Family & Relationships - 30 March 2007

All my teenage life I've always been boy-crazy with a boy or two, but now, I'm not, and I keep calling men she's! Why?! I'm in distress, I'm still hetero right? I can't understand! I've always been crushing on a boy but now I just lost interest. Is this normal? Please, I'm desperate to know!

2007-03-30 16:09:19 · 5 answers · asked by Ansia 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer a man to buy you a drink, just come over and start talking, or what? And how do you let a man know that you wouldn't mind him approaching you?

2007-03-30 16:03:20 · 19 answers · asked by aquaman2964 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend recently out of no where wants to take a break and wont talk to me or respond to my messages. Im a freshman at a local college and shes a senior in high school. We've been going together for over a year and half, and i think one of the problems is she has no sex drive towards me but i think its from the birth control shes on. It seems like shes having a midlife crisis in highschool. Is there a chance she'll come back? And what should i do while on the break?

2007-03-30 16:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by nobody5390 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this man who is recently seperated from his wife ( not yet divorced)..how risky is it to date him? What did you all go through your first year of being seperated from your wife? He is emotionally unstable at times, is that normal considering the trauma of a seperation? I have never been married. Thanks

2007-03-30 15:58:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

t, my only friends are his and all he does is complain and he says I have it made..Thanks

2007-03-30 15:53:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Man, i like this boy in i think he likes someone else but everybody knows how I feel but if i tell him I probably get shot down so please help

2007-03-30 15:52:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

living room and stuff. So, I can never really go downstairs. Not only that, but there's like company over every day. I come down the stairs, and there's always someone there. Nobody even asks if I'm okay with anybody coming over or not. I really feel like this isn't my home. It really bothers me because I'm not comfortable with his friends or the people he hangs out with. When I moved here, I knew that his friend would be living here too, but this is not what I expected. If I ask him to go buy groceries with me, he won't, but he wlll with his friend. I've even questioned his sexuality because of it. It's really hard. My bf is so mean to me. He's so disrespectful, and it seems like he has no concern for my feelings whatsoever. He treats me like I don't count. I'm so uncomfortable living here, I can't really put it into words. I know I have to go, but I guess I'm kinda scared. I think I just need some advice, suggestions, other opinions. What should I do?

2007-03-30 15:47:40 · 10 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

EARLY APRIL FOOL'S YOU GULLIBLE FOOLS!!! This didn't really happen but I knew you would come running here to answer the question because it sounds so bad. Look at u with that pathetic look on ur face. You look so silly!

2007-03-30 15:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by Masta P 1 in Singles & Dating

I left my husband because he is verbally abusive and now he is telling me he wants me back because he loves me. I don't understand how he can love me and say the things he says to me. Do you think he can change?

2007-03-30 15:44:52 · 26 answers · asked by Paradiddle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It was the only picture that was in his wallet and it was in the front. It happened a while ago, but I'm just curious.

2007-03-30 15:44:23 · 18 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Singles & Dating

i just recently lost my friend in a house fire while she was sleepin n her two little sisters we were close n i can't handle it what are some things i can do... so i don't go crazy im always with friends... i remember all the happy times i just can't handle it...

2007-03-30 15:41:09 · 5 answers · asked by pretty girl!! 3 in Friends

so i kinda have the emo look i'm not gonna lie but today i was im'ing this dude who hates me from my school (dont ask) i said that emo's deny if there realy emo so then he's like are you emo and of course i said yes. (knowing that i'm not emo) then he's like HA I'M GONNA SHOW THE CONVO TO THE WHOLE SCHOOL AND BLACKMAIL YOU..what do i do/? i dont wanna get adults involved but ughh.

2007-03-30 15:39:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 15:36:41 · 19 answers · asked by msjazzyphd 2 in Singles & Dating

I AM 25 YEARS OLD AND STILL A VIRGIN, IS THAT SAD, OR IS IT JUST FLAT OUT FUNNY? I DON'T WANNA JUST GIVE IT AWAY TOO ANYBODY, I WANT IT TO BE WITH THE RIGHT PERSON, I WANT IT TO BE SPEACIAL, MEAN SOMETHING YOU KNOW?

2007-03-30 15:32:20 · 27 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, there is this guy in my class who I thought was cool, until I found out he had a gf, and she called an said some mean things. now I dont talk to the guy anymore b/c he lied also b/c he asked me for sex and he is very rude, he says he cant wait until I get a job so I can give him money and he has said some pretty vulgar things that made me uncomfortable. I ignore him, but he still tries to speak, so now he calls himself trying to make me jealous by flirting with other girls, and the thing is I dont care an all the girls have bf's. I told them what he said to me, he basically said if u want a hug then u have to have sex with me, why is he doing this? I told him that what would he do if his gf knew what he said, he said he always cheats an will until marriage. He sickens me, I wish I never tried to be his friend, but now I have to see him until school lets out. What should I do, I was goin to tell his gf, but she probably wont believe me it shocks me that he came across that way 2me

2007-03-30 15:32:17 · 12 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2 in Singles & Dating

Teases I don't know about all but my wife thinks it is all fun to get me going then she just shuts down is this normal for women to tease the crap out of there hubby's. This is just cruel most women know that us guys are just horndogs and well love sex so what they seem like to see us sweat and get all horny then it is like sorry I'm tired, or I got a toothache, or headache, it just seems to me that us guys get screwed over.
I love my wife with all my heart but she knows that I would have to be me on my death bed to refuse sex and I think women use that against us men! SO LADIES AND GENTS AM I WRONG?

2007-03-30 15:31:42 · 1 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this guy,i dont see him everyday,but when he is around,he always make sure i notice he is around.we both smile as soon as we see eachother,we flirt,a little.and for some rason i ccant stop thinking about him.i have been waiting for a chance for us to be alone to see if he kiss me,as he has sugested while ago.but,i dont like him like that.whats going on?

2007-03-30 15:30:54 · 7 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Singles & Dating

should u care that u will like me 4 who i am, cuz other guys i no do care wat i look like and wat i like. and also do u think im sweet and kind 2 ppl(wen i no iam)

2007-03-30 15:28:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they say it will eventually enable them to have children

2007-03-30 15:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by judas 1 in Friends

I am very confused right now. I think I am in love with this girl, but she, I think, has a mental problem. One day she might say goodbye, the next, she couldn't live without me. She scared the Jesus out of me last night, when I tried to break up the relationship. She locked her Mercedes so that I couldn't get out, and drove like she's trying to kill us both. I finally calmed her down...But needless to say, I was sweating like a pig, because I get motion sickness easily and don't like being inside small, enclosed spaces. It's only been a day, but I miss her already. I am trying not to answer her calls. But I don't know how long before I submit to her tears. I don't know what to do !

2007-03-30 15:23:15 · 16 answers · asked by dn.dan_6575 1 in Singles & Dating

i liked this girl last year.....i loved her....; i had a very low self esteem and i was acting very stupid, after getting her msn....talking stupid......i steal her pics from her friends space and she finds out(i showed her, i dont know what i was on..).....and then she is pissed off and says she is afraid of me( i didnt even look at those pics, not lying); i tried to apologize for a year now but she is always around friends(who i hate), and she ignores me.....till now my stupidity haunts me....im despise myself...i really loved her, i found her very attractive but also very unique to me......i see her with a guy(talking to him...walking home)... and it feels like getting stabbed in the heart, i feel he is better than me, it reallly hurts......
im 16, she's 15 or 16 maybe.....answers are appreciated, but im letting my emotions out that i was holding inside...

2007-03-30 15:22:57 · 1 answers · asked by faddy a 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend does not trust women. He gives me all his paychecks to put into my account so his wife cant take half of it in case of divorce. He first turns his checks into cash and then I put the money into my account so they cant trace were the money went. He also buys houses in my name so if she ever tries to take the house, she will find that its not really his house. He does the same with cars. Now you may think hes taking advantage of me, but i get all the intrest that his money makes and because he buys houses and cars in my name, i have excellent credit and could get a loan for anything. I would not do it otherwise. Now i know he could get into trouble if he gets caught, but can i get in trouble???

2007-03-30 15:22:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was in the auditorium because there was a play there. A 6th grader that my mom knew well (He's one of the cool kids in his school) was sitting 4 rows in front of me. I was with my friend too. He was talking to his friends and this girl that I think is hot. He was talking to the cool 6th grade kids too. My mom yelled out, "ALEX!!" and waved to get his attention. All the cool kids and the girl looked behind her and eventually saw me, my friend, and my mom waving. I felt like an idiot!

Does anyone know if I looked like an idiot? How long will this take effect? Because I am very cautious about embarrassing myself in school. Am I scarred for life for this?

2007-03-30 15:21:17 · 15 answers · asked by Steve C 3 in Family

i know this sounds weird but i have not had the privalege to be taught how to wear your rings correctly.. which do you put on first to wear as a set?,, the engagement ring or the wedding ring?

2007-03-30 15:20:47 · 20 answers · asked by pumpkin25 1 in Weddings

2007-03-30 15:19:04 · 10 answers · asked by bafsaw17 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at a party a few days after Christmas. We all got drunk and she was fighting with me about her boyfriend. She made me leave, I was so drunk I passed out and ended up on someone's doorstep with alcohol poisoning and hypothermia. When the police and Ambulance were called they all left the house they were at, so they wouldn't get into trouble. Two houses away, she knew it was me. After everything I did for her she left me for dead in the snow. She choose a guy over her 7 year best friend. When the Ambulance came I was having Seziures and choking. My family was there after being called and I stayed in a hospital for a week. She left me there, never said sorry, and didn't call my house, like she didn't care at all. Now she wants me to be her friend, like nothing happened. I still feel alot of pain from this, and no one knows my side of the story. I should forgive something that cold. It was her party and she stabbed her best friend in the back. What, forgive that, seriously, REALLY

2007-03-30 15:17:51 · 8 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 in Friends

i need 2 know because i went with someone then went with his cuz i kissed them both and the one i went with first is mad at me and calling me and my family names then the first cuz i went with broke my step father car window .he called my house and lefted a message on my phone

2007-03-30 15:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I started off as best friends. he has a lot going on in his life. We did not intend to get into a serious relationship, but it just happened. Lately he's been acting a little strange. However, he has made comments such as, oh when the weather gets better we'll go whitewater rafting, or lets go here on vacation this summer and really sweet things. The other night I questioned his strange behavior and we didn't get into a fight but a long discussion which led to us breaking up and him saying he wasn't "in love with me anymore." But that he does love me. That right now, he needs his space. At first we were gonna stop talking altogether. I told him I'd call him in a month, and then he said call me in a couple weeks. He's had several very bad relationships in the past few years, one with a married woman who toyed with him about leaving her husband for two whole years. I told him he was afraid of commitment and he said I was probably right. So with that said... What do I do, fight?

2007-03-30 15:12:58 · 9 answers · asked by lost 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 15:11:15 · 30 answers · asked by jan j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He cheated on his last girlfriend. He has a new one, and now hes talking about hooking up with me. He's an amazing and sweet guy and all but he's really unfaithful. I don't know what to do. Hook up or stay friends?

2007-03-30 15:10:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating