I've heard people (girls in the locker room after gym class, boys just in classes and in the halls) say things about my breasts. Yeah, they're large (E cup) but that gives them no right to make rude comments! How can I stop the comments without being rude myself?
2007-06-03 14:16:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My response to my daughters when asked this question was to use the following:
"Excuse me? Did you say something important or juvenille?"
2007-06-03 15:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by hexeliebe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I find the best way is to talk about them (your breast)yourself. People make fun of others because they want to feel better about themselves , by picking on traits they think your unhappy with. SO say it first. Then they know your sucure with yourself
2007-06-03 21:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by melissa e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We can't control how other people behave around us, even when they are being jerks. We can control how we react. Ignore the jerks. Hold your head up high and just keep going.
Hang out with the people that love and support you.
2007-06-03 21:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Laura E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have the right to discuss this, but if audible to you, ask them to please refrain talking about your boobs when you are around, because it makes you uncomfortable Your friends will honor the request, and enemies will not. Get used to gossip. Only mature people don't do this and most are babies throughout life.
2007-06-03 21:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them nicely to stop. If that does not work, just ignore them…I know it’s really hard to ignore sometimes because it hurts us inside. But, if you don’t learn to ignore, it’s always going to bug you. Instead, I suggest that you just forget them….they obviously do not care about your feelings and they obviously do not respect you…so you should not take their words to your heart…Just learn to care about the people who care about you…the others won’t and don’t matter once you learn to do that =]. Hope I helped!
2007-06-03 21:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them ,these girls are jealous, and the boys are fascinated about your breast. Don't do tit for tat.
2007-06-03 21:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Vannili 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront them and say hey "i would appreciate it if you didnt talk about my breast." then if they continue.........get rude!!!!!
2007-06-03 21:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ada_Rochelle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋