The best thing you can do is date, different people. Take a long time with the courtship, no whirlwind romances. Take the time to get to know them. Ask a lot of questions, listen to her friends ideas of how she is. Find out what her values are, what her interests are and her plans for the future. Tell her all your stuff. You can't know some one very well in just a few months. Because when you first meet someone you are just meeting their Representative. Give it time for the real them to come out.
2007-06-03 15:39:35
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answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7
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Hi Jeffrey:
Well, you sure have had a rough road to follow. You know though, we are 100% responsible for what we do in life, and how we react to anything that happens also! Scary hey!
You can not lump all women into one category! I have known people to be married a few times, and have terrible things happen, and they got right back up off the ground of pain, and met some amazing new people and now live very happily.
In fact, more happily then before, because they are able to know the difference of what they do want out of a relationship, rather then what they don't want.
Now you have a gift. You know what you do not want! Completely, and you set the rules for yourself. Forget about the lying person, whom you smartly got 'out' of your life now, and move on quickly, to better people.
Date, don't get too close for quite awhile. Have fun, have conversations, and value yourself. Church is not the only place to met wonderful women or men! Even late Friday night at the grocery store you can meet the most amazing singles!! Seriously.
Luv
Ava
2007-06-03 15:38:40
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answered by zipup 1
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I think you need some one to vent too about your hurt and betrayal. Maybe even a professional with that "all sluts" line!
Give yourself a little time to heal up. If it is recent you may need some time to feel better about women and what happened to you.
Not all police are bad, not all people cruel and not all women lie and cheat. You offer something good, I believe a woman will appreciate it. Look for her patterns with her other relationships. If they are good, healthy, honest, that is probably what she offers a mate. If she is always fighting,complain whining and being a negative person she may not be what you want.
2007-06-03 15:34:45
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answered by donny_mollysmom 3
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I am a good woman but what good does it do me? I have a husband who cheated on me and lies about a lot of stuff. Just pray and ask the Lord to send you someone that is meant for you. All women aren't sluts and I'm glad you realize that. Good Luck!
2007-06-03 15:32:35
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answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4
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You can find a faithful woman almost anywhere! Cafee, book store,friend of mine met his wife at a doggie park event both of them are animal esp. dog lovers so it was a match made in heaven, and other than that just stay away from the party scene a bit.Date lots of different kinds of women(female personalitys)So you dont fall back into the pattern that landed you your ex.wife.Remeber to heal and get to know yourself or find yourself again.Pick women who have similar intrests as you.Try beeing friends frist and other than that just be social and get your groove back on!
2007-06-03 15:40:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Well there are alot of women on single chats. At the college. Where you work. If you go to the gym, trust me thought God will send you someone. That is how I met my husband. I prayed for him and then like the next month I went out on a date and knew he was the one. We have been married for 6 years.
2007-06-03 15:32:48
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answered by Anonymous
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You can find a faithful women anywhere it just depends on what your really looking for when your looking or dont look let that person find you. Try different place like going out with the boys or going to a game,bar,club,you can try online if your interested in that like match.com or myspace something like that
2007-06-03 15:38:36
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answered by Anonymous
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I simpathise,
have you considered a forigen wife , I had the same experence and found some fantastic women abroad, in fact I married one.
there are many women out there who dont care about how much money you have, or how "movie star ' you look, they want a honest caring man who will love them, protect them, share with them, and be true to them
go to Yahoo groups, and look up Russian spouse, you will read my story, and hear the pitfalls and the success , if your wanting something permanant and special, check it out.
There are allot of us who have done the same, its a place to see what we found and how to do it, and its free. All are welcome.
2007-06-03 16:42:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Ohh stuffed if I know. I'm trying to figure out where you can find a faithful man. As far as I can see all men live their lifes only for themselves.
So sorry but if you discover where to find a fathful person in general let me know..
Good Luck
2007-06-03 15:31:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Funny
2016-05-20 22:15:56
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answered by ? 3
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