Im indian.He is white..Ive started noticing this guy coz he always use to stare @me..He even gets a lil jealous when i chat to other guys..Anyway its been going on for mnths & i just cant forget bout him!I dnt think he knows that i actualy like him..I dont see him anymore coz i moved 2another department,sumtimes i just want to mail him but dnt have the guts,i dnt know what his reaction would b
2007-04-10 17:31:23 · 17 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might fear rejection, why don't you ask him out?
you never know, it might be worth it.
2007-04-10 17:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by measiam 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well I kinda know what u r going thru , I'm not sure if the guy i like too will ask me out. well it sucks waiting around right?, so well the best thing to do is just take it slow see if u guys can hang out maybe as a group to kinda break the ice then when u start to get to know each other and hang out without other people around start slowing telling him that u like him and stuff, and then see what happens. Maybe he's scared well good luck hope u guys work it out
2007-04-11 01:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Bluey07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just fears being turned down. Observe him tomorrow from time to time. If he is ignoring you, see whats going on later. If you know that he was looking at you and quickly looked away when you looked at him, then I would think he's checking you out. You should chat and share interests with him, and if you two are alike, he's most likely going to ask you out in a day to a week. If he doesn't, just keep on building a relationship.
2007-04-11 00:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy likes you enough he'll ask you on his own when he's ready. It's alright to still have a little interest in him but don't wait at his door like a loyal puppy. Go out there and start looking for someone else. If he asks you when you're still looking then you can have him but don't just sit there and wait.
2007-04-11 00:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was unsure as to whether you liked him or not. If you really like him, see if he wants to do something sometime. If you don't try then you'll never know and if he really likes you then he won't have a problem hanging out with you. He might even be relieved that you took the first step!
2007-04-11 00:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by lili860426 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend of mine once said: "Put your big girl panties on and just deal with it."
He's afraid of rejection. You're afraid of rejection. ONE of you has to let the other know of the feelings trapped inside.
You will NEVER know what his reaction will be about any thing unless you take that first step and ask, or send him an email.
Why wait in suspense when it can all be resolved with an email, or casual talk sometimes?
You can do it. I have faith in you.
2007-04-11 00:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by ThisIsIt! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may just have doubts, if a guy constantly stares at you and gets jelous over you then he must like you. You should just send him a friendly message, become friends for a lil' while then wait til' he asks you out or you ask him out.
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-04-11 00:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by MizzQ-T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of times guys are unsure if you are connected to another and they wont approach you let him know in some way that you are single and interested i bet if hes available he,ll respond but be careful if hes not available he might still respond for the interest also hows about asking for time for a drink, coffee maybe?
2007-04-11 00:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by duncan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really can't stop thinking about him then meet up with him, talk to him. You should try to get to know the guy, you may never know you guys might even find a relationship.
2007-04-11 00:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by erika c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for a Big mac or something simple.....then he knows you are interested in him ...then build on that ! Good luck !
Suggest that you can play Indian , to his Cowboy !
2007-04-11 04:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by ??? Double Standards ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up the book "he's not that into you". it wasa written by the writters of Sex in the city and based on the fact your asking the question ...he's not that into you....AND
you deserve a man who is INTO you!!
but read the book and see for yourself
best of luck
barbara
2007-04-11 00:36:49 · answer #11 · answered by SpecEdTchr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋