My mum chucked my dad out of the house 3 weeks ago and hasn't shown any emotion towars him or my little brother or me.
Dad didn't do anything to her he did all the housework bought her everything never hit her he was the perfect husband.
Before she chucked him out she made him buy a new Wardrobe a chest of drawers and a new bed and book a holiday.
My dad is off work with depression everyone is upset including my grandparents.
I was looking through her txts yestarday when I found a rather intimate one from a man who me and my brother hate.
He is the most ignorant arrogand person and I can't believe she has chosen him over my dad.
As long as this man is in my life I can't live I'm 14 and I feel like that please help
thanks
2007-05-19 05:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by rozzywozzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My Grandfather has threatened to shoot him!!!!
This is how bad things are getting it wouldn't be so bad if it was a different person but she has made a major mistake I just want to die
2007-05-19 05:43:05 · update #1
My dad knows about this and he's heartbroken
2007-05-19 05:43:38 · update #2
I am so sorry you are going through this.
Sometimes adults do very stupid things. And this sure sounds like one of those times.
Please realize that you can get through this. That in just 4 short years you can move out of the house....
In the meantime be there for your dad. He really really needs you......
2007-05-19 05:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-29 13:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by padillo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your mom about this. Tell her how you and your brother feel about the guy she chosse over your dad. Ask her why she broke up with your dad there has to be a good reason to her opinion. Also ask her a few other questions you wanna know. Just make sure she knows how you feel. You dont have to talk to her around people either it is best if you dont talk around others it should be like a mother daughter conversation. Our brother can be in it as well so it is like a family conversation between the tree of you. That or your brother can talk to her at a different time than you. Just make sure YOU tell her how you feel. Cause my step dad before my mom married him she asked if we would mind cause she cared so if your mom does and I'm sure she does she will get that you don't like that one guy she make stop dating him if she is. That and your parents may get back together, but if they dont a friendly relationship will grow that happened between my mom and dad cause they still talk to each other and it has been what 10 years!!!! So tell your mom and good luck!^^ Sorry you had to read all this!
2007-05-19 06:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by strawberrymewkitty2012 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your family is on broken stages, my dear. Your mother is not thinking to move with your father anytime far. She is just thinking to move on else where with another man.
She is just away from the real life and influenced by the words by the another man, may be they both want to get married or so...
Its waste of time to convince your mom to stay with ur father cause she is no where that idea and as you have told, I think you father is a good guy and I can feel that he will be the most depressed man in this world now of yet.
I think you should move out of the house and stay with you father cause I think your mother is also not thinking about her children and that is u and ur brother. Stay calm and dont get all crazy over this matter, its just a matter of time, things will get its way. But you should let your mother know what kind of man she is losing cause of another man, she may not be convinced. She may say, its her life and she knows what to do.
If you dont like that man, just move out of the house and stay with your father and take ur brother cause you cant stay there cause it would be a hell for ya cause u cant that person, or another option, you can go to some relatives house until something happen. But dont think any good will happen here.
Hope this helps ya to think otherwise.... dont worry gurl..we are here with ya...
2007-05-19 06:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rizwan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm really sorry that this is happening to you. My parents are divorced, because supposedly my dad cheated on my mom. I don't know if this is true or not, I hear so many stories about why they got divorced. I suggest you try talking to your mom and dad, they will never get back together, but it might help if they understood that you were suffering. They will always love you no matter what. It will get better, I promise.
2007-05-19 05:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by FU! -.~ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Im sorry you should talk to a trusted friend or adult get your feelings you should try to confront your mom if you can lets face it some people just make stupid chocies that hurt other people just remeber this is not your fault you may want to spend the night at a friends house or something to get away from all this.
2007-05-19 05:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by golf ace 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it is up to your mum u don't know your mum's feelings toward your dad does she have to live the rest of her life without feeling love?? you seem to be old enough so get on with your own life !! let her know that u do not like the other man and tell her why then focus on spending more time with your dad brother and grandparents she may just need a change of scenery!! let her live she has given u alot i bet?
2007-05-19 05:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should talk to your mom about it. I have divorce parents since i was 4 and now i am 12. I have been through the same thing. My mom got married to this guy that no one liked and now what they got a divorce too. So i would just talk to your mom and then talk to your dad about it also. You can always tell your parents everything.
2007-05-19 05:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by kels 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it's serious enough, you can call child services, but that requires a decent amount of legal knowledge. I suggest asking this same question in the law and ethics catergory. You might find people there who are knowledgeable about your rights in this matter.
2007-05-19 05:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is bad. You mother is running off of the rails. Get your father a copy of that, and maybe he can get custody of you. Support each other all that you can. At 16, if you can support yourself, you can petition a judge to be "emancipated,"
and your Mom is out of you life.
I wish that I could help more.
See a counsellor at school.
2007-05-19 05:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋