ok...my best friend hates my bf....and likes my ex...i like my ex also....but not as much as my new bf...evry1 in skool hates my bf...they all think hes a wiggs and acts black...i dont no wat to do....should i break up w/ him????
2007-04-10 17:30:48 · 12 answers · asked by emo_elmo_chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well everyone including my family hates my bf and ive been with him for 3 years follow your heart, but make sure you do listen to there opinions caus ethere might be something they notice that you don't - good luck
2007-04-10 17:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your friend's choice. Do you like the way he acts? Can you deal with it long-term? Hopefully you are not thinking that you are going to change him. It just doesn't work that way. If he does change for you, he will resent it deep down inside.
Just remember, you don't want to put yourself in a position to be embarrased by your boyfriend. If you care for him, you need to care for all that he is.
2007-04-11 00:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if you best friend and others in your school start opressuring you to break up with him then they obviously dont respect you and your decisions. Do what you want to and dont let others pressure you into going against your wishes...hope this was helpful..take care
2007-04-11 00:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Melinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i'm really sorry, but, you don't need the attention of everyone in such a negative way. if you really liked him as much as you claim, i don't think that liking someone else would happen. if you like someone else, than that means that there's something missing that you want. simply compare the way you felt in that relationship, and your current one.
if you have doubts about what i'm saying, than it means that you don't want to break up, and that you "love" your boyfriend.
Good Luck!!
2007-04-11 16:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by gothic_whigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you relly like your boyfriend then I don't think you should let anyone et in the way o your guyses relationship. I also think that if your friend was a really true friend, then who you go out with shouldn't matter.
2007-04-11 00:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by erika c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obviously not mature enough to handle a relationship, and you obviously don't know what a relationship is. Boyfriends are not accessories to show off to your friends.
Wait 5 years and then start dating.
2007-04-11 00:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥JeSs-Luv-U♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is are you dumb enough to break up with your bf because people in your school dont like him?
2007-04-11 00:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you have feelings for your bf your with now or do u have more feelings for your ex bf that your friend also likes.........just because your friends dont like your bf doesnt mean they have to give there approvel of you and your bf dateing.........do you like any of your frends bf/gf that they are going out whould u tell them you didnt like they people they love .......they need to grow up
2007-04-11 00:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a very stupid question to ask who cares what your best friend thinks .the question is.........
*do u like your boyfriend ?
*do u really care what people think?
*is your "best friend" a good friend ?
if you just answer those questions you will know what 2 do.
2007-04-11 00:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Adrian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him, then who cares what everyone else thinks, there not the ones going out withhim. if u like him, dont dump him
2007-04-11 00:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by mammys_boy_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋