Okay, so you know that dance partner I was talking about a few weeks ago? Well, we made out hardcore on Friday night. When I saw him for our Baccalaureate ceremony today, it wasn't awkward at all, just the usual amount of flirting (okay, maybe a little bit heavier) and talking.
We talked about a relationship on Friday night as well, and I realized that I don't want a "dating" relationship. I just want it to be a "friends with benefits" relationship. He feels the same way--he didn't say it in so many words, but that's what I got from it. My question is this: might one of us get emotionally attached? I already think he's really hot, funny, smart, and (when he's not being a jerk) nice. I don't think I'll get emotionally attached, but I'd like to know the majority consensus on the matter.
2007-06-03 14:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a very good chance that one or the other of you ..perhaps both .. will get emotionally attached.
That comes with the territory. Being human and physical.
However, I think much "dating" is phony / artificial.
If you like each other .. try and get to know each other and perhaps do some non-sex activities .. you don't have to call it "a date"
2007-06-03 14:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly friends with benefits, eventually one could get attached emotionally then in the long run when one of the partners start a serious relationship that could shatter the truth of the relationship, just **** BUDDIES.
Just a thought .
2007-06-03 21:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is emotional, I don't care what anybody tells you. Emotional attachment ususally comes from friendship. You guys are already friends, so benefits will just increase that bond. But in essence, YES one of you will probably get emotionally attached.
2007-06-03 21:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Briana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One party always gets emotionally involved. Always. Don't mess around like that. Good night!
2007-06-03 21:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your freinds with a guy like dat its hard .you have to start thinking if u get seriouse with him and it dont work out ur freindship will never be the same.plp fall for plp out of nowhere
2007-06-03 21:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jaslene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not think ur going to get attached but in the end one of you is going to get hurt
2007-06-03 21:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by BB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can always happen, be prepared for a disappointment, but in the meantime ride him hard:)
2007-06-03 21:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋