I was at a party a few days after Christmas. We all got drunk and she was fighting with me about her boyfriend. She made me leave, I was so drunk I passed out and ended up on someone's doorstep with alcohol poisoning and hypothermia. When the police and Ambulance were called they all left the house they were at, so they wouldn't get into trouble. Two houses away, she knew it was me. After everything I did for her she left me for dead in the snow. She choose a guy over her 7 year best friend. When the Ambulance came I was having Seziures and choking. My family was there after being called and I stayed in a hospital for a week. She left me there, never said sorry, and didn't call my house, like she didn't care at all. Now she wants me to be her friend, like nothing happened. I still feel alot of pain from this, and no one knows my side of the story. I should forgive something that cold. It was her party and she stabbed her best friend in the back. What, forgive that, seriously, REALLY
2007-03-30 15:17:51 · 8 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds as though you have learned a lot already from your experience. Go with your gut feeling, or your inner voice - that is your real truth and will help guide you when you are in a situation where you aren't sure what to do. I agree that she didn't act like a true friend, and I would be careful trusting her again. You might want to avoid ever getting that drunk again, as you could have had other even more serious consequences had someone not have found you and called the ambulance. Take care.
2007-03-30 15:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't but you have to take into consideration that she was drunk and you brain dose not work well under those conditions you need to talk to her and tell her how scarred you are from that event. more than like either she did not know what she was doing or feel very guilty about the entire mess and is afraid to confront you about so you confront her. always try to mend a broken friendship if it can be mended. give her a chance to give her side of the story.
2007-03-30 22:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by limegreen1@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ya'll were all drunk, what makes you think she realized that she left you behind, if she was as drunk as you were she had no idea what was going on. Hope this taught you a lesson that drinking is not good for you or anyone.
2007-03-30 22:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boy, you'd be a dunce to remain her friend, because she is not a friend to you, you are absolutely right! What a chump to leave you there like that!!!
2007-03-30 22:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely not give her a second chance ...with friends llike her who needs enemies,right.Girl you were in need of that best friend and she bailed ...not cool.Find a new and better best friend because she is not worth it....
2007-03-30 22:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dodgegirl62 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to be ugly but if you are old enough to drink , you should be old enough to find your own way home ALWAYS set up plan B
2007-03-30 22:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by pumpkin25 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forgive her BUT don't be friends with her!! she wasn't and never will be a friend to you.
2007-03-30 22:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by leapyrangels 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must be really co-dependent. OMG
NO!!
2007-03-30 22:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋