Detailed question….please I need an explanation for this Turkish guy behaviors??

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I really need your help. Ok, I met this guy on the net. He is 26 years old an industrial engineer. He came from Turkey for An army big project (constructing a territory) over here, Jordan.
In fact we have trouble in communication due to his lacking English conversation skills. He can not speak my mother language which is Arabic. He speaks Turkish but I do not. We chatted on the net and talked on the phone several times. A few days later he asked me out to a café' shop. I was delaying this issue until I know to which type of person I'm going to go outside with. Yesterday we agreed on a place and went out early so we can the whole day for us hanging out having fun. He is handsome, cute guy. We sat under umbrella had French coffee and Narjella (jus one and we share it). He decided to play (tawla) a Turkish old game which is bout moving stones according to some rules.

He taught me how to play it. He won. During this I tried to wear my sunglasses cuz it was sunny and dry outside. He asked me to take them off, so I did. (He did not had his sun glasses on) He did not bring one with him. But later I wanted to wear them but he took them off by his hand lightly with smile on his face.
Then while we were playing he winked at me few times he looked hot to me. But why winking? And also our fingers touched while playing that game though I do not like the hands touches first date.

I decided to teach him some Arabic he asked me to write his name in Arabic and other words he needs on his palm. Cuz we only had a pen no papers found. So I did. I can tell that he was staring at me while I was doing that.

After we chat little he told me that he would like to play billiards I told him that I did not like it, I like bowling. So he rushed to a mall but he changed his mind and asked me to attend a movie. He let me choose the movie which was (rush hour 3)

After we chat little he told me that he would like to play billiards I told him that I did not like it, I like bowling. So he rushed to a mall but he changed his mind and asked me to attend a movie. He let me choose the movie which was (rush hour 3)
it was amazing one.
But I noticed that he was staring at me most of the time while me watching and laughing I was into that movie and I can tell he was not.

A few min later from starting the movie he took my hand and put it on his chest his heart side. He kept touching my hand and kissing it. He kept doing that and then I asked him what was wrong with him, he said nothing and jus kept quit. Then held my hand again and kissed it and nibbled it. This was making me hot, but I was upset cuz he was doing that. I did not like it cuz it jus our first date. He tried twice times to put his hand on my thigh but I would out my other hand over it and catch his hand and smile, which says do not do that.

Notice that he paid for the tickets, and café' and other stuff. I jus got the Slash to get inside while watching.

He was sipping and invited me from the same straw of his cup so I sipped. When we went out the hall my and his mouths and tongues were blue he was laughing on me cuz I looked like a zombie. I went to the bathroom and clean it. While I was there I was thinking of asking him why he was doing such things. So I did. He told me that he was sorry if I made you upset about my behaviors inside but I thought that it was a way to show you that I like you. I told him with a sharp tone >Listen am not that type of girls who are easy to get. If you want those you can find thousands in the same mall we are in now. I'm straight girl who wants a friendship with you which maybe leads to something special in the future maybe a marriage; I do not want to waste my time with you.

He kept telling me that he liked me and that he was sorry for his deeds. When I finished talking he asked me if I meant that he was bad guy and he wanted to take advantage of me ( One night adventure)/having sex with him til he go back to Turkey.

My reply was negative, I told him that I was jus making my self clear so u accept to proceed or not. He asked me if I no longer wanted to hang out him anymore with sad look. I sighed then told him that no I would like to hang out with you. Then he decided to go and play some arcade so we did and we enjoyed it. When I got back him I texted him thanking him for giving me such nice weekend. He thanked me too and apologized again and said that he liked me soo much. I told him that I will go to bed with smile on my face cuz of you…..And that I like you….but not in love with you yet.
The end,

Notes:
- I admit that I like him
- While I was talking to him after the movie, I mentioned something bout lust (desire someone sexually) and being in love with someone.
- He treated me like fair ladies should be treated. I was pleased.
- He is a hottie to me,but I did not show it to him at all.

Be wise,No stupid answers please. I really need your help, shall i get long with that guy or not?????This question for guys and girls jus give me yoiur explainations and your advice if i should be be with him or not. When i first met him i asked him bout what type of relation did he want he said something leads to marriage but im sooo confused by now :-(

U can asnwer my question i finished editing it .........I'm waiting for your good answers. God bless you.

AM 25 YEARS OLD.

Excuse my grammers mistakes....

we are both muslims,open mind firgures.
But i dun like a guy who want to reach me sexually with out catching my heart. there is difference between love and lust. I have been knowing him a week ago....we are new....

Thank you Tarkan, any other answers?

Answer 1

It sounds like you had a good time with a man who was eager to please you and got a little too "friendly" if you know what I mean. If I were you I would go out on another date with him, in a public area like you were, and see if he continues his bold advances. If he does, and he doesn't stop after you ask him to, then he might not be good in a relationship since he doesn't respect your boundaries.

Above all have fun and stay safe!

Answer 2

he is natural guy, nothing wrong with him according to the traditions of turkey and western countries, but the question is, what do you want from him for now? you still in the beginning of the way. if you attractive to this guy and expecting love and long term relationship, you have to give him sometime to explain himself. and don't be rude to him if he tried to touch you or talk about sex with you, just stop him in nice way if you don't like and try to explain you feeling toward what he is doing. in the end it depends on your feeling which will lead you to the right way. just be yourself, and give yourself and him the time to find out.

Answer 3

who has the time to read all of that
make it short next time and maybe ull get a few more answers