Family & Relationships - 25 August 2007

2007-08-25 11:49:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a problem when i go up to a boy and talk. i'm very shy and need help getting a guy. PLEASE HELP!

2007-08-25 11:44:46 · 9 answers · asked by Paige H 2 in Singles & Dating

I have accepted a job back in my home down. It was a long testing process, but I am finally in. I start Oct. 1st. My GF of over a year has no idea. I made the decision not to tell her, as I wanted to make this decision for me and ONLY me. I did not want any outside influences.

I am a little nervous about telling her, as I dont want to hurt her. I am also afraid of feeling regret over this, but I know I need to live my life. I am only 22, and I am passionate about my career. She will not move with me, so that is out of the question.

Whats the best way to do this? And when woudl the best time be? Wait till the very last minute, or now?

2007-08-25 11:44:42 · 8 answers · asked by handguns_4_hearts 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-25 11:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Beige Lantern 3 in Singles & Dating

I like him and I smile back when he smiles me but look away really quickly

2007-08-25 11:42:19 · 14 answers · asked by Omeka R 1 in Singles & Dating

I want a boyfirend but im not desperate to go out with just anyone. i have a crush on this one guy, but i dont know if he likes me. i want someone to ask me out, not the other way around. How can i get him to to like me?

2007-08-25 11:41:32 · 6 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm newly 23 and I was just thinking... lately (last few years) I've been noticing I'm not all crazy with actors/celebrities. When I was younger, in my teens, I'd think, "Oh man that actor/celebrity has the perfect life" etc etc "..And they LOOK so perfect too!"

I saw them as a step beyond the "average" person who isn't on TV.

But now, I look at it as we're all humans. We all came into this world the same way, and what's really the big deal if you're on a TV show? Just means you chose to go to LA and act and work towards that. Big deal. I now don't understand how some people can feel actors and such are these "important people" and like Gods to the rest of us. They're just like us. They're just reading a script etc.

As fro their looks, anyone could get the 'perfect' look if they had a person trainer, hours upon hours to spend on it, had plastic surgery to remove freckles, etc, get tanned, etc.

Anyway else feel this way?

Actors are seen as having a great life bc they're on TV

2007-08-25 11:39:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's almost like avoidant personality disorder. I cannot describe why I can't just go out and do it like family and friends suggest, and if and when I actually do set foot out there and see people, instincts make me turn away from there faces, as if to avoid being seen. Picture a guy like this in the very middle of a college campus of over 10,000, and yet he still can't get it right. What should I do?

2007-08-25 11:34:52 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

Recently I moved into my mother in laws as a temporary living situation for my child and I ( I am also pregnant) because the father of my children has made some bad choices. I have absolutely nothing going for myself right now. I am sick and tired of being dependent on other people. I dont ever want to be in this position again. Its such a horrible feeling not being able to take care of myself financially. I use his car depending on when he feels like letting me. I know I need to gain financial indepence but I dont know how to get there. No one will hire me pregnant and if they do I have to take time off in the near future to have a baby then daycare for my 2 babies will take my whole paycheck. My family lives in another state and I question moving back home again but then I struggle with that decision because then my children wont have their dad in their lives. I know moving home I have a lot of support and a family that I love and miss. How do I choose between the two?

2007-08-25 11:29:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-25 11:28:50 · 14 answers · asked by Omeka R 1 in Singles & Dating

hey guys...ok so here it is my mom and family want me to go into the air force but i have done told them that i do not want to go in and they wont listen but i have a boyfriend and i want to move to austin texas with him and his mom and go to college but my mom thinks she is going to force me into going into the air fore and thats illegal but im still going to austin but i want my mom to let me and for me not to just go and break her heart...oh btw she wants me to go into the air force because its her dream not mine....so yea please help me as much as you can.. thank you so much

2007-08-25 11:23:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-25 11:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by WouldYouRather 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends called me recently on the phone and they started saying I changed. Asked why and they said I am mean and I ignore them. I had no idea what they were talking about. They say they talk to me and it seems like im listening but I turn to someone else to talk to. I told them I had no idea it was happening and they had a hard time believing me. I told them “you know how hard it is for me to remember things and notice the obvious. If I knew u were talking to me I would have talked back”. They said sure.
They forgave me but this has happened a lot according to what they said. Im just wondering if I have ADD or something like that. Im really worried that it’s going to happen again and I really don’t want them to get mad at me. And sometimes when they talk to me on the phone I have to keep reminding mysef to listen because start thinking about other stuff. And one time I wasn’t suppose to tell anyone something I was told from the phone but I didn’t remember them telling me not to tell anyone so they got mad at me then too.
Is having a hard time noticing obvious things, remembering stuff, and paying attention a part of ADD or another type of disorder?
What should I do to get better at noticing obvious things, remembering stuff, and paying attention?

Please and Thank you for helping me.

2007-08-25 11:09:50 · 3 answers · asked by Dr pepper 1 in Friends

2007-08-25 11:09:42 · 12 answers · asked by Alley 2 in Friends

My personality is one where I could easily stay at home by myself for a week - during the summer holidays I have gone out very infrequently - but I'm waiting to head off to university and I can start socialising much more there. I guess I want to know whether there are any other people who could if they wanted go out more, but just can't be bothered/ motivated to.

2007-08-25 11:07:35 · 2 answers · asked by Amachronic 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

You never hear anyone calling a famous woman who has been another famous person's mistress a homewrecker. It's always only called to regular nonfamous people.

2007-08-25 10:55:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we all know the first yrs are wonderful!! supposedly- but i think ive been married now 4 yrs, what will it be like? some one mentioned the five yrs block- is that when most divorces happen? will it always be hard? why is it so hard? n if i chose 2 leave how do you deal with making the wrong choice?

2007-08-25 10:53:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A Nerd likes me and she gonna ask me out but i dont like her What do I do.

2007-08-25 10:51:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He had a loving family and very many friends . He died fron prescription drugs .It surprised us all.

2007-08-25 10:49:19 · 11 answers · asked by Cheryl C 1 in Family

I get really jealous of my boyfriend..so much to the point that last night when I was out with him I thought he was staring at another girl and started a big fight and scene where we were and just ruined the night. I hate this about myself but my last boyfriend cheated on me soo much that I guess it's left a deep scar in my heart and I can't get over it. It's gotten to the point where my present boyfriend hardly sees his friends or goes out for me because I can't stand the thought that he might go out there and talk to a girl or meet a girl. And when I'm not with him, it's all I can think about. It's very frustrating for me and I can only imagin how frustrating it is ifor him. He does'nt even talk to other girls and I get so jealous when ever the girl that works at the corner store says hi to him. HOW CAN I FIX THIS ABOUT MYSELF?

2007-08-25 10:49:13 · 1 answers · asked by dreamangel_141414 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 16, and i have small boobs so i dont feel comfortable with my boyfriend touching them because i guess they arent big enough, im not prude, and if i had bigger boobs id gladly let him touch them. but is it a turn-off or something if i don't let him touch them? do you think he will still want anything to do with me? is that being selfish if he lets me touch him, but i dont let him touch me? personally, i think he should be lucky he has someone to touch him...if you know what i mean, but thats just me...

2007-08-25 10:44:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married thirty years this November. Ten years out of the blue she decided she no longer was interested. I refuse to hit the streets or bar hop. I'm truly at a lost, tired of gratifying myself. Someone help!!!

2007-08-25 10:44:01 · 14 answers · asked by Ron J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-25 10:40:54 · 14 answers · asked by bob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, my boyfriend Harold and I have been dating for more than three years! I'm 18 and he's 19. The other day I found out he was talking to girls and telling them he was single. When I confronted him, he broke up with me!

I got angry and called his phone a lot of times and he got mad and called his mother! He's a grown *** man...

I want to work things out, but he won't pick his phone! What should I do?

2007-08-25 10:30:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-25 10:26:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a boy who lives near me hu is nine and he fancys my 12 yr old mate and thinks she fancies him. he is horrible wiv his ova followers and sears and i want sweet revenge along with my mates. what could make his life a misery and break his heart coz i dunno whether my mate likes him or not. How can i make his life a misery and what can i do he chats to my friend on msn. plz help me i hate him he sez horrible swear words and crude things he deserves it. plz hellpppp meee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-25 10:15:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bf and i have been dating for almost 4 months, and everything has been great. hes 24 and im 18. he has already finished college and is looking to go into law school. i am just about to start college, and want to try out a bunch of new things. last night we went to the movies, and he said a couple of insensitive things that completely threw me off guard, so i hit him. HARD. (im an athletic, strong girl) i began to walk away and he punched me in the back. (ive been in many a fight, and this was harder than any punch ive experienced) ive been told once a guy hits you then you should leave b/c it shows that he may do that again... i apologized for hitting him so hard, and told him he had no right to lay a hand on me. he apologized and said it happened b/c he is stressed over me leaving, and is uncomfortable with me doing things he wouldnt do. (i want to join a sorority) .... should i let this go, or let him go b/c we are two different points in life?????

2007-08-25 10:09:26 · 5 answers · asked by booooooooooooooooo 2 in Singles & Dating

and you feel like you dont realli feel like you belong in your family or just feel that you have no connection with them,is it possible that you're adopted or just in some kinda way your parents aren't really who they are?

2007-08-25 10:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by cutie angel 1 in Family

How does it feel to have sex with a woman that recently had a kid? Does it feel really stretched?

2007-08-25 10:04:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A month ago my relationship ended with my beloved. For four years we spent every day together and shared
so much joy and love. She was the most magical woman I have ever met. My angel. We had planned on being
married this summer. But then several months ago she went overseas for work for a month. I met her there at the end of the month
so we could vacation in the area afterwards. But everything had changed when I got there, things became distant, and she
seemed to can't stand to be in my sight. We still went ahead and got an engagement ring. Things got colder when
I returned home and she just said she needed space. I did my best and we actually had the engagement ring remade.
Two weeks after I got it she came to me and she said she loved me but no longer loved me and I had to move out.
She said she had been unhappy for a long time and said our relationship was impossible to fix.

It has been about a month. Before I moved out I found out she had met someone while traveling before I had gotten
there. Her story kept changing and I eventually found love letters to him saying that she loved him and missed him.

As you can tell, I am heartbroken. I loved her with all my heart. And I have never seen such a radical change in a person.
Despite what she said at the end, she was so happy before the trip. Sure we had our conflicts and disagreements but so does everyone.
We had started planning the wedding and everything. How does this happen? She had always called me the love of her life and
that we were married when we had moved in together. I am in my mid thirties so this is no longer young love.

I felt like I had reached a point where I was accepting things the way they are. I had been angry, sad, frustrated, depressed etc.
But now I feel like I am back at the beginning again. I miss her like crazy. And don't understand how such a dream like
relationship came to an end the way it did? Obviously, there was something wrong but it is so frustrating there was never
a chance to fix it. Or I never even knew what the problem was. I still wonder if she is going to call or write. There is no choice but to move
on but it is so hard to leave it behind.

How do you deal with this? How does a person suddenly change? Even if she did suddenly reconnect how could you ever accept what happened?

So heartbroken.

2007-08-25 10:03:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating