Family & Relationships - 30 March 2007

I dont even know where to begin, theres so much on my mind. im so hurt. i dont know what else to do. my hubby has done so many things in our marriage i dont know how much more to take.his lil ex girlfriend emailed me the other day claiming that my hubby has been trying to get at her. it hurts everyday. i dont know who to belive..i think in my eyes our marriage is pretty much over with.. i feel so emotionally detatched. i want to forgive him but i seem to cant anymore.. it stays on my mind more than anything and its buggin to the point where i want to hurt him back. i dont know what else to do. i have a 3wk old child and im staying with him to keep our baby happy. but its getting to the point where im lost in translation. im at an intersection in my life where i dont know where to turn anymore. a divorce costs too much, but im not even connecting anymore. whats wrong with me? whats going on in my marriage i cant seem to fix or why cant he be more honest with me? why does he hide 4rmme?

2007-03-30 18:29:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i just got out of a pretty long relationship. like...2 years almost and i was kinda liking being single. but then...this hottie pa tottie comes along at my work and were getting to know each other b4 we seriously date. i think that God is telling me to be with him, the sad thing is that his mom has cancer and hes really blunt so hes told me a lot about his hard life...hes such an amazing person though. idk...how can i help? what exactly do i need to do to make this what God wants?

2007-03-30 18:27:22 · 4 answers · asked by Jenna M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 18:23:21 · 9 answers · asked by Paradiddle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-30 18:12:14 · 3 answers · asked by inkspell102 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and i are close and have been cool for three years - just recently found out that we really have deep feelings for each other (he's liked me "forever") but decided that there's too much on our plate right now - when the time is right, it will happen. We decided just to keep being friends (he's the "shy guy" type) He said that he never wanted a 2 second thing with me but something serious.

Last night when i was talking to him he went from "okay" to sad/pissed/stressed. Apparently there's another guy that likes me and he was interested in hearing about him. Then in a monotone voice he would say, "you should give him a chance" and he muttered, "he might be a good boyfried..." then at some times he would say, "man, i hate girls...girls are stupid and stressful - i'll stay away from them for a while - man ive been stressed out with everything" (and i had a feeling he was talking about me) He wanted to stop talking early and go to bed.

Why is he like this when i we talk?

2007-03-30 18:09:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 18:06:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

some people can tell if you are a virgin just by the way you walk or the way you sit. how?? and is this true?

2007-03-30 18:03:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 18:01:48 · 22 answers · asked by AyeVivi 2 in Singles & Dating

I want a good photographer that I get the most out of for the money any suggestions? thanks!

2007-03-30 17:46:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She left me after a 17 year marriage fot her coworker 5 months ago. We share our kids every other week. Well It was my week to take them and it was there spring break so I went to my familys. She calls them every night when they are with me. On our way back I stopped and took them rollerskating and she did'nt get to talk to them thaty night. Well she called the sheriff and wants me to be her fuc*ing puppit every time I hav our two kids. She cheated on me and left the family and she had the gambling addiction which bankrupted us and now she is making my life hell. I swear she keeps it up i dont know

2007-03-30 17:39:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this girl I really like and she likes me and we are both sophmores. she and I would like to take our friendship to the level of Boyfriend girlfriend, but I can't do that because I am a christian and she is not, and the most important thing in my life is my relationship with my God so If I did this it would definitely effect it. I also think she is curious about what is so great about my God, and I would like to know how you think I should present my standards to her without hurting her feelings, of feeling forced into Christianity.

2007-03-30 17:37:59 · 21 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Friends

my boyfriend always wants to get together with me but i just cant..im too busy..what do i do to tell him i cant get together, but still love him?

2007-03-30 17:36:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you guys really still love a girl after you cheated on her? My boyfriend tells me he loves me but he's cheated on me. Should I believe him?

2007-03-30 17:33:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you take your wife and kids to that GIANT WHAREHOUSE store...lets just call it WaLLYmart or did you go to the other slightly LESS TRASHY store called TARGEY?

Thats married life. Get used to it!

2007-03-30 17:29:42 · 14 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 25 my husband of 3 years is 43 dont get me wrong i love him with all my heart, but lately everything about him has been buggin me especially his attitude, i was always chasing him for his love and affection as he is not an affectionate person so he was always rejecting me yet would flirt with all my friends, and now its at the point where I just cant be bothered fighting him for it anymore and i am at the point that i dont want his affection anymore either, i feel that it is taking a toll on our relationship. what should i do i have tryed talking to him but he always has excuses an never wants to talk about it.

2007-03-30 17:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by KYE_81 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please rate these items in order of importance:

1. Looks
2. Intelligence
3. Sense of humor
4. Niceness
5. The type of job they have
6. How big they are
7. How close they are to your age

2007-03-30 17:21:56 · 11 answers · asked by craig 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 17:21:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-30 17:13:49 · 60 answers · asked by dahlia76 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is a psycho. I feel sorry for her children. She takes advantage of the welfare system, and gets away with it. I want to report her to child services because her children are abused, mentally. The kids all have different fathers, and it ****** me off. I am afraid that one might wind up dead, because she don't know how to handle them. The COPS won't do nothing, because they don't want to get involved.

2007-03-30 17:09:21 · 15 answers · asked by Rouzer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every few days I have this problem. First I don't have a checking account or bank card. My husband comes home drinking. I know then there will be a "hell night" after he spends his money. He starts on me demanding money this goes on for hours. "I know you have money" I just want to buy a beer I will be back in a little while". I save out less than $50 to get us thru the weekend just because I know the way he is. Finaly I just give in I work 12 hour shifts and need to rest for the long day the next day at work. I work in a hospital and have to work weekends. If you are going to tell me to leave he blocks me from leaving the house. He is not physically abusive and he is a good husband when he is not drunk. He does not think he has a drinking problem. I know he does. I am a nurse and am well aware of the signs of a addictive personality.. I don't want to leave him because this is the only real bad problem we have. Maybe some of you have ideas that I have not thought of yet.

2007-03-30 17:01:11 · 15 answers · asked by Janst 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-30 16:58:32 · 26 answers · asked by dithu d 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you can pick a percentage, what woul it be? (Only for married couples)

2007-03-30 16:52:23 · 16 answers · asked by nath2g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now. It was love at first sight. But there are so many complications in my life that i told him about that wont let me be with him. And i've tried to break it off before but whenever i talk to him i get weak and just listen to him when he says we dont have to break it off and that everything will work out in the end. But i know they wont and that we can't ever be together and be happy at the same time. Please help me, hes gone for the weekend and were both going to different places in the summer (so now is a good oppurtunity cause well be apart for 3 months in the summer anyways). I Love him more than anything and he loves me just as much but i just know we cant ever be together.. please help with suggestions as to how to break it off

2007-03-30 16:44:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its because since we have the same looks we cant help each other. We are very attractive and sexyy. The worst thing is, is that we are both girls.

2007-03-30 16:43:20 · 28 answers · asked by Emma 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this is extremely stupid, but there's this guy who i went out with 9 months ago, and he was a complete JERK to me.... but i can't get over him. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME???

how can i find a guy that actually cares about me and will treat me like i treat him?

2007-03-30 16:42:05 · 20 answers · asked by scoot 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 16:40:17 · 11 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

guys don't like me.
i'm not hideous.
i'm smart.
i'm nice.
i care about people.
i'm not obese.
i have good morals and values.
i don't know why guys don't like me.
i haven't had a boyfriend in over a year.
and the only guys that like me are a$$h0les.

whats wrong with me??

2007-03-30 16:39:57 · 20 answers · asked by scoot 1 in Singles & Dating

had an account on adultfriendfinder...he had an account which stated that he was looking for erotic chat/email/phone fantasies and a discreet relationship.....he has been very very very stressed lately from other issues and me n him have not been getting along (my hormones r out of whack) this is our 3rd child together also. well,he denied the account and still does and i dont believe him. i found this out by going to his email where i get mail at too (i know his password)he is always home and doesnt go anywhere without me except for work...recently we have been doing ok and normal again...is this unaceptable behavior even if it is his account (which it is) or since he is not using it (i deleted it) should i let it slide?" please advice!!!

2007-03-30 16:38:41 · 10 answers · asked by Boo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

drinking can be a problem but when some one you love is doing it it hurts in the moring thier ine person and at night thier someone else its driving me crazy she says she loves me but at night its different she yells fuss cuss and the whole nine yards even leaves out no where to be found even when she says she wont any more well tonigh made her a liar move on we have a child but loveing her is tearing me a part ive tried but i never know what im coming home to is it worth staying love is one thing but im getting abused when ever she wants the next day blames it on drinking i have a place to go but its not in this state my cousin told me im a fool but he also said he can not make the descison for me i have no family here just her trying to make it work and feeling like a jerk..

2007-03-30 16:33:04 · 9 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 20 year old guy who has never kissed a girl or had a serious relationship. I'm in college now and I feel the pressure of finding a girlfriend. I have some close friends that are girls but I believe that they don't see me more than a friend. I've tried asking five or six girls out over the course of my teenage years, but each one just used me for my intellect. I'm serious about my studies, but I want a girlfriend. What should I do? Am I a "lost cause"?

2007-03-30 16:09:47 · 18 answers · asked by Ray 3 in Singles & Dating