So, my boyfriend Harold and I have been dating for more than three years! I'm 18 and he's 19. The other day I found out he was talking to girls and telling them he was single. When I confronted him, he broke up with me!
I got angry and called his phone a lot of times and he got mad and called his mother! He's a grown *** man...
I want to work things out, but he won't pick his phone! What should I do?
2007-08-25 10:30:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to let just let him go....
I mean seriously... he's a playa stright up!!!
He's trying to some more icing to go with his cake
cause he's trying to have his cake and eat it too.
You even confronted him on it too and he broke up with you.
What does that crystal clear sign tell you???
He's playing you, lying and told all those chicks he was single when he wasnt!!! You know darn well what's he's doing.
Wake up and smell the coffee!!!
By the way...He's not a grown man...he's a boy.
Because a REAL MAN wouldn't do you like that.
A real man would be faithful to you and if things didnt work out between you guys...then he'd part ways with you like a gentleman would.
Think about what I said and good luck
2007-08-25 10:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um....i am sorry to say this but, you and him are not going to happen. He made it obvious that he wants to be single. And why would you want to be with someone that told other girls he was single. So i am thinking he was cheating on you. Also ...you dont want a guy that goes to his mom for help, especially for this kind of promblem. Already you should move on and find a "man" not a child. Find somebody that will treat you right and respect you for who you are. Dont you think you deserve that?. He is a big punk and selfish, and he need to grow up.
2007-08-25 10:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by aznromeo4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put urself thru all that. If he don't wanna be the grown *** man he was protraying to u, then he don't deserve all the attention of fixing it. It unfair to u, but u get friends that u can talk to, plus, u aint ugly, just spend more time figuring out which guy is more loyal then just boyfriend material and try again.
2007-08-25 10:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by A.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth it...Just let him go and work on being single and seeing who you are without a boyfriend. When you figure out who you are, then find out what kinda of man you want as a husband. Someone who will be there, lead you, provide, respect; set your expectations high and do not lower your standards for any guy.
2007-08-25 10:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think you already know the answer to this one honey. If he is telling people he is single and doesn't answer your calls, he obviousely not the one for you and doesn't respect you. You need to move on, as much as it hurts and find a real man.
2007-08-25 10:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by baby166_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating other people i know you want to work things out, but if he says "I'm Single" to other girls i don't think it's the best idea to go out with him anymore.
2007-08-25 10:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by aDrI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Called his mom on you! That's awesome. Really, it sounds like he's been looking for an excuse to break up with you. I know you want things to work out, but it sounds like you'd be better off finding someone who actually wanted to be with you. I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there. :-)
2007-08-25 10:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dont NEED you, He HAs Some Game And Wants Play. What should you do? Move on dont call And drag him down move on to some guy that will treat you Like you are a GOdess. - AMPLIFE
2007-08-25 10:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by the chief 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad. Where's your pride? He'a the a- hole that broke up with you. It should have been the other way around. Who knows, maybe he even cheated on you. You're a grown a ss woman.
2007-08-25 10:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him again, but on restricted this way he will pick up the phone not knowing its you.
to dial restricted dial *67 [area code] [his-digits]
and when and if he answers the first thing to say would be, please dont hang up. i only want to talk to you.
and if he hangs up hes an immature kid that doesnt know what he wants, and just try and forget about it and realize you were too good for him anyways.
2007-08-25 10:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by Cassandra Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋