I'm black and I'm a beautiful black women. I like dating white men, but my black friends tell me I shouldn't. Why is it ok for a black guy to date a white women, but not ok for a black women to date a white man? Am I wrong for wanting to date outside my race?
2007-06-03 15:59:32 · 20 answers · asked by DeDeMassive 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see nothing wrong with that. It's your preference, and if we didn't have preferences, we'd fall for anyone. I could only see reason behind your friends getting mad if you refuse to even give a black guy a chance just because he's black. But besides that, there is no logic for your friends not liking who you date. If they're really your friends, they would accept your choices, even if they don't like them.
2007-06-03 16:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by keli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth is because some black men are self hating, and bash black women in this process. This is why many of us get mad. There's nothing wrong with it, just as long as you don't bash your own race. The truth is also they often do it for mixed kids with long hair and light skin, slave mindset. I love white men, but don't say, black men attitude, I hate black men and others. Black men get mad when we do it too. Some I mean, like it's o.k. for them not us, hypocrisy. Also 41.2 % of black women are unmarried, we feel like they're taking all of them, white women can GET ANY RACE BLACK WOMEN ARE LIMMITED, WATCH DARK GIRLS DOCUMENTARY OR LIGHT GIRLS, YOU UNDERSTAND. Counting gay black m, jail, it makes it even more slim. Nothing against it, but most of the time, they think it's a prize or award. I gave up, most of the men who liked me were white... in fact, more black men are saying that they only date white women, or rap songs bashing black women. This is sad our generation has gone down...
2016-05-20 22:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not wrong for a black woman to date a white man. Both are beautiful human beings. Don't let other people's cultural taboos define your life and your love.
2007-06-03 20:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I'm of Samoan>Chinese>German and Hawaiian descent and I married an Irish/Italian from Philly (I'm originally from Maui) and it was a little akward for his family because they're really strict Italians/Irish and only wanted him to marry within that race. I definitely felt like it shouldn't happen and we shouldn't get married but over a 2yrs. of being around his family and just letting them get to know me, they could see that color has no bounderies, no matter what race. I was human and I could feel things the same. Some members of my husbands family are straight from Ireland and they do not like people of different races... It bothered me alittle and made me uncomfortable but you know what? It doesn't matter what other people think, it's only between you and the guy you want to be with. I learned to accept myself because both my parents are of mixed descent and they taught me to be proud of who I am, it's a beautiful thing to be mixed! and not ashamed. I think you should do whatever your heart tells you too do, if they were really your friends they would support you not let you down.I now have a beautiful 1yr. old son and I could not be any more proud! Do what you know is right for you! Goodluck Sweetie!
2007-06-03 16:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with either combination, the only thing that is wrong are your friends and anyone else that says you should restrict yourself to only dating people of your race.
2007-06-03 21:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Macro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah your not wrong for dating outside your race i actually just started dated a white guy, people have there own way about things, but you do what you do and they do what they do
2007-06-03 16:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by toohot7004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We r all the same on the inside! It's ur choice who and what skin color u date . Do what makes u happy and don't worry what others think. If they r really ur friends they should'nt care what skin color ur bf has they should just want u to b happy..
2007-06-03 16:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not wrong for dating outside your race. I think it's a great experience to date outsite your race. You shouldn't limit yourself.
2007-06-04 10:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by Gold Coast Queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't matter what ur friends or anyone else thinks. date who you like. skin shouldn't matter in the first place. if you like dating white men I hv no problem with tht, I just wonder why you wnt to dte them exclusively. another thing tht bother's me is, why do you hve to tell us tht you r a beautiful blk woman? let us be the judge of tht
2007-06-03 16:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You like, who you like .that's okay w/ me. My family is white . My Aunt's two children have had mixed relations and 3 beautiful babies. I'm white and married and spanish man.
GOD BLESS
2007-06-03 16:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by TCC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋