Family & Relationships - 25 August 2007

ne is older by a year or so (his name is jake) and the other one is older then me by a month(his name is Dylan)) (same age.)They both like me a lot. The first one i am currently dating. I have broken up with him twice but he always asks me back out so im asuming he likes me a lot. Jake says im the only girl for him and calls me beautifull intead of hott but dylan calls me hott. I hang out with Jake a little bit more then Dylan but i dont know what one i should choose. My friends like Dylan more. But i like both them i just need some advice. I like Jake more but my friends and everyone else will probably be mad at me if i break up with him again. Jake was going to ask me out on monday (my friends told me) soo... what should i do?

2007-08-25 14:04:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am at home during the day with our 9-month-old baby. However, I am a full time PhD student and I run my own business where I have to complete major projects from home. My husband gets home on a regular basis, sometimes as late as 10pm. When I speak to him about it (every evening) he does the same thing the next evening despite telling me he will be home earlier. I understand his job is very demanding but is he also a work-a-holic. My schoolwork and professional projects for my business and patience is suffering. In the evening I am juggling bathing, feeding, and putting the baby down, school work, & projects for the biz, cooking dinner, & simply sitting down to take a breath. How do I get him to understand where I am coming from aside from yelling every night when he comes home, failing a class, closing down the biz, or having a nervous breakdown and then saying I told you so?

2007-08-25 14:03:55 · 10 answers · asked by LemonDrops 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am at home during the day with our 9-month-old baby. However, I am a full time PhD student and I run my own business where I have to complete major projects from home. My husband gets home on a regular basis, sometimes as late as 10pm. When I speak to him about it (every evening) he does the same thing the next evening despite telling me he will be home earlier. I understand his job is very demanding but is he also a work-a-holic. My schoolwork and professional projects for my business and patience is suffering. In the evening I am juggling bathing, feeding, and putting the baby down, school work, & projects for the biz, cooking dinner, & simply sitting down to take a breath. How do I get him to understand where I am coming from aside from yelling every night when he comes home, failing a class, closing down the biz, or having a nervous breakdown and then saying I told you so?

2007-08-25 14:02:39 · 8 answers · asked by LemonDrops 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-25 14:01:23 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like this gurl, and we are both in the same 11 grade US History class, but she sits on the other side of the room, and everyone kinda has seats they sit in every day, they're not assigned, but i dont really want to take someones seat. And i know i need to get to know her before I make any moves, But i dont know how to get to know her, because i dont know what to say if i see her in the halls. (Actually its a portable, so it would be on the way back to the school) and i dont want to make her late.

What should I do?

2007-08-25 13:55:45 · 3 answers · asked by helix 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am going through some problems right now relationship problems and a death in the family and need some advice on how to handle this situation ADVICE PLEASE???????

2007-08-25 13:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend and she only talks to me when were at school and when no one talks to her. But when she is around people, she talks more to them and completely ignores me. And when were at the mall and I see something, she tells me tells me she wants something thats like 3 for like 40 dollars or something and I needed those things she just comes up and says "oh, i like that. I'll look for my size." and then says, we can get it for us and stuff. She really changed and I thought was my best friend and she expects me to tell her my secrets when she dosent even wanna tell hers to me. Is she a friend? or just using me or something?

2007-08-25 13:51:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been with my husband for 25yrs, married for 19yrs. I No longer find him attractive. When he turned 35 he started letting himself go. He has gained so much weight, it makes me sick to look at him. I purchased gym membership for him two years ago, prior to that I purchased a home gym set. I walk he has made little effort to do anything about his health. I have no interest in being with him. Should I feel bad about my feelings????

2007-08-25 13:49:01 · 46 answers · asked by wcomebackmorrow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its that because i need a smart thinker to help me out,actually the guys nowadays are a big flirter.i need a man with lots of love

2007-08-25 13:47:41 · 5 answers · asked by jenny c 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanted to know if a divorce was public? For instance, I want to know if someone is really in the process of a divorce, is there a way I can get this information over the phone. Whether its final or not or even started for that matter?? I would like as much information as there is about it. Thanks!

2007-08-25 13:46:54 · 8 answers · asked by nwlover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i have been seperated for 5 months now i put a pfa on him but i was talked into from a friend then she later robbed my house she wanted my husband out we where haven problems so i was drinken pretty heavy last night and i went too see my husband he was djen at a club about 20 minutes from my house and a friend drove me there every time i get drunk which isnt too often i really think about my husband alot deeply so i went to see him he was shocked too see me , i went over to ask him how he was doen and he said drunk but he really wasnt i was anyway i took him outside and cried to him and told him how much i care about him and i do miss him and i think about him everyday he did kiss me twice and we hugged each other but he kept telling me i cant talk to someone who has a pfa on me but i told him the reason why i did it and he told me then that it made sense to him but he said he would be my friend if i got the pfa lifted, but he wants a divorce im so hurt now please help

2007-08-25 13:42:49 · 22 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my older sister and her boyfriend of about 4 years are going to have a "break". Theyve been together since their sophomore year and both have currently finished their first year of college. They say its temporary. The reason? "To explore the world on their own and meet new people." If you really love someone, do you realllly need to meet "new" people? Im just curious.

2007-08-25 13:42:33 · 16 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-25 13:42:10 · 16 answers · asked by ApExxMaN 1 in Family

2007-08-25 13:39:02 · 6 answers · asked by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-25 13:37:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok heres the deal.i have a friend who is 11. she has had 9 BFs already. i try to tell her i think it is too many and she shuld lay off the boys for a while. she is a MAJOR flirt, and she totaly nos it! shell admit it. whenever i try to talk to her, she gets upset. what shuld i do.....

2007-08-25 13:35:29 · 4 answers · asked by flips4pink 2 in Friends

2007-08-25 13:32:23 · 10 answers · asked by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-25 13:28:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Every time she is in a bad mood, she verbally attacks me and I don't understand why. The things she says to me are very hurtful and demeaning such as "you've ruined my life" when I have done nothing to her. She then tells me to "stop playing the victim" when I ask my parents for advice on how to deal with her. I am almost to the point where I don't want anything to do with her anymore, but she is having my first nephew in a couple of months...
What can I do to make her stop?

2007-08-25 13:28:56 · 8 answers · asked by Peachy 3 in Family

2007-08-25 13:27:48 · 9 answers · asked by Penny 1 in Weddings

I Dont Know what to do cuz i feel really lonley because this past year ive had to change schools because my other one closed since it was having money problems.So I kinda lost my best friends that I just made there, plus i lost both of my bestest friends ever because they both kinda turned on me for some reason and i still dont know why.So now im really depressed because I don't really know what to do with my emotions..since i always talked with my two best friends when i was emotional..and now i have nobody. Is there anything I could possibly do?? or am I just supposed to deal with it somehow??

2007-08-25 13:27:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I hate seeing her have to do everything while he sits on his lazy behind and barks orders i know she has to live her own life but it sure hunts to watch sometimes a dont even want to go to her house because of the way he treats her

2007-08-25 13:24:17 · 5 answers · asked by catfancy 1 in Family

I just made the role as Romeo in the school play "Romeo and Juliet." And I am supposed to kiss juliet on the lips twice. Shes a really cute girl and I thought it would be fun to do it on stage, but not in real life because she has a boyfriend and I respect that. Well today she told another girl in the play that she is really bummed out that she got the part of Juliet and she has to kiss me. Then the girl went on to say that she told her that I was a nice guy, but thinks that I am disgusting.
I was her partner for auditions and she had no problem being as grabby with me and seductive as possible. I've had a lot of girlfriends and don't think that I am good looking, but I dont think I am disgusting. It could be the girl who told me this could have made it up, because I have had fights with her in the past about things and we aren't really on good terms.
I guess what I am trying to ask is, should I ask her how she feels about me, or should I try to fake the kiss as much as

2007-08-25 13:19:45 · 9 answers · asked by RatedRSuperstar PAC 1 in Singles & Dating

‪A case of good friends (for years) that fell in love (just this yr) - drama in and out, challenges, life situations (tragedy occured). After we were "together" for a bit, we decided to be friends but after the tragedy he pushed me away and rumors/assumptions, people's ideas are getting the best of us. the last we spoke, we misunderstood each other and we haven't talked in a month. I want to clarify things and reassure him and hope things are okay so i was planning on writing a letter.

out of NOWHERE, he randomly texted me w. "g.morning"...random...

does he miss me or just want attention?

2007-08-25 13:18:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi I have been with out a woman for some time now. I have recently met some one. We have known each other for a week now.. She has already started to ask favores, like 10 bucks for gas, wich she got, ciggaretts, wich she did not get, long trip, so she didn't have to burn her fuel, wich didn't take place and more.

I may still be blind to the fact she may be one of those people that latch on to you, and bleed you dry, cause your a nice guy, and try to help out if possable

What do you think out there in cyber land ??

2007-08-25 13:13:30 · 1 answers · asked by duster 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister is dating this guy for about 2 years now but the thing is when ever that guy is drunk he wants to shoot himself. what do u guys think my sister should do ? she really loves him.

2007-08-25 13:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay like ive said b4.My hubby comes back from Iraq in 2 monthes,but he is going through some insecurities,and he does like the fact that i go off base,and do ceerrtain things..He just wants me to stay home,and if i need anything then ican go to the store.I want to go to church,get involved in more activities to make time go faster,but he doesnt like it...what do i do,he is having major trust issues...what should i do!!!! im going insane......

2007-08-25 13:07:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A) sit home and surf the net.
B) go to the movies alone
C) clean house then read textbooks for classes
D) drive around mindlessly until i run out of gas
E) go to the gym
F) none of the above, plz explain

2007-08-25 13:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by mister_anonymous1970 2 in Singles & Dating

Just a few suggestions, please. As for who's asking the question, I work, will be changing careers to be a teacher next year, and am decent looking, but not very forward with the ladies.

2007-08-25 13:03:49 · 33 answers · asked by freewainwright 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend and her boyfriedn have been together for 10mnths and have been engaged for one. They got into two arguments one were he threw scissors and cut her leg open and another were he just hit her and choked her and the guy that was his friend told her if she needed someone to talk to so she talkd to him online that night and he told her that he liked her and she finally told him that she used to like him and she still kinda does, but then after that she said no I love my Fiance alot and I can't do that and then they got into another arguement and she was talking to his friend again and he said something about a kiss and she said yes, but some days later she said no to that cause she can't hurt her fiance like that so basically she stopped it, but kept talkin to him as a friend, because he needed help. The guy told her fiance that she was flirting with him and she didn't tell her fiance until a long time cause she didn't want to hurt him. No physical contact was made only talk.

2007-08-25 12:59:38 · 17 answers · asked by Rae 2 in Marriage & Divorce