im real shy and not as pretty as other girls (not super geeky figure) mine is wide my waist is about a ft. wide and im in middle school.most girls the hav little 8 in waists. so guys think im not as pretty and only think of me as a FRIEND but i want a bf! What should I do 2 get guys 2 notice me by the end of Summer? (im already tring 2 loose weight)
2007-06-03 15:32:42 · 18 answers · asked by Marlee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. To be noticed by boys, and have a b/f are two different entities. Having a b/f is to have a certain person in mind. To be noticed by boys in general, you have to play to the lowest common denominator. Drops some pounds, tone some muscles, loose the bra, raise some hem lines and shorten the skirt. But that is not getting you "that one". You need to figure out what type of guy you want, and that is best for you. Then you need to learn about what makes that guy tick. his hobbies etc. Then find away to feel a void within his hobbies or interest, and you are on the way to landing him in the b/f boat.
2007-06-03 15:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your getting a lot of advice here,mine is simple and in general agreement with some.
Losing weight may not work,but exercising to tone up your body will help you look better physically.
Surround yourself with female friends of all shapes, sizes and looks-some guys make friends with the less appealing girls to meet the more attractive girl of their interest. By placing yourself somewhere in the middle,you will have a better chance to meet boys.
Be yourself,don't be someone your not,you may have to be a little more forward than normal sometimes. Try to treat people the way you want to be treated,but don't let them walk all over you.
Since you are in middle school,you have plenty of time to get involved in serious relationships,try asking a male friend you know out for a movie (with your parents permission) or something that might be fun for you (invite your parents along to-it would be nice to give them a little time out together and if you run short of money).
The best romances start out as friends and if you get married,your husband should be your very best friend too.
2007-06-04 18:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try eating healpthier, Try getting taller so you could loose fat automatically. Put lotion on your self every day to look hotter. When you loose about 10 pounds, where those short skirts, with some kind of t - shirt where the guys can see how big your breasts are. And some make up on your face, but not a lot.
2007-06-03 22:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by The Champ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who isn't the most popular find somone who isnt really big with the crowd those are the ones who are the best even though they arnt hottest they may be the best of them all as a bf
2007-06-03 22:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying to lose weight and keep a positive friendly attitude, a guy who picks up on the way you present your self and likes you for your personality will probably be less shallow than guys who are only concerned with a girl's looks
2007-06-03 22:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great feminine charms can make up for a wider waste. The fastest way to look better is smile and flirt confidently.
2007-06-03 22:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok firstly, keep up with your weight-loss exercise. Secondly, have more girl friends before you start to get to know guy ones. Widen your circle of friends and get to know more people then hopefully you will get to meet the right one.
Cheers and good luck ;)
2007-06-03 22:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want guys to look at you for your body, you'll find the kind of guy who's only interested in that.
That doesn't mean you should eat yourself into ugliness, but it does mean you shouldn't rely on your wiles to attract guys.
Give it a few years.
2007-06-03 22:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by Yesugi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur going to question the way u look, then just show us a pic of urself and let us help u by telling u what things u can improve on
2007-06-03 22:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush... well u sed it... ur shy.. be proud of yourself and be outgoing... try to look as neat as possible... always try your best to stand up in a crowd w/o looking like a fool.. look attractive and just wait coz the ryt guy will always come..
2007-06-03 22:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by oOOo :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋