This is a huge Delema.
I meet a guy 6 years ago. it was love at first sight. unfortunatly he had to go back to europe but we stayed in contact over the phone and I still feel the same way as I did when we first meet.
in the mean while I meet another guy. we dated for 4 years. at first it ws nice then it turned into hell because he wanted to back to his ex. it did not last so I took him back,He went intothe army and we had a long distance relationship. he says he have change to a better person and I want to belive him. The guy in Europe is coming to the US because he want to start a life with me. They are both coming back at the same time. I dont know who should I choose
2007-11-06 10:09:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
true love is true love. Sounds like the first guy is your soul mate. The other person has caused you pain. I respect what he is doing for the country, but still it doesn't mean he will always be the best person for you.
Especially when you live with someone. Perhaps you tell both men that you're at a crossroads and date the one from Europe and tell the other that you need to think about things.
2007-11-06 10:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by smckech1972 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i definitely believe that the Europe guy is the one for you. he has never forsaked you and done anything wrong besides leave you to go to another country. The other guy left you for another woman, then came back to you when it didn't work out. what makes you so sure that he would not do it again? you should always go with your gut feeling; it never lies. in the meanwhile, i think that the Europe guy is the keeper. If you guys can keep up the romance even long-distance and if you still felt the same for him then i truly believe that he'sthe one for you.
2007-11-06 10:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't commit to either right now. I would let them come back and casually go on a few dates and then base my decision on that. It is not cheating if you are not in a committed relationship. It is called dating and exploring your options. Once you make a committment to one of them and then go on a date with the other guy then it is considered cheating, but play the field and see which one deserves your love first before you make that decision. Good luck and I hope this helps.
2007-11-06 10:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be asking people that know each of these guys personalities this question but when in doubt go for the guy who has got the better track record. Don't let army man become a repeat offender.
2007-11-06 10:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by Evan S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in your heart you know which guy you have more feelings for and which guy you would be happier with. Go with that guy. The europe guy sounds like a better guy and someone you could rely on more and know that he isnt going to do you wrong whereas the army guy sounds a little shady. I dont know them but the europe guy didnt do to you what the army guy did, however, you have to go with who your heart wants
2007-11-06 10:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Love Stoned 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
humorous.... Why do you experience compelled to ask the worlds permission to tell this guy he's a looser and needs to smart as much as himself? MySpace and blogs are for venting hatred. Y/A are for extreme questions. nicely... perhaps no longer extreme ones.... yet questions none the fewer.
2016-10-15 06:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the one from 6 years from Europe! He has never done you wrong and he is moving to be with you! The other guy left you once...who is to say he won't do it again. Just follow your heart!!
Good Luck!
2007-11-06 10:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by camarobabe6919 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
listen to you're heart. you may want to come clean with both of them, no point in loseing both because you hid them from each other, right? so yea listen to you're heart. this one guy has left you before, and one is willing to move cross the world for you. but in the end it's who makes you happier.
2007-11-06 10:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Emilee O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would stay with the guy that i was going out with because the guy u went out with for four years left you for his ex and he came back but he chose another girl over you i think he wil do it again if you do it onceyou can doit again the other guy acutally wants you more he didint leave you not oncce for another girl and he acutally want to start a life withyou be with him
2007-11-06 10:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by d,ace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The army guy left you once, why wouldn't he do it again? I would say the Europe guy and if it doesn't work out as you wanted at least you never have to wonder.
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2007-11-06 10:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋