I have had an obsessive crush on him for a while now! And I believe he likes me, but he just doesn't wanna show it because he wants to focus more on school. But as the days go by my feeling grow stronger and miss him that much more. I don't want to move on because he means a lot to me and I'm convinced that we are soulmates. Please give me some good advice!
2007-03-30 13:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks catie, but I can't begin to tell you what events have come up in his life, so yah! he actually WANTS to focus on school
2007-03-30 13:35:55 · update #1
I have ALREADY told him my feelings
2007-03-30 13:36:53 · update #2
He sounds like a mature young man who knows that he can not have much of a future without an education. Let him get his education. If you are indeed soul mates waiting until you grow up will not change that. Good for him, he is willing to fore-go momentary pleasure for future gain. I'm sure his parents are proud that he is heeding his upbringing.
2007-03-30 13:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Chill.
If this guy hasn't expressed any feelings to you, and you're convinced you're soulmates, you're getting a little too intense with no justification.
I suggest moving on because it seems like you are so infatuated with this guy, he could never really live up to your standards. Plus, your borderline obsession might really put him off when/if he finds out.
2007-03-30 20:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should be okay with it ! I mean If I was in that in your place I would be okay with it and wait unill he is ready for a realationship.
Plus if u get married he can go to a good college and became a doctor and get some big $$$$$!
It's your choice!
2007-03-30 20:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know how you feel and where you stand but be supportive of his decisions he will respect you for being honest but appriciate you for realizing whats important it shows that he is a good guy if his priorities are in order but the only thing i can say is just be honest and straight forward and let him know that if he wants to be with you and you with him than you guys can make it work with school and all. goodluck!
2007-03-30 20:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no guy just wants to focus on school. Maybe he doesnt like you as much as you are assuming.
2007-03-30 20:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. well u know like on tv shows, they have study dates, but they really don't study?? well have a study date and really study. then after u know everything u can go out to dinner of something.!!
2007-03-30 20:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by lane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him.
2007-03-30 20:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by s k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good advice
take wat makes u happy
2007-03-30 20:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by BlackTai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋