Family & Relationships - 30 March 2007

is it natural for the amount sex to decrease after you get married?

2007-03-30 15:03:25 · 29 answers · asked by LARRY74 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night, I had a dream about my crush. I was in school sitting at a desk behind a blond haired teacher. The teacher kept talking. Meanwhile, my guy friend who was sitting next to my crush was asking my crush something. After, my crush yelled "come over here. I need to ask you something!" I didn't want to because I thought I'd get in trouble. He kept telling me to come over so I did. I walked in front of the teacher. She didn't even notice me passing by. She kept talking. I stood in front of my crush's desk where he sat and he said "I like you too". I had a big smile on my face. Then, he said "do you wanna go out?" My dream ended. What does this mean? Interpret please!

Oh yeah, I was alittle far from my crush. I was sitting with a group of people on the other side of the room behind the teacher's desk. My crush was sitting in front of his group of people. The teacher was sitting on the teacher's desk looking at a different direction than me and my crush.

2007-03-30 15:02:14 · 19 answers · asked by EM23 2 in Singles & Dating

I left my own country to move to one where I was happy, and to be with my boyfriend. I left all my friends and family. Since we started living together he has got progressively worse in terms of his moods and temper. He came close to punching me square in the face last night and knocking me out (or worse), yet today he is denying he was going to hit me and is trivialising everything - how was I to know - all I know is his fist was bearing down on me, inches from my face - and he had me pinned to the floor with his other arm.
I don't know what to do. I have a good job, I am 29, but have very few friends or family here. I am scared to leave in case I will be lonely (i know this sounds crazy but loneliness can be worse) - and I have no property and not much in the way of possessions here - everything in our unit is his. I dont want to end up on the streets and I dont want to stay with an abusive man. Any advice would be welcomed. Real answers please..

2007-03-30 15:00:40 · 47 answers · asked by Frankie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands X wife says my husband can not have his son for his spring break unless my husband has a note noterized saying he will bring him back to his mom after the week is up...on his divorce papers it says my husband has visitation rights for every other weekend and every other holiday and 3 weeks out of summer so can she stop him from getting his son??

2007-03-30 14:58:53 · 19 answers · asked by country_chick_8292004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have made my mother and father mad because i have decided not to have my dad walk me down the alise, instead i want to have my daughter to do it. i am marrying father fo my daughter and we have lived together four years know and i need advice on this sitution.

2007-03-30 14:58:13 · 15 answers · asked by nascarhottie82003 2 in Weddings

Can I act as my own attorney and file paperwork with the court ?

2007-03-30 14:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i liked this girl last year.....i loved her....; i had a very low self esteem and i was acting very stupid, after getting her msn....talking stupid......i steal her pics from her friends space and she finds out(i showed her, i dont know what i was on..).....and then she is pissed off and says she is afraid of me( i didnt even look at those pics, not lying); i tried to apologize for a year now but she is always around friends(who i hate), and she ignores me.....till now my stupidity haunts me....im despise myself...i really loved her, i found her very attractive but also very unique to me......i see her with a guy(talking to him...walking home)... and it feels like getting stabbed in the heart, i feel he is better than me, it reallly hurts......
im 16, she's 15 or 16 maybe.....answers are appreciated, but im letting my emotions out that i was holding inside...

2007-03-30 14:45:45 · 1 answers · asked by faddy a 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in US (I'm american) with my husband who is Indian. We work VERY hard but r not rich. I love his family very much, but every time I turn around they ask my husband for money. We support his father and brother and pay their mortgage plus all of our expenses here. We can't really afford to keep doing this. My husband has sent so much money over the years extra for his brother to invest. His brother used all of the money on everything else (designer clothes, mobile phone) He never invested. This is causing a problem in my marriage. I think we should stop supporting them to force his brother to work. Why should we work 18 hour days 7 days a week for someone to enjoy when we can't? My husband gets angry with me everytime I bring this up. What should I do? If we continue supporting them as we have been, we will have no savings and not be able to invest for our future and the future of our children.

2007-03-30 14:44:52 · 14 answers · asked by Roni R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm pretty sure she wont find out,
At least I hope so,
She has anger issues, and has beat me before,
But I think I can get away with it,
Should I?

2007-03-30 14:43:17 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in my late 20s tall good looking w/ two beautiful kids. I gave birth to one 8 lb 7 oz baby and one 9lb 1oz in less than 2 years so its taken a toll on my body. My husband is always making comments about all these women he sees that have perfect bodies you dont ever see him saying anything about women who have had kids and look like me and it bothers me he isnt a model himself big guy but I love him anyway. So I have been considering plastic and cosmetic surgery to make him want me more. I am talking around 100,000.00 or more. He is always looking at other women everywhere we are on the computer,tv, at work [mag]. So I rthought if I had surgery he would quit looking at be more into me what do you think is it worth it?

2007-03-30 14:40:41 · 25 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this wonderful man online more than a month ago, and we meet for a weekend and had the most amazing time ever. Now we are talking about getting married so that we can be together because we both feel that we have met the "one". We have only spent a weekend together, but have talked/communicated every day for more than a month and I am sure of my feelings and He is sure of his. He has been married for 2 yrs and divorced about 2 yrs ago and knows what he wants out of a person/relationship as do I. We are both 26 and ready to settle down and make a life with someone. Does it seem to soon, or would part of the fun of marriage be getting to know more about the person so that it never gets boring? I feel like I know enough about him to know that he is the one. We plan on marrying in the next 2-3 months. He is also in the Navy and will be getting a home station right after we get married (he is in sub school right now)

2007-03-30 14:39:21 · 13 answers · asked by murockprincess03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so it was my 1st time having sex and I did bleed it hurt really bad and I'm scared to do it again so I was wondering will it hurt the same and will I bleed again???

2007-03-30 14:27:49 · 2 answers · asked by Ms princess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is actually a problem i have amongst a couple of guys. They stare at me all the time and it annoys me. Then they treat me as if i am not there, or they are rude to me. They are all a year or 2 younger then me (in high school). I am a very strange person, but i never see them staring at me when i am doing something weird. More like, i would be walking down the hall alone saying nothing, and they stare at me. Its annoying. How do i get them to stop? And Why are they staring at me. I am not hideous i am fairly good looking. But why do they treat me like shi*t and then stare at me??

2007-03-30 14:19:33 · 1 answers · asked by Colon 2 in Singles & Dating

listing? This guy emailed me, the email showed his last name, I did white pages and got a listing for he and a woman's name (I presume his ex wife). He says he is divorced several years. He never mentions what happened with his marriage, never mentions the ex and their child was raised by him (his lives with him at this time and this guys lives in the same house he would have had about the time he married (the years he said he has lived in the house is the same as the number of years he said he was married plus the time since the divorce. We met once and he wanted to meet during the day. He took off early from work rather than come after work. He lives some distance away but it's not that far (30-40 miles). I am not interested in this guy as he isn't my type but he still writes so I write him back just to be friendly. It does make me wonder though if he isn't still married. Wouldn't you take your name off a phone listing if you were no longer with your ex?

2007-03-30 14:18:06 · 9 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

i'm thinking about going into the army this monday. i'm 38 with 5 kids. the only reason i'm doing it is because i don't make enough at work to support my family. can anyone let me know how is with the family and money. THANKS

2007-03-30 14:02:06 · 6 answers · asked by itsphoenix06 1 in Family

My girlfriend and I live together, and when we were talking recently, she told me that she's getting tired of her work ( she's been modeling for several years ). She said she doesn't get much fufillment from being a model any longer, and she wants to stop.

This career is what she's been doing since she was 14, and she doesn't really have anything else lined up, she only has a high-school diploma.

I'm doing pretty well myself, and we have been together for more than 2 years, living together for 20 months. I was considering making the offer to support her, becaue she means alot to me and I want to help her, especially since I know she wants out of that career and I know she loves me.

So, how do you feel about this? .... Ladies, how would you feel about the special guy in your life supporting you? And guys, how would feel about doing this for your special girl?

Thanks to all who answer.

2007-03-30 13:59:52 · 25 answers · asked by johnsmith2046 2 in Singles & Dating

ALL MY FRiENDS ARE NOT ViRGiNS EXCEPT FOR LiKE 5 OF THEM. AND i THiNK i'VE FOUND THE ONE i WANT TO DO iT WiTH BUT THE PROBLEM iS....iM ONLY 13 AND i KNOW i SHOULDN'T AND i KNOW i DON'T WANT TO UNTiL iM MARRiED BUT i DON'T KNOW iF iM GOiNG TO BE ABLE TO CONTROL MY HORMONES CUZ MY BOYFRiEND HAS A "BiG BOOTY" AND MY HORMONES TELL ME i NEED TO SEE HiM NAKED. BUT i DON'T WANT TO i WANT TO GET THESE THOUGHTS OUT MY HEAD BUT i CAN'T!!! HOW CAN i STOP THiS?!?!?!

2007-03-30 13:57:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy told me he wants to hook up with me... what does that mean

2007-03-30 13:56:03 · 16 answers · asked by sexyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 13:54:20 · 10 answers · asked by o Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

she knows that we have no chance of a relationship.She's middle-eastern(we've had problems before),but she keeps glancing over at me.

2007-03-30 13:53:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 16 years old.I am pretty all over but my forehead. Boys don't want to really talk to me I guess because I have a big forehead. I don't know why else they wouldn't want to. My forehead is not gigantic but it's big enough to not get me any attention. So should I just have sex with these boys to get them on my side. I am not a virgin but I just don't have sex to have sex. I have only done it once but should I just start doing it out of control. No boys want me for a girlfriend anyway so I might as well is the way I see it. Maybe then I can get some attention. I just need some help from both genders. Boys what do you think of the kind of girl that sleeps around alot and do you think that a gril with a big forehed is ugly?

2007-03-30 13:48:14 · 31 answers · asked by lovinbroooklyn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 13:45:20 · 4 answers · asked by Lynn J 1 in Friends

2007-03-30 13:41:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I work with this girl, i am an electrician and she is in security, just recently i have been spending alot of time with her and have started to like her, she is so pretty and there is 9 years difference between us but that is no problem, i am just very shy when it comes to talking to girls on the relationship side but am easy advising other people on what to do. I am also seeing her tomorrow and we are going out to see a show what do i do ?

2007-03-30 13:37:39 · 11 answers · asked by bushbaby4000 2 in Singles & Dating

I gave a male colleague a birthday present. I gave him home baked goodies, Beatles CD "LOVE", and stainless steel mug with leather trim - very manly and a birthday card. The baked goodies he almost inhaled ( he text that me that night, to let me know what he did). He almost ate the whole tin in one sitting! So, I know he really loved it. The other two, I told him to open them on his exact birthday - just so he can open something on his special day. I have not heard anything as of yet. I do not know his taste in music, he is between 26-30y. I thought a Beatles CD would be for everyone's generation. He really appreciate that I acknowledge his birthday (text message to me). Would you tell someone if you don't like your birthday present? or, just be nice and be diplomatic eventhough you don't like it? Should I ask him? It's bugging me. I won't see him for 2 weeks. Shall I just wait for him to say something? I kept the bill just in case he wants to return them to me. I doubt if he'll do it.

2007-03-30 13:35:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had an obsessive crush on him for a while now! And I believe he likes me, but he just doesn't wanna show it because he wants to focus more on school. But as the days go by my feeling grow stronger and miss him that much more. I don't want to move on because he means a lot to me and I'm convinced that we are soulmates. Please give me some good advice!

2007-03-30 13:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I like my co worker that is 16 and i want him to notice that i have feelings for him would that be wrong if we dated

2007-03-30 13:23:48 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

I think that she is being "UNREASONABLE"

2007-03-30 13:19:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would a man be interested in a separated woman still living under the same roof as her future ex-husband?

I don't have any children but until the whole "who gets what" is ironed out I refuse to leave.

Your answers are greatly appreciated.

2007-03-30 13:17:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there hope for us? Have any of you gone through a lot of fighting then later learned to get along, stay in love and get maried?

Him and I have only been dating fro a year and a half. Is this normal?

2007-03-30 13:15:43 · 10 answers · asked by sendwad 1 in Marriage & Divorce