My wife and I have either one or the other. If we have it more often, it';s usually more strained, or we are too distracted to really have a good time. If we go longer between, we get more frusterated, but we knock each others' socks off. Then we complain we should do it more often. Advice from adults?
2007-05-19 04:59:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most people posting here calling for awesome frequent sex, don't seem to understand much about sex. When you're 15, yeah all you need is 5 minutes and a picture of a girl, and you're good to go again. But, after you hit 20 years old or so, you can't have it both ways (freaky, and frequent.) If you go everyday, you get bored pretty quick, which makes it only so so each time. I'd say just go natural. If you don't happen to go in a few days, great all the better the next time as it builds up. And If you're in the mood tonight, don't pass it by, just so it might be better the next day. My take on sex was (after you've established the right person and all) is you don't stop it, and you don't force it. Either one just screws things up.
2007-05-19 05:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Stat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awesome Sex 3 to 4 times a week.
2007-05-19 05:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awesome sex 3-4 times a day
2007-05-19 05:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty sure I've answered this before, and its a close call. I think I'd probably go for 3-4 times a week, but its a close call.
By contrast, I'd take great sex twice a week vs so-so sex daily without hesitation, and also take so-so sex 3-4 times a month over great sex once a month. There's a point at which quantity matters more, and a point at which quality does. 1-4 times a week is kind of that break point for me.
2007-05-19 15:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is me and my husband to a T! I'd rather have the once per week that is awesome than three or four times a week that is so/so. We have changed a lot over the 20 years we've been together. We are both in our 40s and we need our rest. So, often we are together only once per week, but it is when we both want to be together and the results are mind-boggling!
2007-05-19 05:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just can't beat the awesome sex if you really want to knock your sock's off try going with once a month?.
2007-05-19 05:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would much rather have AWESOME sex once a week instead of 3-4 times a week that is so so.
2007-05-19 05:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Michael Jackson 1958 - FOREVER 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awesome sex once a week is better than the so-so sex. Quality over quantity every time.
2007-05-19 05:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to go with the Awesome Sex once a week..
2007-05-19 05:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awesome sex once a week sounds great! What's important is that you are both satisfied with it.
P.S. Don't be afraid of a little "one-sided" sex. If you are a little tired and she is ready, you can bring her off with your fingers or mouth. Then you can fall asleep together. And, of course, the reverse applies too.
2007-05-19 05:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋