my bf and i have been dating for almost 4 months, and everything has been great. hes 24 and im 18. he has already finished college and is looking to go into law school. i am just about to start college, and want to try out a bunch of new things. last night we went to the movies, and he said a couple of insensitive things that completely threw me off guard, so i hit him. HARD. (im an athletic, strong girl) i began to walk away and he punched me in the back. (ive been in many a fight, and this was harder than any punch ive experienced) ive been told once a guy hits you then you should leave b/c it shows that he may do that again... i apologized for hitting him so hard, and told him he had no right to lay a hand on me. he apologized and said it happened b/c he is stressed over me leaving, and is uncomfortable with me doing things he wouldnt do. (i want to join a sorority) .... should i let this go, or let him go b/c we are two different points in life?????
2007-08-25 10:09:26 · 5 answers · asked by booooooooooooooooo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to go into law school you must be a smart girl. With that in mind, he's 24 and your only 18. You have a world of fun and great experience's ahead of you. Even if he hadn't hit you chances are it wouldn't have lasted anyway. Add that the fact that he obviosuly has a temper and struck you, ITS OVER. He will make up every excuse and apologize...over and over again...because, he will hit you again 100% if you stay with him. Please move on, you have so much ahead of you. If not....don't go wining to anyone when he's got your head pinned against the floor with his boot. Hes a sadist.
2007-08-25 10:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was no luv tap he gave you! I'd run and not pass Go. This would be the perfect time to exit, with this juncture in your life changing anyway!
2007-08-25 17:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pinyon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is terrible. you had a right to hit him, as long as you strayed from "the area." but him hitting you is unacceptable. leave him.
2007-08-25 17:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is sorry you should forgive him...at least he knows it was wrong,
2007-08-25 17:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww, leave that f****** woman beater jerk!
2007-08-25 17:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋