Family & Relationships - 3 June 2007

What do you think?

I am a white Southern, country girl from a working class family. I used to be Baptist but now I still love God, but don't like church. I just got out of a relationship with a half Puerto-Rican, half Black guy from an upper class well educated family from Miami who is hardcore Catholic. It didn't work out.... I just want to hear other ppl's stories.

2007-06-03 16:27:01 · 3 answers · asked by k8r9i8s8ti 2 in Singles & Dating

he questions where i go where im at but he says he is not my man so why question me he gives me money too that is taking care of me

2007-06-03 16:24:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To make a long story short, i'm a 24 year old male and i've never even been on a single date. I can't seem to get girls to like me in that way. The running joke in my family is that i'll never get married and my sister always jokes that i didn't "really" go to college since i had absolutely no social life during those years.

I suspected the reason for my misfortune was that I was ugly. I've had a few male "friends" (i don't really like them) tell me that I look "scary" and that they'd be scared of me if we were not buddies. I'm definitely not fat, so it isn't that... I'm 6ft, ~180lbs and i have a fairly athletic build. I used to work out a lot and I played sports in highschool. So if it isn't my body, it must be my face, right? So i tried placing photos of myself on hotornot.com. I was surpsied that the ratings for my two photos were 8.7 and 9.2. The most frequent ratings in each score distribution was 7 and 8 respectively.

2007-06-03 16:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, my boyfriend and I are in love and want to get maried. As a female I hear a lot of other females saying how their boyfriend got them a promise ring, then the engagement ring and then the wedding ring. Is all this necessary? Does the engagment ring suppose to be more than the wedding ring? Are the engagement and wedding ring the same?? I hear all these things and not really sure what's what! Please help.

2007-06-03 16:21:57 · 13 answers · asked by hypnotiqq 2 in Weddings

I went on one date with a guy, and he is already saying he is interested in a serious relationship with me, and sending me txt msgs that say "I miss you" and "Thinking of you," and asking me if I'm dating anyone else, and saying that if we are a couple he has to trust me so I shouldn't date anyone else if I am with him, and stuff like that. And we've only been on one date!!!

Is this weird?? It is sweet? Should I be happy or freaked out? I'm used to a lot of game playing this early on, playing it cool and stuff like that. I'm not used to a guy being so straightforward!!!

2007-06-03 16:20:08 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.......wow this is embarassing i'm 14 and i've only kissed 1 boy...and it was a peck playing t or d. theres this guy i like and he likes me but i dont want to get with him because i know he's kissed alot of girls and i'm scared that if we did date he would want to kiss and i wont be any good. i'm really scared about this are there anything that will make me a good kisser or can you just tell me what to do when you kiss? i know this is weird but please i really dont know what i should do. i would talk to my mom but i can't and all my friends have kissed alot and i'm embarassed to talk to them about this to. please tell me what to do when kissing!

2007-06-03 16:17:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not funny as in "immature" but funny as in gives good laughs, has a good sense of humor, likes to cheer you up, etc...?

2007-06-03 16:15:42 · 38 answers · asked by hyjgfjfghjfjfgjfghjfgj 1 in Singles & Dating

wind up getting togheter again in 5 years and both gotten fatter, uglier, and older, do u think ti would change thier feelings for each other when they meet?

2007-06-03 16:15:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-03 16:09:25 · 40 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-03 16:07:17 · 14 answers · asked by Jim R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-03 16:05:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am 21, can i be friends with a 17 y/o? shes turning 18...

2007-06-03 16:04:11 · 5 answers · asked by freddy d 1 in Friends

You are just no longer attracted to your wife? I cheated on my wife, we seperated and we decided to get back together, but I have realized I am just no longer attracted to her. She has gained alot of weight after being pregnant with our second child (who passed away) and she has not made any attempt to lose weight. She does not keep her hair fixed all the time and sometimes she just lays around the house in sweatpants. I made a vow to stay with her forever and I want to do that, but I can not make love to her. Touching her and seeing her nude makes me sick to my stomach.

What should I do?

She weighs like 250#, she never wears makeup unless we go to church, she doesn't shave her legs on a regular basis. I love her as a person but how can I go the rest of my life without having my physical needs met?

2007-06-03 16:02:11 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm black and I'm a beautiful black women. I like dating white men, but my black friends tell me I shouldn't. Why is it ok for a black guy to date a white women, but not ok for a black women to date a white man? Am I wrong for wanting to date outside my race?

2007-06-03 15:59:32 · 20 answers · asked by DeDeMassive 2 in Singles & Dating

im young and my mama..me and her dont have a good relationship...at the beginning of the year i found out that my mama was a lesbian and then just 2 weeks ago she tried to commit suicide...it really messed my head up..and then i have 2 lil sister one big sister and one lil brother..just last week my mama let me and my older sister who is 20 years old..she let us physically fight and she didnt do anything about it..famliy shouldnt have to fight..but my boyfriend and his mom want to take me in..and once before my boyfriends mom and my mom had talked about this and my mama was ok with it but now she isnt because she sees me happy and she acts like she doesnt want to see me happy with him at all..so now i heard that i can be emancipated from my mom but i dont know how that works and i dont know that the legal age is to leave from home in Dallas Texas so will some one please help me..anything else that u want to know email me or instant message me please..help..thanks and may GOD bless!!

2007-06-03 15:58:57 · 5 answers · asked by quawbossy_09 2 in Family

If i want to graduate at popular universities in my country i must have to pass a very difficult exam. So I study hard in the recent year and this exam will be held in the next 25 days and these days could be the most important days of my life. I must review all I’ve read in a past year, and if I don’t, all of my efforts will be ruined.
But last night something terrible happened to me that hurts me bad and after that I can’t concentrate on my studies. Suddenlly after two years I understand that my beloved girlfriend cheat on me and I cant’t still believe what I saw and I’m shocked. So is there any way I can forget it and concentrate on my works, because I can’t get this event out of my mind and it’s break my heart.
P/S: sorry for my bad English if i was wrong.

2007-06-03 15:58:04 · 4 answers · asked by Shervin 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-03 15:55:38 · 16 answers · asked by Jim R 1 in Singles & Dating

I (am/was) on both of those/these sites, and not to be mean or anything, but there are/were some ugly-*** people on that site (eHarmony)! Like, match.com actually has a lot of attractive people on it--girls and guys, but eHarmony.com...gosh, 99% of the people sent to me were ugly mofos. Even the girls are all fat or/and very unattractive.

Anyone know why this is?? I mean eHarmony costs more so you'd think it'd have better lookers on it...

2007-06-03 15:53:58 · 1 answers · asked by Marissa 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone ever look at ebay, craigslist, or the specialized wedding dress sites? Its Givenchy, in great shape, really dont see it getting handed down. Just taking up space at this point. Dont have a digital photo of it handy, more am looking for if I should even bother. Have checked with resale shops. and they say they basically sell them for half, and give you half of that.

2007-06-03 15:53:33 · 9 answers · asked by lillilou 7 in Weddings

2007-06-03 15:52:20 · 9 answers · asked by govboy09 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to when I get married...

2007-06-03 15:49:37 · 18 answers · asked by Sar 3 in Weddings

My wife is 23 and has gained about 40lbs since we started dating 6 years ago. She's 5'3 and has gone from 140lbs to 180lbs. I love it. Call me weird, but the weight and wouldn't mind (actually, would like) if she gained more.

Obviously this could be as destructive as a husband telling his wife he'd like to see her lose weight... if not more so. I don't ever bring up her weight, but she knows what I like. We have talked about it in the past and she gets the hint when we make love and I kiss her forming double chin and play with her stomach.

I've noticed her trying to diet every few months, but she never makes much progress. She usually quits after a month or two. Obviously this doesn't bother me that much with my taste, but I feel a bit guilty.

Would you ladies have a tough time losing weight if you knew your significant other actually loved it? Should I do anything to try to help her lose, if that's what she wants? Or should I not even bring it up? Just let things lie?

2007-06-03 15:48:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It would be ok if he played an hour or two a day, but he plays about 5-6 hours after work and about 10-15 hours on the weekend. I am getting tired of talking to the back of his head!

2007-06-03 15:45:04 · 19 answers · asked by TBECK 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A newly wed husband doing nude webcam chatting, asking them to meet for fun. He admits in chats he is sleeping around. He has job stability issues. waiting for immigration to come to US.
He is saying what he wrote about sleeping around in chats is just a fantasy, false and fake, and that he is committed. Should he be believed?
He describes the sleeping encounters in detail in the chats. so, could it be a fantasy?

btw, Divorce papers are filed.
Wife is disturbed as he is blaming her and giving excuses that he did in frustration plus there is no apology from him.

Would you give him a chance and still save the marriage?
He is waiting for immigration.

2007-06-03 15:38:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-03 15:37:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All my friends talk **** about me all the time. My best male friend's girlfriend is having a baby in two weeks and when i call him to talk about things like my other friends talking **** he never listens to me. I have never done anything wrong and everyday people talk **** about me. Im a single mother w/ a 9 month old son the father could care less about our son and thats hurts me. My(ex) best female friend is dating my sons father. I want to move away BUt i dont want people to think im running away i just want to start my life over....will someone please give me advice on this whole sitution... PLEASE!

2007-06-03 15:34:16 · 18 answers · asked by N!cky 5 in Friends

im real shy and not as pretty as other girls (not super geeky figure) mine is wide my waist is about a ft. wide and im in middle school.most girls the hav little 8 in waists. so guys think im not as pretty and only think of me as a FRIEND but i want a bf! What should I do 2 get guys 2 notice me by the end of Summer? (im already tring 2 loose weight)

2007-06-03 15:32:42 · 18 answers · asked by Marlee 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-03 15:26:57 · 3 answers · asked by kristine p 2 in Family

Im recently divorced my exwife basically lies about everything where how do you find a faithfull women besides church.... she cheated and would lie about everything and I mean everything...where do i find a good woman now that my preception is there all sluts???and I know their all not

2007-06-03 15:26:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-03 15:19:34 · 11 answers · asked by Diane L 1 in Marriage & Divorce