my sister is dating this guy for about 2 years now but the thing is when ever that guy is drunk he wants to shoot himself. what do u guys think my sister should do ? she really loves him.
2007-08-25 13:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Either he quits drinking, or she leaves him. End of story.
This is a dangerous game to be in, he may never INTEND to hurt her, btu when the alcohol is flowing freely, and the gun is swinging around like Roy Rogers was playing with it, someone is bound to get hurt.
She is his gf, not his mother, she doesn't need to be concerned for him every time he gets drunk. She can't fix him, all she can do is be supportive from a safe distance while he fixes hinself.
2007-08-25 13:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him shoot himself. Your sister should learn to love and respect herself a lot more than she does - if she had any self-respect she would have dumped the unstable loser a long time ago!
2007-08-30 23:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't drink at all,he needs to go and see someone.As for your sister,i think its better if she leaves him.What if one day he decides to shoot her? Why does he has a gun in the first place?
2007-09-02 08:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he ever gets drunk again she is leaving as she can not live with some one who gets drunk to start with, but refuses to sit and watch while he plays self pity games with guns.
Where is God in all this? Completely ignored, but He is still watching.
2007-08-31 23:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to keep it up in balcony, and select one who can lead to bedroom. Life is not so simple which can be spent lavishly. the fact will be coming in picture when the age slightly pushed away. No one come for rescue when physical charming will be diminishing its attitude. So be careful about the future.
2007-09-02 10:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by khan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should get him some help. Maybe if she gave him an ultimatum, he would trry to change. If he doesn't, she needs to leave him alone. The best love is tough love
2007-08-30 16:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave while its still early. if she stays and he does decide to shoot himself who knows he might shoot her to you never know. there are other issues here if she decides to stay they both need to get help
2007-08-25 20:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by dd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stop drinking and the both of them need to go to AA.
2007-09-02 01:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was her i would find another boy firend he has big problems and one is drinking and depression she does not need to be with this rest of her life that will only pull her down to his leve.
2007-08-29 23:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should help him and take him to therapy or just not let him drink anymore
2007-08-30 00:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by Southern Cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋