I work with this girl, i am an electrician and she is in security, just recently i have been spending alot of time with her and have started to like her, she is so pretty and there is 9 years difference between us but that is no problem, i am just very shy when it comes to talking to girls on the relationship side but am easy advising other people on what to do. I am also seeing her tomorrow and we are going out to see a show what do i do ?
2007-03-30 13:37:39 · 11 answers · asked by bushbaby4000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, when you pick her up you make sure to open and close her door. If she waits, you open it when you get to the movies also.
When you are in line, be funny, not silly jokes, but just show her you have a witty mind.
Put your hand casually on her shoulder to turn her toward something that you are talking about. Then remove hand.
Make sure you ask her what she wants as a snack. If she says she doesn’t care, then you tell her that YOU care, that it is important to you that she has a good time and that includes a snack that she wants. Whatever she wants get the large one to SHARE; if she wants popcorn and a soda, then ask her if one large popcorn and a coke for the both of you is enough. If she likes you she will WANT to share.
If there is a crowd, you reach down and grab her hand to lead her through the crowd. It makes sense to do so, you get to continue the touching, and it shows that you are a strong man that can lead her through the pushing crown. Touching is REAL important to start the “juices” flowing with women. An arm around the shoulder can also be used as a guiding gesture, but be careful that it is needed and not gratuitous.
While at the movie, share the snacks. Whisper.. WHISPER.. a few comments. Heads must be close for whispers, and you don’t annoy anyone either.
After the movie… I hope you can go out for ice cream.. it may seem silly, but it is soooo traditional that it works. While at ice cream, ask her about herself...and LISTEN.. don't start talking about yourself like everyone else would. LIsten to her answers, and then ask her ANOTHER question about herself based on her answer. Women LOVE to have a man interested in them for more than their body. Now, if you were a player, you would have her home in bed after this. But since you are not… take her home. Walk her to her door. Reach out and take BOTH her hands. Look her in the eye, and with a warm smile tell her you had a great time. You really enjoyed her company. That she is a lot of fun to be with.. don’t look at her boobs, let go quickly… turn and walk to your car. If, as you are getting in your car, she is still looking, smile and wave. You have shown interest, you have made physical contact whch shows you are a man and can touch a woman with confidence, but you didn't act like an animal that is only interested in sex. THIS is a challenge for a woman. She is used to having men want her, and you acted like a gentleman/MAN, but not a wimp. This is a turn on for her. She will have to use HER skills, dress, movement, touch, on the next date to make things move forward. She will be thinking about you...
The next time you see her, greet her with a smile, put your hand on her shoulder and tell her you had a GREAT time with her. Follow up with a comment about the movie and some connection to something that happened to you since then. And then move on to small talk or your job.... Good luck with the next date!
2007-03-30 13:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a first date, don't go into it with expectations. Enjoy the company, have good conversation (not during the show, of course), and relax. Don't feel like you have to do something different than be yourself. Respect her, listen to her. Offer a warm hand shake or a light hug at the end of the night, see how it feels. Tell her how you enjoyed the evening and if you'd like to do it again.
2007-03-30 13:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, judging via how she's all tousled in her relationships (2 boyfriends on a similar time) she could say particular and in simple terms use you to cheer up and then unload you. i could say that's in simple terms a splash a grey area. yet once you relatively think of she's that desirable and you do no longer recommendations what occurs later then yep you're good 2 perhaps 3 weeks and your golden. the different one will in all likelihood get jealous, yet once you adult males do no longer communicate she'll recover from you and pass on and you will in no way have that risk returned... which might suck if she easily is that exceptionally :L You gotta determine which lady you like extra. via fact in case you elect for one your gonna omit out on the different. the dancing element: i in my opinion think of that must be relatively stunning xP yet some ladies could be like.. wtf?? i assume it relies upon on the type you pull it off - like while you're an somewhat humorous no longer awkward guy you're golden with that. yet once you come of cheesy that's interest over. wish i ought to help :P
2016-11-25 00:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think, you both are able to talk to each other. like you said, you have been spending lots of time together. getting to the friends part is great. maybe if something is going to happen, just be friends and see what happens. if a relationship starts, good for you. when you go to the show and hang out with her, just talk as friends.
2007-03-30 13:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by roxygirl2828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is..Don't ever be afraid to ask someone a question..because the worst they can tell you is No! Go for it..ask her if she wants to get something to eat after work or something..tell her you think she is very attractive..and would like to take her out..if she says No..just respond with ..it not a big deal just thought I'd give it a shot..You have nothing to loose..just gain..Good luck!!
2007-03-30 13:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by CJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the conversation flowing. Don't be too forward-be a gentleman. If things go well then make a move. I would just be yourself-maybe just an enhanced version. After all being yourself got you this far right? lol
2007-03-30 13:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by barbiebabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, just tell her how you feel! Sometimes you have to come out of your shell! It could only be for the best. don't try to overreact and messup what you have going, but just relax it could only be a good thing!
good luck!
2007-03-30 13:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, get a conversation going.
2007-03-30 13:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the show and have alot of fun
2007-03-30 13:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go!! but you must know her better and the girl must feel that
you are respecting her....... ok!!
this girl will like you...hehehe
2007-03-30 13:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin...hehehe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋