Should I have sex to get boys to like me more ?I have a larger forehead and no confidence .Read below?

Question

I am 16 years old.I am pretty all over but my forehead. Boys don't want to really talk to me I guess because I have a big forehead. I don't know why else they wouldn't want to. My forehead is not gigantic but it's big enough to not get me any attention. So should I just have sex with these boys to get them on my side. I am not a virgin but I just don't have sex to have sex. I have only done it once but should I just start doing it out of control. No boys want me for a girlfriend anyway so I might as well is the way I see it. Maybe then I can get some attention. I just need some help from both genders. Boys what do you think of the kind of girl that sleeps around alot and do you think that a gril with a big forehed is ugly?

Answer 1

Girl I dont think you need to sell yourself short like that. You said that you are all around a pretty girl and you don't know why guys don't want a serious relationship with you. My first answer is don't be so cocky. I know you think you are pretty and I am not doubting that but you can't think you can get any guy you want. Every guy out there isn't the guy for you. And second, absolutly not. Don't go have sex with every guy just to have sex. You should find someone that loves to have fun with you, just to hang out and talk. Find someone for their personality and not just what they look like. So what if you think your foreheads big, other people might not. Be confident but not arrogant. You have to make yourself look avalible without seeming to desperate.

Answer 2

NO, NO, and NO! You should not have sex to get attention... or for that matter at all when you are 16! So many people under estimate the risks involved with sex... stds and unwanted pregnancy! Besides all of that you don't want attention from a boy who is only paying attention to you because you are willing to sleep with him! Regarding your forehead... everybody has things about themselves that make with a little self conscious but most of the time other people don't even notice the flaws we see in ourselves. If you are really concerned about it try wearing your hair in a way that covers it... like having bangs. Sex is most certainly not the best way to get attention and you'll be selling yourself short and basically giving away your self respect for what... attention from boys who are not worth getting attention from if they only want sex.

Answer 3

Do not sleep with a bunch of guys, that's disgusting, you could get pregnant, you could get STD's, it would hurt you emotionally...and eventually when you meet a guy who's willing to accept you...big forehead and all...which isn't even a problem as I see it, you're going to regret sleeping with all those guys, and do you really want to be seen as an easy cheap girl? because that's how they'll all see you, that's not the kind of attention you want to have, I've seen girls do end up that way and they are more unhappy then they were to start with...do NOT have sex with people for attention

Answer 4

unless you want to be considered a slut yes go ahead, all this to get attention from the boys. I'm sure no matter how ugly you might think you are for the reason been your forehead there is always guys out there not all guys are interested in your looks but if you have sexual activities with someone just to get attention from guys then i would say yea i will give that slut a go to. Is that what you want in life? Besides you only 16 you got plenty of time to explore the world.

Answer 5

Most boys your age don't have a lot of confidence either. They may not look it, but a lot of them are shaking in their boots, and scared to death of being turned down. You may be more critical about your appearance than you deserve also. And yes, passing yourself around would get their attention. But they won't love you. They will only tell their friends so they can have a turn. You would be opening yourself up to an ugly, humiliating experience, that would nearly impossible to rise above. Sex is a gift, something special, that shouldn't be cheapend, passed around like a bag of cheeto's. A gift given that free won't be appreciated. And that won't raise your confidence either. Try to make some friends, and choices you can feel good about. Ok?

Answer 6

Your forehead is probably not ugly. Teenage girls are overly critical of themselves. Wearing bangs to cover it up might make you feel better.

Becoming a whore will not make people like you. It will make you the talk of the school, the butt of jokes in the locker room and break your parents heart. And when you meet someone who likes you he will lose interest when he finds out about your past. Also there is the pregnancy thing, the STD thing, the AIDS thing and the self respect thing. Just be pleasant, study hard and grow up a bit.

Answer 7

Girls With Big Foreheads Are Not Ugly BUT Girls Who Sleep Around are Ugly

Answer 8

OMG..I know exactly how you feel I have a big *** forehead too but they still want me at least now they do i never gave it up to nobody though but don't do that cause after a while people gonna be like you a hoe and nobody gonna mess with you cause you would be like a hoe and ain't no boy going to mess with a chick like that for long and you never know what you could catch disrespecting yourself like that don't do it after a while they'll like you and be noticing you just make your style stick out a little bit more or something...

Answer 9

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you are beautiful already and your forhead doesn't matter. It shouldn't matter to anyone and they probably don't care either. You should not sleep around if that is not what you want. It will make you more popular but not for long because guys talk and say she is easy and if you just want to get laid go see her. Is that how you want your reputation to be? I think not, have sex only if you want to and only if you care to do anything else is not respecting yourslef and if you don't nobody else will. Take care Heather

Answer 10

i will have to see your forehead to really tell you if that is the problem. if you want an honest neutral opinion, send me a pic for me to tell you. trust me i have seen people with foreheads and a half. it has never stopped them from being in a relationship.

now, let's break down your question.

you admit that you are pretty all over, but your forehead. maybe you view it in a way it's not viewed by others. sometimes you can't lean on friends to be neutral with you in some cases, because if you have said it enough times, they will start seeing your problem the same way you do. it's like having another set of your own eyes only from the outside.

believe it or not, everyone has something at least one thing, they are not happy with physically. if you think it's problem, then everyone is going to make it a problem. if you are confident and don't make it a big deal, neither will others. and even if they do, if you don't take critical comments personally people will eventually leave you alone. i assume that you are in high school which is hell in terms of body image. people can be cruel and make fun at you enough times to the point that they create problems in your head that were not there before.

sleeping with people just for the sake of what? it's not going to make you popular, it's going to make you feel countless times terrible about yourself not just your forehead, but your entire being. you don't want that. being promiscuos is never a good idea if you are a boy or girl. no one will respect you. if you ever had a chance of having a boyfriend, you will ruin it this way. you know how word spreads around when someone sleeps with the wrong person. being easy is not good for your body, mind or soul.

that should never be an option. i didn't have a boyfriend until i was 18. and i didn't have sex until 22 i thought no one would like me, but i never wanted to be in everyones mouth like that.

forget about your body, you have to work on making your being whole. you can't make people like you in this way. people should get to like who you are first. then if you really care for each other you will hopefully wait before going into having sex. but if you decide to, is because you care for him and you are 100% sure he loves you as well.


no one will take you seriously, or respect you or want to be with you if you become that person. doing that will only show the world how insecure and unhappy you are. i know that that is not what you want for yourself. you don't have to be popular, everyone doesn't have to like you. maybe you are trying to get people from other circles to like you that is why you find that they don't. find your own click, if you don't have a group, create one. everyone wants to belong. you are not alone in that. you just have to make the right choices in order to get there with your head up high. if you are finding it hard to make friends, then create a group of some sort. what ever your interests are, post it. maybe you can start something as an after school gig.

you are the one who controls your life, not others. if you want to viewed a certain way, you must make it happen. but, you first have to want to be with yourself, before you can expect anyone else to be with you.