Family & Relationships - 3 June 2007

I'm in my early twenties and it's rare to meet a genuine guy. What happened to those guys???

2007-06-03 15:16:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having major guy issues. As in, I don't have a guy to have an issue with. I'm sixteen, and I swear, no guy has ever shown serious interest in me. I mean sure, I get approached sometimes when I'm out on the weekends, but nothing serious. No boyfriend. No dates. Nothing. I'm not irresistably attractive, but I didn't think I was an ogre or something! My friends even tell me I should be a model! (5'10", blonde hair, blue eyes, thin?) I'm not unintelligent or ditzy (I'm in all AP classes) and I thought I had an OK personality, but now I'm really starting to doubt myself. My self-esteem is on it's way to the gutter. I was wondering if anybody could brainstorm some ideas to help my non-existant love life? Thanks for any help you can provide. I honestly appreciate it!

Much <3,
Sarah

2007-06-03 15:14:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read some of my wife's e-mails and I really regret doing that now.

First of all I know I'm a scumbag for violating her privacy. I've been having some trust issues and I guess I thought I would go looking for proof. Found none, except an e-mail folder "MIML" possibly abbreviated for "Men in my life" because they seemed to be e-mails from ex-lovers and guys she dated before. These e-mails were dated before we got together. E-mails from one particular guy stuck out because they were going back and forth about the sex they were going to have and that they eventually had. He even sent a pic of his penis in one, in the e-mails she had called him BD and after seeing the pic I found out why.

I know this happened way before us and I have no reason to mistrust my wife anymore but I'm trying to get what I read and saw out of my head but I'm meeting with serious difficulty.
I know I'm a jerk and I deserve this but please somebody tell me what I can do to get over this!!

2007-06-03 15:12:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've lived next door to this guy for two years and i've totally liked him ever since he moved in from Trinidad but never spoke to him. On valentines day i decided to do something about it and surprised him with some chocolates and a note introducing myself... we ended up talking wich lead to us to now being boyfriend and girlfriend. He's even expressed how much he really likes me and how much i mean to him. Before we started dating he would have so much to say to me... however now he is not communicating with me like i'd like him to. I feel like he's withdrawn from me ever since we became official, what should i do to help him open up?

2007-06-03 15:08:07 · 3 answers · asked by Jeebes 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, we we're so happy at first, but now, I feel like I don't know him anymore. He always has an attitude, hes gotten very lazy, and blows his money on junk. I've tried to talk to him about this but it does me no good. I'm really confused.

2007-06-03 15:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that I am really pretty but no guy has ever asked me out and nobody knows of anyone who likes me, I know you are going to say, well mabe u r really ugly but my fam. says that I am really pretty. When I look in the mirror I think I am pretty but then when i go to school I feel like i am so ugly, I need help...Please!

2007-06-03 14:55:29 · 53 answers · asked by :.~*LiNdSeY*~.: 2 in Singles & Dating

I have trouble with guys, and I think it's mainly because I'm too shy, and sometimes I feel like i'm invisible. I don't consider myself to be ugly, but I really can't see myself as that attractive compared to a lot of girls. I'm fairly tall (5' 9"), olive and tan skin tone, pretty skinny (123 lbs 33-25-36), very athletic (read: too lean) and I spend a godawful amount of time studying. Do you think i could change my attitude (possibly become more outgoing) and maybe attract some guys, or are my general physical and behavioral characteristics not that good to beign with.

2007-06-03 14:51:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im about to have a baby boy soon. And me and my boyfriend are debating if we should circumsize him. My boyfriend wants whats best for his future, he doesnt want him getting teased like he did. In the locker rooms, by girls, etc. But i feel its natural and if your born with it why cut it off? Should we start cutting off ear lobes? But anyways Guys that arnt circumsized whats your view on this topic? DId you regret that you wernt circumsized? Are you fine with it?

2007-06-03 14:47:55 · 9 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4 in Singles & Dating

I tend to look like a guy when I do this.

2007-06-03 14:45:10 · 20 answers · asked by gotagetaweigh 4 in Singles & Dating

Girls have periods..what do men get?

2007-06-03 14:41:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not ugly, everyone says im a real cutie, and i have a great personality, so why can i not find the one.
will my timee ever come?:(

2007-06-03 14:38:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So me and my husband-to-be are staring to think about who we want in our wedding party. The problem is I want some of my family members to be the groomsmen but he wants to pick them all out. What is the proper way of choosing these special people. I don't have a problem letting him pick some of the bridesmaids if he really wants to but I want my brother to be one of the groomsmen, that isn't wrong of me to want. Is it?

2007-06-03 14:35:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my girlfriends name is tami i realy like her alot but the thing is she only likes me a little and she has 3 boyfriends and i her girlfriend has no say in weither she keeps them or not so what should i do? i need some advice

2007-06-03 14:33:46 · 12 answers · asked by Jazzy Fae 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you like it?

2007-06-03 14:28:32 · 10 answers · asked by Cheeky 6 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is like this; little things i say or do get on her nerves so she gets angry quickly. I tried talking to her but she won't want to hear me out or change. She tells me if i don't like the way she treats me i should leave but i love her.These days we spend less time together but i want our relationship to work. What do i do?

2007-06-03 14:27:48 · 25 answers · asked by Kiddo C 1 in Singles & Dating

I am planning on getting married next year. I want the hall to fill with beautiful and lovely aroma as the guests walks in. Any ideas as to which flowers I should go with?

2007-06-03 14:26:46 · 24 answers · asked by carebear1 1 in Weddings

I like this girl and she likes me. She will hug me and kiss me and say 'i love you'. She will lean her head on me and hold my hand. And she doesnt have the slightest problem.


But me on the otherhand, i cant do any of that. I cant say i love you directly to her face. I cant just start holdin her hand or just kiss her. Im too shy and prude.


So how can i get rid of my shyness and prudness cause its gettin on my nerves and i feel like im not bein a good boyfriend to her.

2007-06-03 14:21:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 19, i work and i go to college and i also have my own car. i mostly have boy friends and i don't know a lot of girls. now i feel like i need a girlfriend and it's not easy. I try myspace but it looks like the girls really like me. And is there anywhere like public places i can go where there would be single girls there. and i was thinking about going to a web site where i can find out events for the summer in florida. Maybe i can go myself and meet girls there. Also, our family is not too much. so we don't really know a lot of people. But i have cool male friends. we just don't hang out alot. Anybody has a better idea.

2007-06-03 14:19:53 · 2 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so the bigger the better right? Wellll, guys us girls arent really attracted to your penis.. so why are you attracted to our breasts? Girls hate it when your always staring at them..what is so great about them anyways?

2007-06-03 14:19:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What qualities do you like in the opposite sex and how do you show/tell them?

2007-06-03 14:19:15 · 21 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2 in Singles & Dating

I've heard people (girls in the locker room after gym class, boys just in classes and in the halls) say things about my breasts. Yeah, they're large (E cup) but that gives them no right to make rude comments! How can I stop the comments without being rude myself?

2007-06-03 14:16:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and him

2007-06-03 14:15:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mz.S!mmonz 1 in Singles & Dating

1.) People that don't date or have a relationship in high school, do they eventually get a bf or gf??
2.) Would someone not want to be with a person because they never had a relationship before?
3.) Do you know any late bloomers?? Did they eventually get a relationship and how old were they??

2007-06-03 14:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-03 14:15:02 · 8 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so you know that dance partner I was talking about a few weeks ago? Well, we made out hardcore on Friday night. When I saw him for our Baccalaureate ceremony today, it wasn't awkward at all, just the usual amount of flirting (okay, maybe a little bit heavier) and talking.
We talked about a relationship on Friday night as well, and I realized that I don't want a "dating" relationship. I just want it to be a "friends with benefits" relationship. He feels the same way--he didn't say it in so many words, but that's what I got from it. My question is this: might one of us get emotionally attached? I already think he's really hot, funny, smart, and (when he's not being a jerk) nice. I don't think I'll get emotionally attached, but I'd like to know the majority consensus on the matter.

2007-06-03 14:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you show or tell that you like a girl? What type of girls do you perfer?

2007-06-03 14:11:29 · 6 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2 in Singles & Dating

What are the biggest concerns in a Mothers eye when her daughter is in a relationship? A relationship that is serious and wanting to get married...

2007-06-03 14:11:26 · 11 answers · asked by Bubba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-03 14:10:57 · 9 answers · asked by dizzyfish118 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i stare at beautiful women. Is that a sign of insecurity or what... im just admiring thats it... I dont get mad at her when she calls some guys hot or baby

2007-06-03 14:09:42 · 12 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-03 14:05:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating