ok.......wow this is embarassing i'm 14 and i've only kissed 1 boy...and it was a peck playing t or d. theres this guy i like and he likes me but i dont want to get with him because i know he's kissed alot of girls and i'm scared that if we did date he would want to kiss and i wont be any good. i'm really scared about this are there anything that will make me a good kisser or can you just tell me what to do when you kiss? i know this is weird but please i really dont know what i should do. i would talk to my mom but i can't and all my friends have kissed alot and i'm embarassed to talk to them about this to. please tell me what to do when kissing!
2007-06-03 16:17:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wish i new! im in same situation but 16
2007-06-03 16:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by flutebandchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, of all, you shouldn't be embarassed. You're only 14, don't even worry about it. I'm almost 16, and the only kissing experience I have is the same as yours: Truth or Dare at a party.
I can't give you straight tips, but here's a link: http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?fulltext=Search&search=kiss
Google it, if that site doesn't help.
If nothing helps, then just wing it and appreciate the moment even if you mess up. If your new boyfriend is any good, he'll be sensitive toward it and give you "lessons". Haha..good luck!
2007-06-03 23:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by C&O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you, you need to relax this is nothing to be so frantic about. Everyone has to start at the beginning, if you begin to date this guy that you like and he kisses you, he won't think of you as a bad kisser. Besides you are only 14 so stop worrying so much.
2007-06-03 23:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i was too not to long ago.. i was also 17 n 1/2. haha
I know you've prob heard this before but don't worry about it.. it sorta comes naturally. It might be kinda ackward the first few times but don't give up! After a few little kisses you'll be enjoyingg them rather then scared..and if he likes you enough he'll understand.
P.s. I laughed the first time my bf kissed me and said (outloud I may add) nooo Im gonna be baddd. He didnt care.. went for it anyways haha.
2007-06-03 23:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without getting too detailed because words lose out in translation. If you truly want to kiss, you should never be tight-lipped about it. It should be a mutual kiss where you are kissing each other. Follow his lead and then your feelings. Make sure that your lips are soft. Lip gloss turns some guys on.
2007-06-03 23:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. lol 1st. if he like you then dont worry about the kssing. Most guys dotn know the difference anyway. lol 2nd being inexperainced is a good thing! but as for ur tips: brush ur lips dont just plunge in. He should be the one to start the kiss. Pull away jsut to come back (smoothly not fast). gently stroke the sides of his face. nuzzle afterwards (like forhead to forehead). Anything else just IM me. Good luck
2007-06-03 23:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by pirate prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually the first kiss is just a faint kiss on the lips and thats usually self explanitory
when it ocmes to making out
make sure you dont go to fast because its natural for the brain to start freaking out and that would make you go fast
and dont shove your tounge all the way down his throat
but most of it will come natural in the heat of the moment
i hope i could help
2007-06-03 23:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by John D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl I'm 14 too. I know what your going through. this is really embaressing but I practice kissing on my best friend. more like we both tried kissing on eachother. yes we're both girls but it wasn't like we were doing it to be sexual. then we talked bout it and what we could do better. if you don't have a friend that close practice on the back of your hand so you can feel what your doing. practice makes perfect. <3
2007-06-03 23:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rose16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. Tell you what. My first kiss is when I'm 17. It was awkward at first but it gets better. My advice is to just relax. Don't think of anything but him. Ignore all your worries and go with the flow.
It will come to you naturally. And make sure your breath don't smell...Guess that's all...haha...let me know ow it goes ya?...
2007-06-03 23:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember to take ur time. There is no rush. Make sure u r kissing him,don't eat his face.
2007-06-03 23:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree...just follow his lead. It all worked out for me by doing it like this! You'll be an expert in no time!
2007-06-03 23:22:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋