2007-06-03 14:05:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
choose the girl you have more in common with. talk to both of them (separately) see if the like you back. If one of them does go out for a bit, try to get to know her to see if you really "click".
examine what you feel when you're around one of them, which one do you have stronger feelings about? remember it's not only looks that count, most girls would go for personality rather than looks (that's including me). Just try going out with one at a time but don't be going back and forth, or they might think you're "playing" them and you won't get either.
hope this helped,
and good luck i hope you can make your decision.
2007-06-03 14:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki-dayo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a third who you like even better! If thatds not possible:
Everybody has good qualities, but they differ. A best friend for a girl if you're a guy is most important. If she's critical, controlling, and it';s all about her, no amount of sex will make up for the lousy feeling you'll get being with her.
I'd see which was really my best friend.
2007-06-03 14:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont choose. you let time choose for you. but if your really in great trouble and you really need to choose as soon as you can. choose someone who you really love and imagine to live with for the rest of your life. if you choose the first person, but it seems like your still longing to know what it would be like with the second person, then perhaps you love the 2nd person more. it would be quite better if you can give more info about them. like pros and cons. it would help you more, or talk to your friends who can advice you well about this. I've been in your situation months ago. and i let time and my heart decide over it. I'm wishing you good luck about it. take it slow, don't rush, you just need time! you can mail me if it would help you more.
2007-06-03 14:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by ~desa~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who makes you happier.. And who treats you the best. Thats how I would choose. Just dont base your decision off of looks or popularity... That could get you into a tricky situation. & you probably wont end up in a happy relationship.
2007-06-03 14:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Randa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you're unsure of what you want. You like both of them, but which do you know? When I ask that I mean to have you determine what you know about each girl and what it means to you. You will know when you think more about it that way. How does she make you think, or feel? Do you know either that well?
2007-06-03 14:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by ladyk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question is when your torn between two men!
Give it time, and dont be so serious with either.
See how they react etc etc.
Spend some time apart from both to see who you miss.
I really wish I had the answer but Im searching myself.
2007-06-03 14:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure out what you want out of a relationship - or figure out if a relationship is what you want at all. Once you know what is truly important to you, your decision should be easier.
2007-06-03 14:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sooocali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to chose. Just remain a go between. :)
2007-06-03 14:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't really answer this because of violation issues
2007-06-03 14:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write down each other's quality and find out which one you have the most in common with...
2007-06-03 14:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Acheron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋