Family & Relationships - 10 April 2007

I thought this would be dangerous...

2007-04-10 18:41:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 18:38:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help or any advices, i'm so depressed because my mom and sister always team up against me and argue and criticize everything i do, and now i'm alone there no one to help me or defend me, my daddy was always there for me but now that he is gone( he passed away a year ago to cancer) i have no one, he always defend me, now both my mom and sister treats me as a slave and are so mean to me that it shocks me that my own family is like this, everyday i'm quiet and depressed and sometimes thinking about killing myself so i could go see my daddy, please help, i don't know what to do...

2007-04-10 18:37:59 · 10 answers · asked by Isabella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A real good friend of mine (little over a year) doesn't want anything to do with me anymore. When i ask him what's wrong, he completely ignores me. I can't even reconcile with him. I have absolutely no idea why he's acting like this.

The thing is, my friend has an image problem and he thinks he's obese, but he's not even fat. It's not just that. He feels pretty worthless, but honestly, he's a really intelligent person. I think this has something to do with it, somehow. Sometimes, i think it's my fault; something i did. But i've done nothing wrong.


Could anyone please give me some advice? I don't make many good friends and he is the one best friend i've met who i talk to everyday and share the same interests with. It's been eating away at me.

2007-04-10 18:37:52 · 9 answers · asked by Palliewallie 2 in Friends

He is 21 yrs old and met a girl and fell for her head over heels. He moved into an apartment 24 miles away. Its the 1st time we have been seperated since he was born. I looked out the kitchen window as he moved his last belongings and cried my fool head off. He is going to enroll in college next month, so I plan to pay his tuition and books. He gave me his address and told me to come up today, but I didnt because I feel like I need to get used to him being gone.
This is very emotional for me. Am I the only person who feels this way? Is something wrong with me?

2007-04-10 18:37:07 · 20 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

or does he jus stay for the kids?

2007-04-10 18:32:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a strong belief that I am in the friend zone with this one girl I like. I just really don't know what to do. I mean I don't want to completely ignore her, even though that may be the only way to get out of the friend zone? She goes to school out of state and I've only known her for 4 months, but the thing is, it seems like we talk very often. She is a big fan of texting and is usually the one who always texts me first, I take time and text her back, but I still text her back. I don't want to stuck as an "intellectual whore" I'm sure you have all heard. She won't talk on the phone with me, and when we hung out during her break it was fun, you know, coffee, laughs, smiles, good eye contact and even two hugs, even though the 1st one was a "half-hug". But she texted me later that night saying she was glad that we hung out and wanted me to go to visit her at her college. I don't know if I should go or not because I am afraid if I go, I will be viewed still as a "friend". I hate this.

2007-04-10 18:30:17 · 1 answers · asked by Wayne D 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for all of one year and have come to realize that I don't love my husband anymore. I like him as a human being but am not in love with him anymore and am no longer attracted to him. We sleep apart and our lives are moving in different directions. We are too different to make our marriage work.

I am not mean or spiteful...even though he has been abusive and cruel.

I just want to leave with my head held high and my dignity in tact.

2007-04-10 18:28:51 · 24 answers · asked by thecanmorechick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked this girl out to go see a movie and i havent got a answer back so i dont know what to do. any advice is helpful im pretty sure she likes me but i dont want to push her

2007-04-10 18:23:01 · 9 answers · asked by chevy_corvette_2006 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I are planning on asking these two girls out on a date. See, we're in college but the college is about a block away so we each live at home. we're barely freshman. anyways. . . see, we dont have privacy. but we want some when we take these 2 girls out on a date.

So i'm asking where can we take these two girls? The only privacy I can think of is my car. My friend has his own car as well. But where should we drive to?

We live in Southern Cali. By LA.

Again, DATES. Need Privacy. If you catch my drift.

2007-04-10 18:21:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always been the "good girl" type - i'll be a ***** if you even TRY to pull any **** on me - i have alot of dignity, respect, i'm understanding, and i'm definitely a guy's girl - so no drama right here! :) Most importantly, i'm a loyal person - ANY kind of relationship.

ANYHOO, looking back, i was thinking about my first boyfriend...my first real "relationship"...i always thought he cared and respected me but thinking about it...he went out with a girl ONE MONTH after he broke up with me...and he broke up with me for her.

I'm realizing this now because there's a guy out there that really adores me - we've been through something similar like this - he's my best friend and decided that we didn't wanna ruin our special thing so just wait it out. It's been about more than 2months and he hasn't gone "crazy" for girls...he's been "out there" but nothing serious

Do you think my first boyfriend really respected me like i thought he did? or was he just being a typical guy?

2007-04-10 18:18:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When talking to me she is often in my space and most of the time when walking past my office looks in or pretends not to look and sometime runs past pretending not to look. When on the phone we talk and one of us will say we have to go or don't u have to go then we talk even more. We dont even call anymore WWe from time to time talk personal. . Generally she will always sit next to me in meetings or make space for me. . Also we r more touchy (nervously) and complimentary or critical both negative and positive. On the neg comments I ask why and she say also neg with her man, so whats the problem thats the way she is. She appears nervous and in a hurry round me. Always playing with her hair, . Now since a small difference where I put my foot down there is nothing but can see tension, and things changed overnight why i was not rude or ugly yet she put my no on her cell phone and gave me her number. Its as though she is ducking and diving. She even ignored my birthday yet is a good person

2007-04-10 18:15:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this happened around 2006...

i am so against smoking and drinking coz it may damage the health of the person and also can damage my health... i had a bf who does both but mostly smoking... he started smoking around 15... we got together when i was 15 and he was 16... while us being "together" i really want to help him stop smoking... but he said, "he can't "... he also says stuff to me that hurts me... when he says these things... it makes me feel that our relationship is nothing... it's just a summer thing... but he still says i love you and stuff... but there are more things that he says hurts me... A LOT!!! i also have the feeling that he is with another girl... he also has bad habbits such us cutting classes... he doesnt mind if he does that... now i'm one year higher that him in highschool... so i broke up with him coz there's more pain in me in our relationship... is what i did ok???

2007-04-10 18:13:56 · 22 answers · asked by Yani 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if your pretty/attractive?

Would people (namely the opposite) sex stare at you? Would people tell you that they thought that you were pretty?

I realize how superficial this question is but it is something that I've been pondering upon for quite some time now.

2007-04-10 18:10:05 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 18:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by trishu 1 in Friends

Is it the boobs? Legs? Smile? What about the tough attitude? Or would you rather like girly girls? Tell me anything and everything

2007-04-10 18:09:58 · 5 answers · asked by xshinylishuss 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is a guy, and im a girl. we've always kind of liked eachother. but he always says he doesnt want a girlfriend. everybody thinks we're going out since we're so close, so sometimes he'll jokingly tell people we are going out. all his friends tell me how much he likes me and ask me when hes gonna ask me out... but i dont think hes going to. my best friend also says that he hates it when girls ask guys out... so i can't ask him out. i really like him, and i'm not sure if we even shold go out because it migh ruin our friendship...

ahh what should i do!?

2007-04-10 18:06:25 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole3232 1 in Singles & Dating

I loved this girl and I thought she loved me but when her first boy friend came back and proposed she got married a two months after I got dumped? Is it possible for a girl to be owned in such a way by a guy who took her virginity? If yes I think that is pretty sad.

2007-04-10 18:01:00 · 10 answers · asked by flydives 2 in Singles & Dating

So my Bf said he will try to do me as the most passionatly he can but he said to go on birth control *which is smart but thats how i was born*so he didnt have to use a condom.So should I tell him condom or no sex/condom and birth control or no sex/or do what he wants? PLZ....give advise Im new at this.

2007-04-10 17:59:09 · 14 answers · asked by Death Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I talk to this boy butt lately things have been separated between us. I think he is talking to another female but I don’t care because he isn’t my man. Things were getting far but every since he came back from this party he wasn’t been calling me and when I call him his mom says he's sleep or his sister says call him back. I don’t know, Im confused and what shall I do?

2007-04-10 17:55:44 · 8 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Singles & Dating

who likes me

2007-04-10 17:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by tesiah c 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf is absolutely amazing at sex. he can almost always satisfy me just by intercourse but sometimes i want more just for variety or when i need more. i really like oral but he has never tried it and is uncomfortable with it. i dont want to push him but i do need something extra sometimes and he gets upset because he thinks he wasnt good enough and thats y i need extra. if hes done then we r done. he wants to satisfy me but doesnt understand that its normal for women to need more no matter how many times i tell him. any ideas

2007-04-10 17:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by avalon552 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok If you want the complete story you have to look at my profile and read the other questions i posted it gives the whole story. 1st Post "I like him...what should i do?!?". 2nd Post "So now what?" 3rd Post "Arrrggggg!!!!!?" Its a long story. kind of a summary, i like my best friends brother, dont know if he likes me, he always flirts, but i dnt kno if he really likes me or what. Anyways. I spent the night at there house for 5days. Saturday night me and him stayed up till 6:30 i the morning talking just us two by ourselves. We talked about a bunch of stuff. He had this movie that i really wanted to see but my mom wouldnt really aprove of (shes VERY strict) and he said i could borrow it then the next day come and pick it up. Well that was today. He came by. I thought he was going to just pick it up, me say thanks, and he leave.... but that didnt happen. He rang the door bell (im home alone) I let him in. He came in side, but we stayed at the front door and talked for about 10min.I asked

2007-04-10 17:38:17 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this one girl i like in class..we barely talk..im not even sure if she knows my name, i told her to a few of her friends and my friends and most of them tell me not to go after her because they say that she is bad influence. they also say that she is usually not interested in straight edge guys like me. but i still like her. should i go after her or jus give up ?

2007-04-10 17:35:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im indian.He is white..Ive started noticing this guy coz he always use to stare @me..He even gets a lil jealous when i chat to other guys..Anyway its been going on for mnths & i just cant forget bout him!I dnt think he knows that i actualy like him..I dont see him anymore coz i moved 2another department,sumtimes i just want to mail him but dnt have the guts,i dnt know what his reaction would b

2007-04-10 17:31:23 · 17 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...my best friend hates my bf....and likes my ex...i like my ex also....but not as much as my new bf...evry1 in skool hates my bf...they all think hes a wiggs and acts black...i dont no wat to do....should i break up w/ him????

2007-04-10 17:30:48 · 12 answers · asked by emo_elmo_chick 1 in Singles & Dating

well i kinda got mad at my boyfriend
because i cant really speak on the phone
n i call him n he gets mad

cuz we cat talk for like an hour or so...
n today he told me u know what, dont even call me back!

then he starts texting me n stuff....
i told my sis. to w/b that i was sleeping,
then he said to call him when i wake up.

what should i do?
i love him but i got pist of
and tears came out.

2007-04-10 17:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need advice cause i am considering having it done. derek_pagan2000@yahoo.com. Or if you have been with both types of me that would help too

2007-04-10 17:27:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months,& we are in a very loving and trusting relationship. However just recently i told him i was bisexual, and he was pleasantly surprised, and we started joking about having a threesome with another girl. But then it came a more serious conversation and were actually planning on doing it. Im up for it, but im worried that he might like her better, or think she is more attractive than me,he says that he only loves me and prefers me and that it would just be a one time thing. He says this has always been his fantasy. But im still worried, should i do this?

2007-04-10 17:25:00 · 21 answers · asked by LifeisCrazy. 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know, cause i can't really define love yet.

2007-04-10 17:23:41 · 7 answers · asked by RC 3 in Singles & Dating