Family & Relationships - 25 August 2007

Both my family and my ex's family are in upstate NY. I have moved to 3 different states during the 20 yr marriage in support of his career. When I finally told him I wanted a divorce, plans to move home came to a halt. He is refusing me to take the 3 kids and move to where family is. The State of Illinois , in particular, Kane County is holding us hostage.

2007-08-25 00:47:06 · 9 answers · asked by hope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I love my girlfriend. We have been together for 6 years, but she has a habbit of treating me like I'm not there most of the time. She has a routene: Wake up,get coffee, work on her computer until it's time for work, go to work, come home, announce she is tired, and watch tv until she is ready to fall asleep. If I try to do anything to fit into her routene, she gets upset. I put up with it when she was in school because I thought that once she was done we would have time to spend with one another, but she just replaced school with more work. Now she is talking about marraige. I don't want to be ignored for the reat of my life!! She is a great woman, and she has helped me a lot, but I was a lot happier with our relationship when we were not living together. I want to move out without destroying our relationship. What do I do???

2007-08-25 00:44:54 · 6 answers · asked by torgan 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been in a relationship for 4 years i have one son who is 6 i have been not unhappy in my relationship but not happy. i don't know weather i love my partner. recently i had a relationship with one of his friends. my partner knew about it before it happened and was ok with it but when he relized i was kind of falling for his friend he put a stop to it. i'm mad at him and sad about a loss of relationship that i had with the other guy. i know my partner loves me and i think i want to try and work it out but i don't know what to do right now?

2007-08-25 00:39:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok...ounce a pone a time. i go to my cousins. house i notice a diffrent face its his friend nick...i never talk to nick cause im what you would call shy. nick never talked to me either. idk if he's shy. so a couple years go by. and now im older...Im doing regular fun stuff at my house like talking on aim...my aunt IMs me saying. "HEY! do u no what would be funny? if you imed Coreys friend nick (by the way coreys my cousin)
so i thought what the heck why not. so IMed him and i was like hey & nick was like whos this i was like coreys cousin!!! he said oh thats cool the older one or the younger one? i said older cause i am older the next time i went down to my cousins youd think he would talk to me since we always talk on aim BUT NO! he didnt i go to my autns house alot but he pretends he doesnt no me

2007-08-25 00:34:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

* Wait for more details dun answer at once. unless i write the end***
I really need your help. Ok, I met this guy on the net. He is 26 years old an industrial engineer. He came from Turkey for An army big project (constructing a territory) over here, Jordan.
In fact we have trouble in communication due to his lacking English conversation skills. He can not speak my mother language which is Arabic. He speaks Turkish but I do not. We chatted on the net and talked on the phone several times. A few days later he asked me out to a café' shop. I was delaying this issue until I know to which type of person I'm going to go outside with. Yesterday we agreed on a place and went out early so we can the whole day for us hanging out having fun. He is handsome, cute guy. We sat under umbrella had French coffee and Narjella (jus one and we share it). He decided to play (tawla) a Turkish old game which is bout moving stones according to some rules.

2007-08-25 00:33:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-25 00:32:22 · 25 answers · asked by S.......... 1 in Friends

has not had a relationship lasting over 1 year . and why do you think that is .

2007-08-25 00:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had been going out with me boyfriend for 2.5 years, i moved to his country 10months ago to give it a go here, and have spent several thousand euros trying to live here with no job, but paying my way the whole time.
we bought a car earlier this year.
he went off for work in July and during the time he rang to say it wasnt working out, and now i find out he started dating someone 2 days afer dumping me. When i went to see him in disbelief last month, he told me to take the car and go home.
I met him yesterday to get him to agree to pay for my rent until i find someone else myself. I also pointed out i was taking the car, but he went balistic. Mad. Saying no, it was more his car, he paid more and i could have it until i find a new place in town.

Everyone i asked are all saying, he had initally told me i could keep the car, so i should. some say he dumped me and thats good enough too. outsider point?

2007-08-25 00:11:26 · 12 answers · asked by Frenchie 3 in Singles & Dating

i wear hearing aids since the age of three (im 25 now). i grew my hair to cover them (im a guy) at uni. i then moved and got a job they were always covered so i never told anyone i wore them. three years i have worked there nobody knows. now the idiot who cut my hair messed up and you can see it clear as rain. i am not looking forward to work on tuesday now. what can i do?

2007-08-25 00:06:23 · 22 answers · asked by jojoar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I know this sounds like a daft question but I am being honest. For some reason women throw themselves at me and for all of my life I have enjoyed this. But now i am 35 and want to settle down and its becoming a problem as i often get tempted to stray from solid relationships. Can anyone not think I am an idiot and answer my question?

2007-08-25 00:05:54 · 5 answers · asked by goldenpig 1 in Singles & Dating

At school, an attractive blond girl asked me to facesitting on me. actually, I don't know what to answer her about it. because I think that her *** is too big and heavy.. i'm afraid that i can't breath or something... but also, she is very attractive tall girl... what can i do?????

2007-08-25 00:03:18 · 7 answers · asked by jds0270 1 in Friends