ok heres the deal.i have a friend who is 11. she has had 9 BFs already. i try to tell her i think it is too many and she shuld lay off the boys for a while. she is a MAJOR flirt, and she totaly nos it! shell admit it. whenever i try to talk to her, she gets upset. what shuld i do.....
2007-08-25 13:35:29 · 4 answers · asked by flips4pink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know about other people, but at my school alot of people went out with each other from like age 8 to now (14, 15, 16). Not me personally, because I prefer to keep myself "reserved" for the right first boyfriend. If it really disturbs you, tell her that it's honestly not doing her a good reputation at school going out with so many different guys.
2007-08-25 13:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she's not doing herself anygood going "out" with all those boys when she's only 11 and doesn't need to be in a relationship at that age. tell her that you're worried for her. you don't want to see her actually get hurt by one of them she has the rest of her life to live but while she's young she needs to enjoy it w/ out worrying about boys
2007-08-25 13:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tink rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her mom what's going on. Promiscuity is a sign of sexual abuse, so you might try asking her if a family member is messing with her.
2007-08-25 13:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...you need to do a little research and see if all her other friends are ging out with all these guys cause it might just be a stage or she might be following the crowd...
2007-08-25 13:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋