it seems like the same thing happens every time- things go great for the first few months, and then, all of a sudden, i'm the one doing all the work. somebody help.
2007-05-19 05:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by That Guy Drew 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop getting into relationships with cats.
2007-05-19 05:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Flash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont give too much of yourself, hold some back, it will make your girl keep coming back for more loving. Most importantly, tell the girl how you feel, like you're doing all the work, ask he if she's lost interest, if she's seeing someone else, ask her how she feels about her change in attitude towards the relationship. Maybe there's something you're doing wrong, think about both sides.Good luck
2007-05-19 12:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Goldilocks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could answer that for you, but sadly my 3 year relationship is completely one sided I do ALL of the work. You either have to talk to your partner and let them know that a one-sided relationship doesn't work for you anymore and then give them a chance to change otherwise you have to just be willing to let them go.
2007-05-19 12:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by ♥itsme♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT do all the work!!
I don't know why, but many women (especially American women!!) will take you for granted if you fawn all over them. And if you act like you can't live without them, they will treat you like "dirt". It is only a matter of time before you get "dumped"!
I am NOT saying that you should treat a woman like "dirt"!! But, while showing her that you like her, always act as if you could get on very well without her! Which is the TRUTH - you will survive if she leaves you!! Women seem to like this "diffidence" and "independence" in a man. (I have been told many times by women themselves that they find this "attractive" in a man.)
It is human nature.
2007-05-19 12:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by jack4952 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try being friends for a long time first. usually if you can observe a person for about a year, you'll get a good idea as to what kind of person they are and whether or not dating them would be a good idea. i know a year is a long time, but trust me, it's worth it. whatever bad character traits or lies they may be hiding will come to light near the end of that year. it's a psychological fact.
2007-05-19 12:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by chancery 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don'y pick up the bill every time. Let them know you want his/her input and contribution too.
2007-05-19 12:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing all the work. Most likely you are trying to please the person or show them that you can do everything. So they come to expect it.
2007-05-19 12:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by luvmysoldier 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pick the right person
2007-05-19 12:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋