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You have become a doormat and he has lost all respect for you. It doesn't keep a guy happy to act with no self respect like a sick puppy wanting to be petted. Stop giving him so much attention and start living your own life. I promise you when you have no self respect, your BF will not respect you either. Don't try so hard.

2007-03-30 15:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1 0

Read the book, " He's just not that into You"! You will be treated only the way you allow someone to treat you. Stop it. Why are you letting him do this to you? I have been there many times and now I am all grown up. If I can just get thru to one woman, I will be a happy girl. If he treat you like crap, it's simple. Don't let him. Break up! It's inevitable. If your trying, then as soon as you stop, he will go. So stop trying, cause the real deal is waiting for you. It happened to me and it took 49 yrs to realize that.

2007-03-30 15:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by chinarain53 2 · 0 0

Because he can be. You're making it clear to him that he can be unkind to you and you'll take it and not leave. You've become a doormat.

Why would you want to keep someone who would be mean to you? Apparently he doesn't care for you, or he wouldn't treat you that way.

Cut him loose and move on. There are tons of other guys out there. No need to waste time on one who just isn't into you.

2007-03-30 15:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1 0

If trying to keep someone makes you sad and he is mean to you I think you need to consider if this relationship is worth it. Sounds very unhealthy to me and you could do better. Move on don't waste your time with someone who doesn't respect you!

2007-03-30 15:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by Karma 2 · 0 0

When u give a guy too much of what he wants it makes u a doormat. Don't play games with him but don't give him everything he wants and don't act dependent upon him that scares men away they see it as a sign of weakness. Alot of men (real men) like a woman that is independent and knows that she doesn't need a man to define her. If you're going to be with a guy it should be because you like him and enjoy being with him not because you feel like you need a man to complete you.

2007-03-30 15:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sometimes men take advantage of women who are too sweet and kind to them, actually let me re-phrase that, sometimes boys take advantage. Once they become men they appreciate a good women. If your guy is being mean to you, then the reason why is irrelevant, being mean is unacceptable.........period. Accept that and begin your life as an independent sexy woman!

2007-03-30 15:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by highheels_friend 1 · 0 0

it is because you try so hard and you let him get away with it. he already knows you're a door mat and he'll continue to wipe his feet on you. Trying to reverse the situation now is almost impossible. You should start over and raise hell the first time they mistreat you in anyway.

2007-03-30 15:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

if you are trying hard and your are sad then walk away. It might seem really hard but the right relationship while it must be maintained it won't hurt you like that.

2007-03-30 15:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

You're just dating an as shole. Find someone else someone that makes you happy instead of putting you down and making you sad.

2007-03-30 15:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 0 0

I'm sorry that you feel this way. he really isn't your boyfriend if he makes you feel that way. He obviously isn't in love with you, and doesn't care about you. Lose him. If you break up with him, you'll feel better, and then you can begin living your life at full speed again, without him weighing you down.

2007-03-30 15:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Hmm... ? 2 · 0 0

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