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Question

I need help or any advices, i'm so depressed because my mom and sister always team up against me and argue and criticize everything i do, and now i'm alone there no one to help me or defend me, my daddy was always there for me but now that he is gone( he passed away a year ago to cancer) i have no one, he always defend me, now both my mom and sister treats me as a slave and are so mean to me that it shocks me that my own family is like this, everyday i'm quiet and depressed and sometimes thinking about killing myself so i could go see my daddy, please help, i don't know what to do...

Answer 1

Try talking to your Mom. Because you are quiet she might not really know how you feel. Let her know how you are feeling. If she does not want to listen then speak to your school counsellor or contact a community counselling centre. They will be able to help you. No matter how bad things seem now, they will get better. Hang in there.

Answer 2

That's an awful situation to be in, but I know it can happen because I know a young woman who would have had a terrible time at home if she hadn't been close to her father. Even then, it was hard for her. You need to cultivate a support network outside the home. It would help to know how old you are (one of my big gripes when people post in this section, because it really does matter). But you need someone to be a mentor. You might be able to look into the big sister program. Otherwise, any connections you can make with a school counselor or teachers, or in a church group, might help. Even a neighbor, especially if there's an older one who can use your companionship and help.

This is so much more important than most things that show up on Y!A, and you can't have too many lifelines. So get in touch if you feel a need, and you don't have to wait until you're desperate. The idea is to recognize when things are building up so you can reach out in plenty of time. That may not fix things, but it's good to know that someone cares and to be able to talk things over when you feel they're weighing on you.

Answer 3

its hard to give advice when i know soo little. But what i would do is keep a Diary... write every little feeling and emotion u go thru thruout the day. Think about the future and how ur dad still has ur back from all the way up there... u killing urself will dissapoint him. u gave up. Keep ur chin up and know that u have a purpose in this world and no ....u dont have to deal with them for the rest of ur life. u may feel that way but you really dont... Think smart and belive in yourself and only trust yourself.... u will get far.. and you will be so much better than all of those who put you down, especially family.
Sincerely;Someone who cares..

Answer 4

Do NOT hurt yourself over anyone else-ever! that would be a huge mistake. Your mother should be ashamed of herself, you can tell her I said that! Have you ever asked her what her problem is? I would tell her exactly how you feel? Is their someone you can go and talk to in private? Like a school counselor? They can help, and it would only be between the two of you. Go during lunch, and if they want to know why you want to talk, say it's private. If needed, call the suicide line. It's not just for people who are going to take their life, they can help you with other resources too. Don't let this keep happening, there is help out their for you. Good luck, and remember your well worth it! Your father is still by you in spirit.

Answer 5

Don't let stuff like that put you down.....just let them talk all they want and know that you are way better than how they treat you. you need to know how valuable your life is and not depend on others, even if they are family, to put you down. Try writting a letter to your mom and addressing the issue and telling her exactly how you feel and most importantly, the fact you feel like taking your life! Im sure if you take the time to espress your true feeling to your mom, she will understand and even feel bad about making her daughter feel the way you do. dont worry so much about your sister, let your mom deal with her afterwards. good luck and I hope you realize that your life is alot more valuable than what you are giving your self credit for.

Answer 6

There is a lot of things you can do, depends on how old you are & what you really want to do. Do you want to leave home period, no matter how old you are this can be done. Check online for children's rights laws & see what your rights are.Job corp may be for you, you can enter I believe at age16.Have you got a grandma or aunt perhaps that you can talk to or stay with? If you can get to or call your Community Mental Health Center they may be able to help you get help.I really don't know exactly what to tell you , but I hope this helps.

Answer 7

Much of this depends on your age. and what you define as mean. Maybe they se you as Daddy favourite and are attempting to 'unspoil" you. What you call mean they might call discipline.
If you are over 18, let them know how you feel then pack up and leave.
If you are under 18, and feel abused, call the authorities, and ask them to intervene.

You know that your daddy would not want you thinking of killing yourself for any reason.

Answer 8

Call CPS and ask to be removed. They'll get you out of the situation until everyone has been through counseling & the time is right. I work in this field and there are too many horrible parents - DO NOT hurt yourself.

Answer 9

be courageous, let them be the situation you're in can turn you to someone stronger and i think you should talk to someone closer to you about it and maybe to your mum and sister how you feel, don't ever feel that you are alone in this world, hope you'll feel better

Answer 10

I'm sorry about your dad :(

Just run away if you are at the right age, or report them. Or, treat them bad and see what happens.

< Report to other family is good too!