He cheated on his last girlfriend. He has a new one, and now hes talking about hooking up with me. He's an amazing and sweet guy and all but he's really unfaithful. I don't know what to do. Hook up or stay friends?
2007-03-30 15:10:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither...
Avoid him..
2007-03-30 15:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assure you, you're playing with fire. And I loath to be the bearer of bad news, but this man already is establishing a pattern. Even if he manages not to cheat on you, I sincerely believe that temptation will always remain, simply because that line has been crossed. Once committed, an act becomes easier and easier to do with each try. It has nothing to do with you, that you're unloveable or anything like that. Neither am I trying to incriminate him, because I obviously don't know the guy though I fully believe you when you say he is amazing and sweet.
However, I am a man and I understand men, though I can proudly say I've remained faithful to my wife even through a year-long deployment to Iraq. My vote, worth anything, is stay friends. believe me, they're are amazing and sweet guys that don't cheat on the women they love.
2007-03-30 22:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to hook up with a liar and cheater? He would just be using you. You sound pretty immature if you even need to ask this question. Don't deliberately cause another girl heartache just because some guy is cute. Would you like to have someone do that to you?
2007-03-30 22:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl don't do it. He will break your heart. Just be friends. Look in the past. Is he the kind of guy you want to be with??? I would say no. Don't get your hopes up. He might just be trying to get popular by dating you! Just don't. It's wrong and you know it and so does he. He will cheat on you.
2007-03-30 22:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by SuP3RmAn67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think he won't cheat on you? Stay friends. Once a cheater always a cheater and you nor anyone else will ever change him. If he was such an amazing and sweet guy he wouldn't be a cheater.
2007-03-30 22:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends do you really think that he would be faithful to you...yeah NO! Tell his girlfriend and let him know that you both know...teach this guy a lesson.
2007-03-30 22:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by tasgunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you want to hook up with a guy who has a girlfriend your dirt and gross.
2007-03-30 22:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away, he has a character flaw called cheater. He cant be trusted and you will end up getting hurt in the end.
2007-03-30 22:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why even stay friends with a lout like that Do you honestly think that he will treat you any differently from his other trophies?
2007-03-30 22:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by evon stark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about NOT being friends at all he is just using you =0)
2007-03-30 22:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just stay friends cuz you dont want to get hurt cuz that really sux. but i would stay friends
2007-03-30 22:14:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋