out to you know where and no butt at all, I guess this just has me feeling down a little. Ive tried push up bras but i have nothing to push up! lol so can guy please tell me if its that big of a deal? I mean your fooling around things start to get good then her shirt comes off and you see......nothing! what goes through your head?

2007-11-06 10:08:44 · 4 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

all i know is their name,age and town they live in.am desperate to get in touch but have no phone number or address.have tried friends reunited but no luck.

2007-11-06 10:07:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I posted a similar question a while ago about my relationship with my stepfather, John. I've tried sitting down with him to talk, but that just led to awkward silence. Believe me I've tried just about everything, and even my brother's trying to help, but I just don't like John and I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me. And my mom still pretty much refuses to help and says this is something I need to work out with him but I kind of need my mother here! I've tried talking to everyone at dinner, but that worked for crap. Seriously, I have less than 3 years left in that house, but I don't want them to continue like this and I don't want to risk a broken relationship with my mom and brother in the future. Help!!!!

2007-11-06 10:05:49 · 3 answers · asked by Kate K 1 in Family

pretty simple question. Just looking for answers

2007-11-06 10:05:15 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this question is aimed towards the women who wife swap or husband swap or whatever. why wouldnt you want your husband to have sex with another woman when you want to have sex with another man?

2007-11-06 09:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so what do guys find unattractive in girls cause i was just wondering???

2007-11-06 09:51:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you living at your true potential?
why, or why not?

2007-11-06 09:49:55 · 9 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Friends

I'm scene, and there was this girl last year who would buy things that were like mine but like different colors so I didn't worry about it too much. But this year she's bought several things that are exactly like mine. Everyone thinks she's weird and a lot of people thought she was gay because she did everything I did last year. I've already confronted her and told her that 'It's cool if you like what I have, but getting the same stuff as me is kinda freaky.' and she replied, in a smart-alicky tone, 'I don't pay attention to what people have when I go shopping.' Help? What should I say?

2007-11-06 09:48:21 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

my friend has been really annoying me lately just by the things she does and shes always kicking me and stuff just for fun so i kick her back but don't know if im going overboard, plus i cant really say anything to her. am i just being jealous or is something wrong?

2007-11-06 09:44:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am getting my very best friend of 16 years a beautiful snow globe for Christmas and need to put something special on it but I do not know what to say. Inside the snow globe is an angel if that helps. Thanks!

2007-11-06 09:43:31 · 2 answers · asked by becky p 2 in Friends

Even love and marriage proposals were offered to me in my early 20s, I never married.My focus was and still is on my parents whose business got bankrupt.I learned to grow up facing people whom they had financial obligations from because my parents couldnt pay them.Luckily I finished college ang got a job.My younger brother got married in his teens and is relying on us.Although my father has work, it wasnt enough to sustain family needs so i give all my monthly salary and i get money for daily allowance only.im feeling tired of working for them & they are asking more from me because the whole family needs it.it hurts that my debts are piling up.i have no future,no security.no one bothers to appreciate my efforts.my father told me he raised me so i could provide for them & pay for their debts.he said that's my role and responsibility.i cant bear to see them humiliated by others but im so angry at them.i wish i know how to think of myself & future before them without feeling guilty....

2007-11-06 09:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by Bridget Jones The Breadwinner 1 in Family

Please tell me

2007-11-06 09:42:43 · 20 answers · asked by Mr. Advice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so here's the story... My husband and i eloped 6 months ago. I havent had contact with my inlaws since my husband and i were dating. During all 3 years off our relationship my inlaws have been very explicite about thier dislike of me and thier disaprovel of our relationship. Especially my father in law. As far as i can tell his whole family hates me for whatever reason ...my skin color, im too shy, ect. Now Thanksgiving is coming up and im expected to spend the holiday with them. Even though my inlaws have said many rude remarks to my face about my weight and my job. I would rather spend thanksgiving with my family (who is accepting) but my husband insists he wants to spend at least some thanksgiving time with his family and wants me to go. Do you think now that were married my inlaws will be nicer to me or should i get ready for some uncomfortable remarks? I am getting so tired of feeling like no matter what i do , i will never be good enough for thier son.

2007-11-06 09:39:49 · 39 answers · asked by Anne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is for a school report and I would need to ask the couple some questions.

2007-11-06 09:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and why?

2007-11-06 09:35:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My future husband and I have not had sex yet, we are waiting for the wedding night.

Is it all it is cracked up to be?
How did you feel after making love for the first time?
Was it painful at all?

Just curious, seeing as the date is quickly approaching.

2007-11-06 09:34:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what age do yall start getting boners?

2007-11-06 09:33:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so there's this boy i like and i think he likes me too, but it seems like he's shy around me, the same way i am when im around him. i really want to talk to him soon before some other girl comes along and tries to take him away from me, but i dont know what to say, besides "hey", to start up a good conversation. can somebody please help me??? cause i want to talk to him 2moro.

2007-11-06 09:30:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and never been kissed, had a boyfriend or been close to having a boyfriend. No one has even hinted at liking me. I always catch people staring at me but then i feel like i did something wrong or there is a stain on my t-shirt. I am a little overweight but its proportioned out so that you really cant tell. Could it be the fact that i am 5'11 and guys are intimidated by me.
i am shy when i first meet a person, but then the shyness goes away. I have spoken to a lot of my friends and it turns out that i give really bad first impressions.
as for a picture, here is one a friend took f me with my polaroid camera: http://a821.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/ima...

and its not that i don't come in contact with guys, its just that the ones i do come in contact with end up being friends and thats it.
I am just a little quirky.

2007-11-06 09:29:33 · 2 answers · asked by Funmilola A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 09:26:58 · 14 answers · asked by ksugirliedance01 1 in Singles & Dating

obviously its cuz of a guy. theres this guy i really like. we went out twice and he really hurt me the first time. but i forgave a forgot then we went out again. kissed, nd i broke up with him. i dont no why it just didnt feel rite. i like him...... alot. but i dont no what to do. i wrote him a message about how i feel but he didnt read it yet. what do i do? this guy gave me my first kiss so please dont tell me to forget him.

2007-11-06 09:26:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 09:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by denveremail 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i learned long ago that my bf and his ex gf talk to each other from time to time, which didnt bother me because they live in different contininets but at the same time, makes me question if they still got love for each other and what not. i told this to my man and he said that to help me prove that he doesnt have feelings for her anymore, he would be upfront about it, like tell me all about it when she calls and what they talked about and so on and so forth. this came from him and he promised this was something he'd do, well i busted him the other day and saw that they'd talked for 1hr and half and when i asked him if they'd talk recently, he denied it so i told him that if he has to lie about it and hide it from me, then isn't as innocent as he says it is and i cant deal with that because obviously the trust issue has been broken, so as a result i ended a 4 year relationship. i am hurt but i feel they r doing wrong. how many of u keep in touch with an ex and hide it from ur bf/gf? y?

2007-11-06 09:21:19 · 25 answers · asked by mama2be 3 in Marriage & Divorce

like the boy is my boyfriend friend and he asked me if i had a boy friend and i was not paying lising to him so i said yes and he called my boy friend and told him evey thing

2007-11-06 09:19:39 · 7 answers · asked by nena 2 in Singles & Dating

he's not into family occassions-not even his own but really wants to come with me to see my family. am i right in thinking this is a good sign? he said he wants to support me ( i get on well with my family so not that kinda support)
he has been so loving and caring recently and this is different to last year when things weren't going well.
do you see this as a positive sign- i do.
thanks everyone

(s in l q)

2007-11-06 09:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating