My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, we we're so happy at first, but now, I feel like I don't know him anymore. He always has an attitude, hes gotten very lazy, and blows his money on junk. I've tried to talk to him about this but it does me no good. I'm really confused.
2007-06-03 15:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get on his *** like i do my man. threaten to leave. or with hold your goodies.
2007-06-03 15:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by lil_model05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort of understand how you feel. My boyfriend sometimes go off on me, not verbally, just the way he interacts, like he's frustrated and wants to be left alone.
Remember the in the early stages of relationships, things will definitely sail very smoothly. Time after time, you'll have arguments and those can really affect a person. He is just changing..could be for the worse or for the bad. It is just him. You should really talk to him about it and get him to understand that it IS A BIG DEAL.
When my boyfriend acted that way, I felt hopeless as his girlfriend. Kinda like "You make me feel like I'm such a bad g/f because you're acting this way." But we talked it out and he told me he will try, and it has gotten better.
Maybe sometimes other things that happen affects him, and it's bad timing so he puts out his anger on you. Talk it out with him and making him understand how much it bothers you and affects you as well..
2007-06-03 15:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by dazzlingclassic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really hasn't changed, this is the way he always was. However he was hiding it from you, something everyone does. If you wait long enough, it comes out.
You can talk to him till you are blue in the face, it won't change a thing. Honestly you are being foolish to even thing he will change. He is the way he is and likes it. He isn't going to change for you or anyone else. You just need to decide if you can live this way or need to move on to a new guy.
Good for you that you waited to find out, that makes you smarter than most women.
2007-06-03 15:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a very lucky girl. You get to see the 'real' him before you waste any more time on him. Do not for one moment think that you can change him. People, young and old, do not change. If you think that you love him and can put up with him, you are fooling yourself. You are a precious and lovable human being. You deserve someone who has good character and habits. Go on with your own life. Good luck to you.
2007-06-03 15:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change over time. Just tell him that if he doesnt get his **** together that you are gonna leave him for someone with goals in life. That usually does the trick.
2007-06-03 15:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by BamaShroomer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The honeymoon period is over, and he's showing you the real him! Maybe you's need some time apart and he'll realize how much he really misses you (and loves you).
2007-06-03 15:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wel... now i think us hould go and get into the dig game cause it suns lik eu and ur boyfriend are in a slump
2007-06-03 15:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by LuvTheBigGame18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to dump him and find someone else...
2007-06-03 15:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by M J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just finish the realsionship (i think):(
2007-06-03 15:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by just a little hyper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? That can answer your answer...
2007-06-03 15:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by bklynzcrazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋