living room and stuff. So, I can never really go downstairs. Not only that, but there's like company over every day. I come down the stairs, and there's always someone there. Nobody even asks if I'm okay with anybody coming over or not. I really feel like this isn't my home. It really bothers me because I'm not comfortable with his friends or the people he hangs out with. When I moved here, I knew that his friend would be living here too, but this is not what I expected. If I ask him to go buy groceries with me, he won't, but he wlll with his friend. I've even questioned his sexuality because of it. It's really hard. My bf is so mean to me. He's so disrespectful, and it seems like he has no concern for my feelings whatsoever. He treats me like I don't count. I'm so uncomfortable living here, I can't really put it into words. I know I have to go, but I guess I'm kinda scared. I think I just need some advice, suggestions, other opinions. What should I do?
2007-03-30 15:47:40 · 10 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm gonna be starting school soon, I don't have much money, so I kinda feel like I'm stuck. Also, he's my first real bf, so It's kinda hard. But he has no reason to treat me as he does. I'm a good girl.
2007-03-30 15:56:28 · update #1
As for that Stevo guy, I am defenitely not a hoe, you piece of trash. I don't know who you think you are talking to, but you better learn some respect. Go tell your mother that stuff about hoes.
2007-03-30 16:03:33 · update #2
robot, you dimwit, I'm not a complainer , I'm asking for advice. This is yahoo answers. Hello.
2007-03-30 16:06:51 · update #3
As for pictures... I did not think that I could change him. If I had been dating him, obviously I was content with him. He changed on his own. Living with someone you can see things that maybe you would not have seen otherwise.
2007-03-30 16:09:49 · update #4
You can have a good relationship with a man that will treat you like a queen. You are playing with a boy.Make a plan, first if you get any money, set it aside ( hide it). second, keep your purse with you where ever you go. Keep some clothes pack and hidden. Once you have had enough or saved enough money, you will get out of there. Find somewhere else for you to live. Find a couple of female roommates to board with you, make sure you get a job. You don't need a man, just God. My prayers are with you.
2007-03-30 16:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by really???? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By you agreeing to move in with your boyfriend when you knew his friends already lived there also you in a sense agreed to just be part of the group. Your expectations were to have him all to yourself after you moved in. Now you found out this has not happened and you are upset. Since you decided to move in, you can decide to move out. Your boyfriend has learned to disrespect you because you have allowed him to do so. My opinion, you should have never settled to move in with him in the first place. Women like you always think they can change their guy once they have him to themselves. As you can see your plan did not work. I am not telling you this to to be cruel, I am trying to help you see that only you can dictate how others treat you. Either you continue to put up with this or you don't, the decision can only be yours. I do hope you decide to do what is right for you!
2007-03-30 22:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure did not read one reason at all to stay there. If you still want to date him, fine, don't know why you would, but anyway get the Hell out of there. Find a girl to live with if rent money is limited or move back home for a while. And don't be so quick to move in with the next boyfriend ESPECIALLY IF HE IS GOING TO HAVE ANOTHER FRIEND LIVING THERE ALSO. Know what I mean Vern?
2007-03-30 22:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by D'Artagnan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not paying any bills then he probably thinks you dont have a say. If its HIS place and you are staying there then he probably feels he can have who ever he wants to come over. Either try to work it out or leave. Trying to make a guy choose between you and his friends is one of the worst things you can do. As the saying goes Bros before Hoes.
2007-03-30 22:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he has given you more than enough reason to leave and from the sounds of things, he probably wants you to leave. there is nothing that you can really say about all the people in your house. i mean you live there and pay bills, but so do they and you knew that they were going to be there before you moved in. more than likely he is just keeping you around for your share of the rent. cut your losses and get your own place.
2007-03-30 22:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not his girlfriend. You just give him sex. He spends the rest of his time with his real friends. Move out and start over. He doesn't care about you and is only using you. You probably cook and clean also. Move out and find a new roommate. You don't even have the benefits most roommates have. You are abusing yourself by staying with this loser.
2007-03-30 22:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a complainer who tends to expect and desire ohers to compensate for your ineptitude. Grow some pride and maturity and stop asking for others advice by standing up for yourself. Noone can stand-up for you better than yourself because you know yourself best. Grow up and be accountable. Anyone can sit and complain but it takes a worthwhile person to respect themselves enough to stand-up and account for themself.
2007-03-30 23:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by robot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find someone who appreciates you and respects your feelings, not someone who ignores them.
2007-03-30 22:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend.
Harsh, but my best advice.
2007-03-30 22:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mortis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY YOU LIVIN WITH HIM, FIND SOME OTHER HOTTIE OUT THERE WHO REALLY CARES FOR YOU!
2007-03-30 22:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by island girl!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋