I Dont Know what to do cuz i feel really lonley because this past year ive had to change schools because my other one closed since it was having money problems.So I kinda lost my best friends that I just made there, plus i lost both of my bestest friends ever because they both kinda turned on me for some reason and i still dont know why.So now im really depressed because I don't really know what to do with my emotions..since i always talked with my two best friends when i was emotional..and now i have nobody. Is there anything I could possibly do?? or am I just supposed to deal with it somehow??
2007-08-25 13:27:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
keep in touch with your best friends, distance shouldn't ruin things between you guys. also, you should get a hobby, something to keep you occupied so you don't have so much time to reminisce in how much you miss the way things use to be.
things will get better, they always do.
and maybe you should make a scrapbook or something full of pictures of you and your friends...it will give you something to do and you can sneak a look at it whenever your emotions are really getting to you and you can remember all the good times you had with them.
2007-08-25 13:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression is a terrible thing. Normal people have highs and lows. If You can't get out of it on your own in a little while get help. Tell your parents or teacher about how you feel. Please do something about it before it's a way of life. For now you can try getting involved with school activies. Try helping someone else that needs a hand. They will think good of you if you are doing your best for them. Try smiling. That will make people wonder what is so great. They will want to be around you. I always go for the upbeat people. The smart ones. Hang out with people you want to be like. Get involved with life and friends. Church maybe. Get a positive attitude.
Just some ideas. I hope they work for you. I will pray for you. God bless you.
2007-08-25 13:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll make new friends, trust me. It's hard being young and having to change schools, but think about it. Now theres a whole new group of people who know nothing about you....so you have the opportunity to be whoever you want. Friends come and go, always. But now you know that your other friends really didn't care about you. If you need someone to talk to, you can always message me. You cant let other people make you unhappy, sometimes you gotta move on. There are lots of people in the world. And i promise that you'll find someone you like better than the old best friends soon. Trust me, i changed schools in 9th grade and i made amazing friends, much better than the old ones. So yea, move on. an ddont do anything stupid.......depression leads ppl to do careless things.
2007-08-25 13:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's part of growing up, but embrace this change, it gives you a chance to start fresh, be who you want to be. I'm sure it's hard at first but in no time you will make new friends and be really busy. As for your best friend, you guys will work it out. You don't need to be in the same school for things to work out. Try doing activities in school play sports, put yourself out there so you can make new friends, plus it only the beginning of the school year. It's just time you need. It will be ok.
2007-08-25 13:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend it is hard for you, yet remember which you're enjoyed by your mom. reducing (my journey) does no longer something to ease the soreness, yet in basic terms quickly blinds you from the present. you're dealing with an emotional time impressive now and that i'm hoping you already know which you should love and look after your self by using fact in certainty, many people will look when you and maximum possibly do. it is not any lie. i've got been in a matching concern and that i found that the divorce had no longer something to do with you; no rely what you are able to think of. you will consistently be enjoyed by your self, for the reason which you elect this inner power. you're an enthralling individual and each and each factor is downright amazing. you should love your self, and additionally you should, by using fact i've got self assurance you're greater than you already know. acquaintances on your existence will come and bypass and circumstances will look lonely. on a similar time because it form of feels like the top of the international, you should proceed to be reliable and be a reliable individual. Killing your self won't tutor you a thank you to, and please shop your previous on your previous for the reason which you should consistently remember the ray of light interior the destiny. shop your hopes up, and stay reliable. in case you ever ought to easily communicate over with everybody attempt your college counsler, and shop a diary. in case you ever ought to email everybody i'm a individual who can help, and additionally you are able to truthfully anticipate some people here who understand which you should be chuffed and which you should be. don't be lonely, attempt to make some acquaintances and don't supply up.
2016-10-09 06:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel...halfway through seventh grade my friends turned into such snobs, i felt so lonely the rest of the year. i cried in the bathroom almost every day. i was so damn loyal to these you no what's that i blamed myself. anyway, i switched schools (that being only one of the reasons) and i was so nervous because i was kind of shy but i found some new friends and it made me realize what true friends are. this year im going to a high school that none of my friends are attending, and although its hard to make good friends and then have to switch schools, im so excited because ive already learned how to make new ones. everything that happened, from my friends betraying me to switching schools, has only made me stronger. you will make new friends, because you are tougher now, and more importantly you are a loyal friend who deserves to have only the best!! good luck =)
2007-08-25 13:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your best friends on phone and meet with them. Get envolved in acitivities in your new school. Life is this way and you are just learning some of your first lessons. Be brave and do not retreat into your own world which is sometimes easier to do than force yourself to make new friends. Take care
2007-08-25 13:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by ARLENE H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what Vanessa B said above,,
Its all going to be fine in the long run it sucks now but things change so fast there is nothing to worry about.
2007-08-25 13:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by nelppik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are whining too much. You make your own life, don't look to others to make it so everything is super. Make new friends and don't whine and complain to them that;s why the others dumped you. You have just as much potential as any other Kid so use your skills and make things happen your way.
2007-08-25 13:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Steiner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the main reason, but you have to start findng new friends, you have to change your life,because 50% you can't keep your friend ofr ever,so you have to find new life, and I am sure you will be happy again,think posative always,
2007-08-25 13:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋