Family & Relationships - 19 May 2007

I ve been dating this guy for 9 months and I love him so much. Hes going through a divorce and is seperated from his wife at the moment. I made a mistake and called this girl to her house just to see if that was her phone number, and how she sounded on the phone (if youre a girl you understand) Well now she has my phone number she traced the call and knows who I am. What should i do? No hurtfull answers please I know I made a mistake in calling her. Just some truthfull and hhelpfull advice, and b4 you say it... I know I shouldnt have been calling her. My bf forgived me about it but Im worried about what she can do. Shes kinda psycho. Please help. Oh and by the way I wasnt the one who split them up. They were split up 4 months before I came into the picture.

2007-05-19 06:25:13 · 19 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 4 yrs husband was in Iraq for 2 of those.Relationship has been getting worse.Now he is out I feel as if I am the only one who want to work matters out. He has left me twice once before he left and then again after he had been out of the military.I believed he has cheated on me in the past. We do not talk much and he gets upset when I bring our relationship up. He tells me it is my fault because I nag him. He makes decisions without telling me and we have a child that is not his but from a previous marriage. He can say some very mean and hurtful things sometimes. I was trying to go back to school but he got mad because of the cost and that I wanted to spend the money on school and didnt let him buy a boat like he wanted. We argue about money he is the only one working right now. I have tried staying out of his way when he tells me that he doesnt want to spend every minute with me even though he works 84 hrs. a week 3 weeks out of the month.We dont see him much.

2007-05-19 06:14:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a Law Enforcement officer and she assaulted me in front of friends.....Our law says when one is assaulted the suspect goes to jail no matter what. I tried but they took her and this has led to more fuel in the fire. I got a restraining order on her and kept my youngest. I called the Dad of the oldest since I don't have rights. Maybe I should go ahead and move on till she comes around if she ever does.

2007-05-19 06:11:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do you seperate great sex from a bad marriage that cant work out becuase the husband doesnt want to rebuild trust and wont do what is necessary to keep the family together. we will be divorced on friday and i am worried we will slip up and sleep together since the sex is the best we have ever had. We have tried in the past to avoid it but it just seems to happen anywhere and any time so how do you avoid sex with your ex in the future since you have to be around each other for the kids?

2007-05-19 06:10:43 · 36 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

any ideas how to tell them?

2007-05-19 06:04:57 · 29 answers · asked by Mary B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

During the summer(3 months), my boyfriend and I will not be able to see each other. He lives too far away to drive there everyday. Soo what should we do since we cant see each other. Talking on the phone and AIM will get really old for this amount of time. Does anyone have any good ideas for us?

2007-05-19 06:00:05 · 5 answers · asked by a 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy on my HS swim team that likes me. He ok but I don't like him like that. I really like this other guy. How do i get him to quit hanging all over me?

2007-05-19 06:00:03 · 23 answers · asked by RS 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 05:57:15 · 17 answers · asked by NO TROUBLES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have 2 kids been together for 7 years and my kids and i will be worse off money wise when i go i know what i need to do i just want ideas on how to make it less messy because every time i try to go he turns very nasty to me and the kids?

2007-05-19 05:56:31 · 10 answers · asked by Danielle C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If I sound Naive or totally dumb. i'm sorry

Me and my Boyfriend (Ewan) have been together for 4 happy months. Even though he has told me that he loves me, and I say "I love you' back to him, I'm not even sure if I actually really do love him. Now heres the other problem. I met this really hott guy online, and we talk alot and stuff on msn. He says I'm attractive 'hott/********/cute, etc etc' and he has a girlfriend! I call him hott, attractive, or so.. Someone once told me that flirting to someone other than your boyfriend online is cheating. Even though i might be 'flirting' with the guy, I told him that I couldn't even cheat on my boyfriend. He said he understood. but he couldn't consider 'flirting' online cheating..because I live someplace totally different than him and its only text and pictures! Even If we wanted to cheat we sure couldn't anyway.
is this even cheating?

2007-05-19 05:55:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i should marry a weight guy!!!!!!

2007-05-19 05:42:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems like the same thing happens every time- things go great for the first few months, and then, all of a sudden, i'm the one doing all the work. somebody help.

2007-05-19 05:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by That Guy Drew 6 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 yrs old and my husband is 29 yrs old we have been married 1.5 yrs. He is a conserative morman and i am catholic (not very religoius)more open minded.To get to the issue my husband found out one of my investments which had paid for the down payment of our house was in porn series. While in college my friend Paul started his own ameteur porn series and i was an partner/investor in it.I was NEVER in any of the films i just assisted in the accounting/editing/ locations/buying equipment.After graduating college i started working at an accounting firm soon after met my hubby .I still continued to make money from porn series though and still do.Hubby feels disgusted because of this and want to sell our home plus anything else bought ith that money ? Why is he acting this way?

2007-05-19 05:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mum chucked my dad out of the house 3 weeks ago and hasn't shown any emotion towars him or my little brother or me.
Dad didn't do anything to her he did all the housework bought her everything never hit her he was the perfect husband.
Before she chucked him out she made him buy a new Wardrobe a chest of drawers and a new bed and book a holiday.
My dad is off work with depression everyone is upset including my grandparents.
I was looking through her txts yestarday when I found a rather intimate one from a man who me and my brother hate.
He is the most ignorant arrogand person and I can't believe she has chosen him over my dad.
As long as this man is in my life I can't live I'm 14 and I feel like that please help
thanks

2007-05-19 05:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by rozzywozzy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me mad and im at the end of my teather.i no my husband is the grown up but my son does hit him i tell him off then there fine then something small happens and there off again pls help need advice serious answers plz

2007-05-19 05:33:44 · 16 answers · asked by sweetcheeksbrandonrob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-19 05:18:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your spouse wouldn't helpyou with nothing? And then tell you how it should be done and call you names and put down if you dont do it the way they think it should be done. and tell their mother all negative things about them. They dont want no responiblity for children niether nor wants to play with them or any thing. can't stand to be around them. Makes you feel like a single parent. treats you with verbal abuse. Tells how to punish a child that they don't want to help you with or even be apart of their life and expect you to do every thing for them including serving all meals in bed because they refuse to eat with you and the kids because they are noisey. tell spouse they need to get the kids house trained. And not act like children. thinks they can't play and explore their home enviroment. Thinks the spouse should have eyes inthe back of their head. What would you do?

2007-05-19 05:12:08 · 23 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm forming my wedding around the idea of being a blast for my guests....give me pointers even if you've never been to a wedding. What should I do/not do? I'm having a very short light-on-tradition sunset beach ceremony outside, reception in covered patio area, delicious luau-inspired food, open bar, fireworks, no receiving line....what else can I do that would be cool/unusual/memorable?

2007-05-19 05:11:54 · 20 answers · asked by Lindsay W 3 in Weddings

I'm not trying to start any crap here...

Some women nowadays are annoying and abussive as hell, and needed a good slap in the face to show them what up. I HATE how the media is constantly portraying men/husband/father as abussive, they failed to realize that there are TONS of abusive women out there that need a good beating.

If I got married one day, and if my wife acting up and act real ****y, I'll slap her hard until she come to her sense. Some women need to know their place and shut up IMO.

Who here with me?

2007-05-19 05:07:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 and I like, like one of my best boy friends but I have a boyfriend what must I do?

2007-05-19 05:02:06 · 8 answers · asked by Berdine B 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have either one or the other. If we have it more often, it';s usually more strained, or we are too distracted to really have a good time. If we go longer between, we get more frusterated, but we knock each others' socks off. Then we complain we should do it more often. Advice from adults?

2007-05-19 04:59:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a mother who is at a loss, I have a 21 year old daughter who is in a very dangerous situation. Her boyfriend beats her and has already fractured their son's head. She has lost the children because she refuses to leave this excuse of a boy. Whenever I go over there is more damage to the apartment and she has an exuse for everyone of the holes and cuts and bruises I see. I have given her the abuse shelters number, told her she can come home, check in on her whenever I can. She lives two hundred miles away and this punk thinks he is a gangster. They lived with me before moving and he tried to hit me. So I know my suspsions are right on the money.
If anyone has been in this situation what did it take and how did you get away. I want to help her and know how these type of people can intemidate and scare their victims to stay. Any help will be greatly apprciated. I am worried that I will be getting a knock on the door from the police saying she is dead.
A concerned mother

2007-05-19 04:59:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why? why? why?
so Yesterday was my guy best friends last day at school. He is 19 and will be graduating next weeek...then after that hes mvoin down to Florida. It so sad b/c we were really close. we got our yearbooks yesterday and what he wrote wasss so sweet but made me cry. So basically wat im sayin is I wont see him anymore. Hes movin back to florida were hes originally from and thats were his whole family lives. he just lived up here w/ a friend just to graduate. He said he doubt he comes back...and if he does it will be a LONG time. so its really sad. yeah im sure yall are thinkin (email hm or call him) yeah true but its just not the same! this is a hard time for me. I know i will get over it later. but does anyone know any ideas to help me cope w/ this time? or any advice for me?

thanks so much!

2007-05-19 04:57:47 · 2 answers · asked by bballchick24sc 1 in Friends

2007-05-19 04:56:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well, my mom's birthday is in November, right before thanksgiving.. I forgot her birthday.. I have felt very guilty ever since... My birthday was yesterday, and she hasnt called me.. Not even so much as an email from her... I know it is on purpose because she is just a vendictive person that way... I am furious but at the same time I dont want to let her know how mad or upset I am... I would like some opinions on this and hopefully so what to do's..... Thanks for any help...

2007-05-19 04:53:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My son lives in Tennessee, his mother has custody, but he wants to live with me. His mother is very uncooportive, does anyone know what age he can choose what parent he wants to live with?

2007-05-19 04:48:29 · 10 answers · asked by cloes_dad 1 in Family

how can i join the pravacie
if there is a procese for someone to be a member plaese let me know
what i did unstand is this gold meadl that i win i want to know how can i get it
please i want to know about the green card what's the meaning of the green card.
i have been looking for how to join the pravcise which i find it difculty and what will i do to be member and you given me one day just to chat with you people

2007-05-19 04:45:32 · 2 answers · asked by lohzing b 1 in Singles & Dating

do women truly love who thay are with and are women wanting some one in there life

2007-05-19 04:45:27 · 29 answers · asked by john m 1 in Singles & Dating

My Dad was adopted by this family and they are a family of many talents. What should i do in front of them? They also live in Idaho and they seem very nice. Help!

2007-05-19 04:42:06 · 3 answers · asked by Honey Pie 2 in Family

2007-05-19 04:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by salsalbak 1 in Singles & Dating