Just a few suggestions, please. As for who's asking the question, I work, will be changing careers to be a teacher next year, and am decent looking, but not very forward with the ladies.
2007-08-25 13:03:49 · 33 answers · asked by freewainwright 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all the quick answers.
With all you ladies on the computer on a Saturday night, maybe I should just talk to you gals here? :)
2007-08-25 13:10:42 · update #1
Just be interesting and confident. When someone is laughing and having a genuinely good time and making conversation about something we can both relate to I can get interested.
2007-08-25 13:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by jbahhh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact lays a nice foundation for an approach.
After greeting (in passing) a woman and giving a pleasant smile, when you're ready, ask how she's doing that day. Take note whether to slow down, or stop, to listen, if she's got more to say than a simple "fine". If you notice that she pauses to give you full attention, make your next move. Ask her if she'd like to have coffee with you, or lunch with you in the next day or two (I'm supposing you'll be speaking to a coworker, who'll be around day after day).
Try to have faith in yourself, shy guy, and know that women will notice you first because of your general appearance, and second (+ more importantly) because of how you speak, behave and respond to others. Your character will show through actions, and that will attract others to want to know you.
Here's to your success in filling your date nights.
ps/papyrusbtl's advice is true. Be brave, shy guy! Left foot, right foot, there ya' go...
2007-08-25 13:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are new to a job asking for information is a good way to break the ice with another teacher. Like where to find a certain room or something about some forms you have to fill out ect.
2007-08-25 13:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like men who like ALL women.
Speak to every woman you know, or work with, say hi, show them respect. This is a great "intro" (and practice for you) in being positive and out-going. Women love out-going men, who make an effort to know, or at least greet other people.
In women's eyes, you simply cannot talk too much---they want to hear you talk--to other women, and themselves. That way they can get to know you, because they think of you as an individual. If you have functioned in the male world being "guarded" about what you say because you fear the other men, you must drop this behavior around women.
The other very important thing is that women are individuals---men love being in groups---women are very different, and unique. They HATE being thought of as uniform, and they are not uniform in any way. If you see women that way, you're in big trouble with them.
2007-08-25 13:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
showing interest is key, asking how we're doing on a regular basis, listening to us... but dont go all weird by staring at us from a distance. maybe after ur friends with someone u can give her a hint by looking at her a little more, but dont be creepy about it... just be friendly, and be open, you never know where love can take you [if that's what you're looking for...].
ummm, as for general tips: make sure the person you have in mind is single so you wont embarrass yourself.
but dont talk to me. lol. i'm too young for you. but i hope i helped. good luck.
2007-08-25 14:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 23:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi
ask her if she like a sertin band
or what her favorit color is
or tell her you like her shoes.. thats a big one
um if you know that you have afew things in common talk about that.
um ask her if shes in school and what shes going to school for or if she has a job and if so what kind of job.
just normal everyday things relaly. the most important things is to be your self and be calm about it. dont try to hard or it will show.. hope I could help.
2007-08-25 13:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by kamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to say hi! And just say, would you like to hang out sometime? And just be honest, I think that we would get along so would you go out with me? Just somwthing fun like that!
Good Luck and don't be afraid to approach a woman she will thinkit is good that you are confident enough to approach her, but don't be to confident!
2007-08-25 13:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess just say hi. If u don't have confidence, fake it. Ask us some stuff u want to know. If it goes further, it does. IF not, it doesn't. But atleast its a start.
2007-08-25 13:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hi and tell her your name and ask if you can buy her a drink or somethign just be your self cheesy pick up lines are the worse i will die if i hear one mor i promise. Be your self and be truthful and respectful and youll do fine
2007-08-25 13:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋